Be nice Goddamit -reidulberg (about me)
if you dont know me yet then maybe take a look at this. Evidently, i am Reid and i was born in toronto, ontario, canada may 25 1995 and that makes me 16. i love anything to do with having a good time. I absorb positive atmospheres like a sponge which isnt allways the best thing because it works the other way as well. I tend to point out other peoples faults which doesnt always please them. I dont do it because im perfect, i do it because if something was wrong with me and some one pointed it out then id try to fix it. In terms of friends, i like having friends that even when they’re in a bad mood or seem angry about something, they still end up being able to have a conversation with you. Being able to continue a conversation is a great skill and most of my friends became so because of a simple conversation.
I believe that talking alot can fix a shitload of problems in the world. Im not trying to give the classic “peace no violence” speech. I am talking about in your everyday life. Is someone pissing you off? figure out why they might be pissing you off. not everyone goes around trying to piss people off. I, for example tend to talk alot when i meet someone new. This is a problem with girls because it turns into me just being annoying. I usually ask tons of questions, give allot of complements and i dont mean to annoy the girl by doing so. My only aim is to be friendly and hopefully get to know the person a little better. If they only asked why im talking so much, I wouldnt seem like some annoying desperate guy. Instead, most choose to give the one word response. fuck that. thats the kind of shit that just tells the other person “im a douche bag and i am so important and cool that im not even going to conjure up ONE full sentence as a response”. SO ANYWAYS the whole point of this paragraph is to say, learn to communicate with people. Youll find that allot of those people that you found to be idiots are actually really interesting people. Also, people dont talk the same online. For example i wouldnt do this kind of thing or ask those girls so many questions like i told you about. SO dont judge someone based off their “facebook” identity.
Next. Try complementing people more often. even if its something that seems stupid like “your a really great person :)”. Those kinds of things can change someones bad mood into a good one. Even if you dont really mean it, a complement goes along way and can help friendships/ relationships stay together. Even complement the people that you dont like. Think about it, telling someone to leave you alone only works if they listen to you. someone who hates you probably doesnt listen anyways. so, be nice to him/ her and then when you want them to do something for you, theres a way better chance that they will actually do it.
Next. just because you just met someone, does not entitle you to judge them. Think about it, everyone does stupid shit. think about if someone met you RIGHT when you do or say something stupid. most people would assume that your always like that. SOO dont do that, give people chances.
anyways no one will probably read this far so ill just stop it here. i hope, if you do read this, go out and be nice to people. save the pissed off for when you get home and scream in a pillow (i dunno lol). ANYWAYS sorry that none of this was the least bit organised. maybe ill write some more if people like ‘em. Thanks for reading :)