Dean x Lydia uvu
who holds the umbrella when it rains: more than likely dean would insist on holding it, but knowing lydia she’ll probably have his arms wrapped around her from behind while they try and hurry to shuffle under the awning of her front door. she’d try and be all grumpy when the rain wets the ends of her waves, coming in from the sides, but it wouldn’t take long for her to slip into short little giggles. honestly i wouldn’t be surprised if the two of them just ditched the umbrella all together, whether its because they’re bickering like little kids on how to properly hold it to keep the rain out for both of them, or as some playfully bold move on one of their ends. always teasing.
who is the grumpiest in the morning: DEAN BEAN. despite the fact that i as a mun detest mornings, i can see lydia being radiantly active during them. she enjoys fresh sunlight, waking up and having plenty of time before afternoon hits. as soon as she wakes up she wouldn’t hesitate to curl and vine herself through each of his limbs and pepper kisses across his face to wake him up. she’d ignore his grumpy lil mumbles. on occasions where she knows he needs it, she may let him sleep, but honestly i wouldn’t count on it.
who worries more when the other is sick/hurt: dean. tbh i see him being a lot more panicky that something drastic is wrong when she might only have nothing more than a mere cold, whereas lydia is very level headed with sicknesses and injuries alike, given her digging into the medical field. she’d just roll her eyes at his paranoia, but she wouldn’t be able to help kissing him for it, whispering against his mouth that she’s fine. but she’d let him baby her however he needed to calm himself. she knows the amount of loss he’s suffered, so whatever she can do to assure him he’s stuck with her, she will.
who plays pranks on the other: both of these little shits. more than likely they’d branch out into a full on war. all i can imagine is mischievous little snickering and shrieks as as lydia sprints down the hall after pulling something on him, and him just barreling down after her and scooping her up onto his shoulder. she’ll do a lot of silly things to get his attention, especially if he’s drawn into some sort of paperwork or a case.
who is always the first to suggest cuddling on the sofa: dean. sometimes lydia will sprawl out with her head rested at the opposite end, but he’ll end up wrapping his hands around her ankle and tugging her til she cooperates to either come sit in his lap and give him kisses, or curl up in front of him so he can spoon her.
who insists on creating nicknames for the other: lydia forever. aside from the normal ‘ babe ‘ or ‘ baby ‘, she’d throw in some playful, warmly-hummed lil things like sugar bottom, and tbh probably deenie weenie until he gets frustrated enough to shut her up with kisses. moral of lydias behavior always: to win kisses.
who drools on the other when they’re asleep: probably dean. precious lil babe entwined around her from behind with his face buried into the crook of her neck, or maybe even at some point when she’s awake in the morning he’d curl up onto her chest and hug himself around her. lydia’s a near silent sleeper aside from her night terrors. she wouldn’t be grossed out, though, she’d just tease him for it.
who says ‘I love you’ first: lydia. she’d understand wholeheartedly ( this is huge, huge huge huge head cannon for her ) that those words might not be something she hears from dean, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t feel it for her. she’d whisper it against his mouth for the first time after they make love, interrupt him in the middle of him acting goofy or getting really into a topic she knows nothing about. fuck, she would love him so much. she wouldn’t say the words often, because she doesn’t want him to feel pressured to return it. but the way she says it, just, its an i love you, and it’s okay if you can’t tell me. i know. i know. i know. UwU