My thoughts on the UltimaAlmighty situation
Post on this “situation”:
http://starbotdubs.tumblr.com/post/156291102014/walkingmelonsaaa-maxoutoften
Ultima’s “Apology”:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHp6mx4HnkY&t=5s
I just watched his video and no I will NOT forgive him. His acts were not thought through and were not "mistakes". But really, since I have never known what it's like to be in a relationship, I can only “kind of” sympathize with him.
First of all, he really loved Starbot Dubs, and he did everything he could to get closer to her. Unfortunately, no matter how much one does for another, it really depends on if they really appreciate each other. Considering that Ultima said that he did everything for her but still doesn't understand why Starbot tried to break up with him, he is either really inexperienced in dating or just simply doesn't look into his love's perspective. He also tried to get really close to Starbot in a way / pace that she didn't like, and Ultima not slowing down for her is all his fault. But really, as stupid and as inexperienced that action was, he was either too comfortable and relaxed with his life or just straight up stupid and inexperienced.
Second of all, he must've been really down-hearted after being broken apart from his love. Of course, he shouldn't really be trusted after the way he approached Starbot, but to be honest I never heard of him harassing anyone else after Starbot, so hopefully he learned not to do "that" anymore. (unless u count the interviews as harassment, which I would). But really, imagine how sad and desperate he became from the break-up to want to start interviewing all of these people. I really believe that he was a good person, but it was a horrible choice to harass Starbot and start trying to get replacements after they broke up. I feel bad for him for feeling down about breaking up, but really, he should've waited for redemption before trying to find new love.
Yes, of course every bad person is bad mostly because of what they learned as they grow up, but this doesn't mean that he should be forgiven at the moment. In fact, it's the very reason why he shouldn't be forgiven, or else he wouldn't learn his lesson - if it REALLY was all a big "mistake". I feel like "mistake" is an understatement for all of this, because all of this happened aligning with his emotions and decisions. I truly feel bad for him and the things he had done, but he has yet redeemed himself to be forgiven.