October 2018 #WAOTM is Hannah Ellenson ‘08
Shelly Anand ‘08 and Hannah Ellenson ‘08 in Jerusalem in 2009.
I’m nominating my best friend Hannah Ellenson ‘08 for Wellesley Alum of the Month (WAOTM) because she is one of the best things I got out of my time at Wellesley. We met at orientation during our first week at Wellesley -- playing SHEpardy (remember the Sexual Health Educators?). Hannah was the leader of one team, I was the leader of the other, and she knew way more than I did about sexual health. We became instant friends and have built over 14 years of powerful friendship.
Hannah has dedicated her life’s work to social justice and finding peace in the Middle East, literally. She focuses on finding ways to support Palestinians and build relationships between Palestinians and Israelis. She is definitely no PEP (another term I learned from her, Progressive Except for Palestine). She has difficult conversations in the Jewish community about the rights of Palestinians and how the Jewish community needs to work towards a resolution with their Palestinian brothers and sisters.
She is also just a wonderful person. If anything, Hannah has taught me the importance of learning to say “no,” of knowing my limits, and while recognizing that there are many atrocities in the world, telling me it is not my job to solve them all. She has taught me the importance of self-care and is always there to tell me that I’m enough, that there is nothing about me that I need to change, and that is ok to stop and rest.
Hannah and her amazing wife Becca are expecting their first child this winter (Becca should be awarded best Wellesley spouse of the year-- just don’t tell my husband Eric because he is in competition for this coveted title). I am so excited for Hannah and Becca to start this next chapter. Hannah is already an amazing caregiver to everyone in her life (as her mother Jackie said when we noticed this in her our first year at Wellesley, “it’s her way”). This little baby couldn’t ask for more amazing parents.
I”m so proud of Hannah and the amazing woman that she is --- she is changing the world not just through her advocacy and commitment to finding a democratic resolution for Israelis and Palestinians, but also in her advocacy and commitment to those that she cares about and loves --- telling us that we are amazing just the way we are. I love you Hannue. --- Shelly
Hannah and Meagan [Froemming] Harmon ‘08 in Jerusalem in 2006.
Hannah, Meagan and Shelly in 2010.
Sitting down to write this, I thought it would be easy to put into words exactly what Hannah means to me and why she is such an incredibly deserving Wellesley Alum of the Month. But, like you’d expect from a friendship of 14 years (I think Shelly actually introduced me to Hannah the day after they met), there are so many moments to choose from and so many ways I’ve seen Hannah influence the lives of those around her that it is basically impossible to decide where to begin. I could write about how hearing Hannah talk Middle East politics our first year at Wellesley opened my eyes to traditions that I’ve come to fiercely love and to corners of the world I’d never imagined I’d see, but that now feel as much like home to me as Shabbat dinner at Hannah’s house did that first Fall Break. Or I could go on and on about Hannah’s sense of humor or her charm, or the hours we spent laughing together at Wellesley and beyond, often to the point of tears, which are some of my most precious memories.
But what I think is most important that you know about Hannah is her ability to bring out the best in those she loves. She inspires me and everyone around her to be the best versions of ourselves: to be interested and engaged and open to the world with all its possibilities, its joys. and its losses. She isn’t afraid to get real or share hard truths, but she does it with gentleness and, above all else, with empathy.
I was so excited when Hannah told me she and Becca are expecting. Having just had a baby myself, I knew Hannah was going to be amazing at the motherhood thing and I couldn’t wait to see her in action...the baby isn’t here yet, but, man, amazing doesn’t even come close to describing her as a mama. Seeing Hannah’s love for her family grow exponentially as she enters this new season of life is beautiful. She has navigated each change, each new feeling (and they’re all new with a first pregnancy!), each tough moment and each celebratory one, with a calmness and grace that is not at all surprising coming from her, but which is inspiring all the same.
Hannah advocates for causes she is passionate about in her professional life, she advocates for her friends and their happiness in her personal life, and now, seeing her advocate for her family in this new role of mother, I feel even luckier to have her on my side. Hans, thank you for all you do.
Thank you to Shelly and Meagan for this month’s WAOTM nomination.
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