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Avoid the infamous BioWare ninjamances in Mass Effect 1
There are posts around about it but it never hurts to throw it up again, bc let’s be honest it’s just really awkward to be dating someone without knowing it.
This ScreenRant article details the conversation options to stop a romance with each Ashley, Kaiden, and Liara before it begins. If you missed that, or started a romance by accident, it also recommends how to cut the relationship off later, to at least avoid it being flagged for future games — if not avoiding an interesting time for the apparently socially awkward Commander Shepard.
This BioWare Social Network post also adds a helpful detail, explaining how each of the three crew mates refers to Shepard as “Commander” if you have successfully closed off the romance.
But at the end of the day, even though it’s easy to accidentally input “yes” to a romance, the game isn’t too much of a jerk about it, and you have plenty of obvious “out” points should you find yourself engaged in one unintentionally. Just say no every time someone mentions romance and you’ll be off the hook. Plus tbh, at this point it’s a rite of passage to have a hilarious misunderstanding with your (evidently) rather excited crew mates. If nothing else, the whole thing is good for a laugh.














