Internal Community Hatred
this is not an invitation for argument, this is just me venting/rambling. if you dont agree either unfollow or ignore.
if you do agree, feel free to tell me/add anything i missed.
im sick of the (binary) trans community. not all of it, just some parts of it. what seems to now be the vast majority of us (both on and off of tumblr) are people who think “there are only two genders”, or something to that effect.
i can understand the confusion about the unusual mogai labels- no comment on that, to each their own so long as youre being respectful- but ive been seeing things like hate on the more common identities such as agender and genderfluid from other trans people. just... leave people alone?? its not that hard??? as long as they are genuinely what they say they are, and they arent causing any harm, then leave them the fuck alone. especially the younger kids.
over 90% of the people i see being attacked online are younger teenagers exploring their identity. i get that a fair amount of them will probably change their labels, heaven knows i have done that plenty of times, but there is nothing wrong with not knowing/understanding/being unusual/whatever the case may be.
just because you dont like/understand someone elses labels doesnt mean you get to shit on them.
just because you dont like/understand someones presentation doesnt mean you get to shit on them.
just because you dont like/understand how awkward/inexperienced someone is doesnt mean you get to shit on them.
“cringe compilations”, unless posted with permission from the subject, are harmful. everyone has different motives and some of you may not care what happens to the people you are laughing at (i wont make an attempt to educate the inhuman who dont care).
there is nothing wrong with someone being different from you. i get that some labels and identities can be confusing and/or harmful to the community but just educate people, hatred only leads to unnecessary harm.
no-one will ever fully understand what someone else feels, no matter how eloquent they are. everyone experiences things differently and in indescribable ways.
