Questions, Answered - Emotional IQ 101/On Emotional Mastery
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Relllll interesting question from a mastermind group;
(in the sense that I got to percolate-like-deliver some of the GAMEEE-CHANGING ideas that have been bouncing around my dome for a whileeeeee/aeonzzzzz but, due to a lack of the « Proper »—read, Right’ Triangle...hehehehe ;)—Time/Space socio vibezzzzz conditions) ;
and it might seem like I answereddd radicalllyyy NOT what he asked for but I hope you can stick with me...
It,
ALLLL,
makes sense..
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Q - I think there is a danger of friendzoning here though, if you don't incorporate some teases, and remind them this is man to women. any tips on how to maintain man-to-woman dynamics?
A -
I loveeee vocal emotional intonation patterns
Like
You know how RSD teaches classical
Intonations;
Breaking rapport/Welcoming rapport?
I jib' that up a notch by focusing more on the "particular piece of melody and accompanying tempo of the ambiance at hand", if you will
Then the textbook right answer for that moment
Like
I fully believe
11/10
Deals are STR888 FUKNN losttt
Cos the person went Breaking Rapport ("cos that's what's an alpha is meant to do") as opposed to having had serenaded dat nigga
Imo
It's the GAMECHANGING difference, and reason, why you tend to find more effective female communicators, across alllll layers and levels of leadership roles (classic, and non-) , than you do males, in this day and age
Its like, at some point, we subconsciously realized that emotional continuity matterssssss
Case-In-Point: Nipsey Hussle, "Victory Lap"
#y33t 🤓
So the way you intonate (kinda like dat slow-building, bass "garroowwl", done just at the right moment--i.e., when you feel it drawing upon or calling forth that spice of Root_Essence Masculine Energy from you, NOTT this continual incessant "gotta show em up" typa vibe) will be like the pulling of her way when ur fukkn doggystyle..😊
THAT'S--LITERALLY--the idea of Freestyling, and Riffs!
"Go-In-Ing With The Flow"
Cos u have to remember that at the end of the day, that person might be cooler or way more valuable than you; wealth, relations, status, health, or just sheeeer fact that they're a mom or dad with kids;
So Humility+Empathy ALWAYS Trumps Everything else, bridging all doooz geo-socio-econo-politico/institutional gaps inbetween
Personally, that's why I lovedddddd Tyler's RSD Freetour on "the game is fun as hell. Small chunk your way into awesomeness" or something like that
Its like
Dat Iconic,
<lookatGIFnow>
Funny enough
Hate to get political but it has connotations
I think THAT'S why Trump is sooo successful
Even when he's berating ppl on media, there's alwayssss that lighthearted undertone
And for a President to communicate so chilly, its quiteee a shellshock
Especially for ppl who grew up in eras where it was all militant, closed door style dialectics lul
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