Ok so in h&h it's heavily implied that the spirits set udva and obvis up together in a "come on, I'm trying to answer your prayers. He's gay. He's into you. Make a move." sense and basically, udva was praying to Iyaan Parraich who was more than happy to play divine wingman.
Also that Iyaan and Nama were probably watching and going "your son is really oblivious" "i know. *sigh* he really needs to forgive himself for my death, it wasn't his fault. He deserves to be happy." *obvis and udva continue to not get it* "you know, it would be easier to answer their prayers IF THEY LISTENED!"












