Chapter 1: Welcome, Rotonda!
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Kumustasa Kalabasa! Welcome to my official blog site! Here, I share my experiences and thoughts that I have kept in my heart and mind for quite some time. This is like a diary where I pour out my secrets and let you take a peek into my world. This blog will cover the gray areas and what you want to know about me. I am excited to share my journey with you, and I hope you will join me as I open up about my life. Whether it's about my interests, advocacies, struggles, or victories, I promise to be as honest and open as possible. So, come and take a seat, and let's start the journey together.
Kaya naman kung sa tingin mong hindi mo nakikita ang sarili mo na magiging totoong kaibigan ko in the near future ay may pagkakataon ka pa para umalis sa page na ito at kalimutang minsan kang nakarating dito dahil ako na mismo ang nagasasabi sayong hindi ka makakatagal sa mga chika at talak ko dahil sobrang haba. Kung tingin mo naman ay magkaibigan talaga tayo then, ang page na ito ay para sayo. Dito mo matutuklasan yung ibang mga bagay na hindi ko nasasabi noon. Perfect avenue na rin ito para magtanong ka sa akin anonymously sa mga susunod kong mga post para naman walang sisihan sa mga tanong at sagot. Tara, simulan na natin ang unang bahagi ng aking page, ang introduction na puro kuwento.
The Basics
My name is Toei, also known as Rad by my parents, relatives, classmates, and close friends. I was born in Marikina City and spent most of my childhood in Quezon City, where I finished my studies. Growing up, I learned to speak Tagalog and English fluently and later picked up Korean through my love for K-pop. I can also converse in Cebuano Bisaya, Waray, and Mandarin Chinese, which I learned from my travels and exposure to different cultures. Recently, I have been trying to learn Ilocano, Kapampangan, Japanese, Thai, and Vietnamese to expand my linguistic horizons. Moreover, I can also write in various writing systems, including the traditional Philippine scripts of Baybayin, Hanunuo, and Kulitan. I currently work as a customer service representative in an in-house contact center in Pasig City.
I have two families - my biological and adoptive families. My biological father used to work as a bus driver, while my biological mother worked as a domestic helper. I am the result of their forbidden relationship. Though I was able to meet my biological father twice, I have not had the chance to meet my biological mother since I was born. Despite their situation, they chose to give me up for adoption, and a couple took me in.
As an only child in the adoptive family, I grew up knowing that my adoptive mother had an operation that made it impossible for her to have a baby. Unfortunately, my adoptive father chose to leave my adoptive mother for his mistress, separating them. At a very young age, I had to learn to be independent and navigate life independently. Though my circumstances were difficult, I am grateful for the love and support my adoptive mother provided me, and I am proud of the person I have become today.
As a gay and proud individual, I believe in using my voice and platform to advocate for important causes, such as HIV and AIDS awareness. Aside from my passion for advocacy work, I also enjoy exploring new cultures through food and travel. In my free time, I channel my love for animals by rescuing cats, and I currently have ten furry friends at home.
The Purpose
The platform I created serves a multifaceted purpose. Firstly, it allows me to share my thoughts about anything under the sun, expressing myself freely and without inhibition. Additionally, I want to use this platform to share my knowledge in several fields, passing on what I've learned to others and hopefully help them along the way. Furthermore, I aim to use this blog to share my advocacies and passions, inspiring others to take action on issues that matter to them.
In doing so, I aim to clarify any issues around me, setting the record straight and dispelling misunderstandings. This blog also serves as an opportunity to clear the gray areas and can of worms created by my biological and adoptive family, allowing me to put these issues to rest and move forward with a clear mind. Ultimately, this blog is a tool for self-expression, growth, and advocacy, and I am excited to see where it takes me.
The Plan
As of now, there are several things that I am focused on achieving. Foremost, I want to ensure that all my bills are paid and updated, giving me peace of mind and financial stability. To help manage the stress of demanding workloads, I plan to travel occasionally, taking some time to relax and unwind. I also hope to meet new people who share my interests and values, allowing me to expand my network and find a sense of community.
In doing so, I also plan to declutter my circle of friends, letting go of those who only seek my company when it benefits them. Finally, I will continue to prioritize my advocacy work and passion projects, using my skills and resources to impact the world around me positively. By taking these steps, I am confident I will achieve the balance, growth, and fulfillment I seek.
The Future
I aspire for a future when the gray areas created by my birth and adoptive families are eventually cleared. I look forward to the day when others' one-sided arguments and reasonings are refuted, and my side of the story is heard and understood. As I look to the future, I aim to discover my happiness, satisfaction, and tranquility. I intend to forge deeper bonds with the folks who consider me a part of their circle as I reach this objective. I am prepared to make the challenging decision to let go of those who have hurt me too much in the past, even though I know that doing so will need me to do so.
I will continue to support causes that are dear to my heart and follow my hobbies with the same fervor and commitment as I always have in my quest for happiness. I will find the contentment I'm looking for if I stay true to myself and concentrate on the things that count. Above all, I imagine a world where people may get to know the genuine me without relying on hearsay or rumors. May we all aspire for a future where empathy, understanding, and open communication are cherished and respected, and everyone's unique stories are appreciated and respected.
You can visit my AskFM or CuriousCat sites to shoot me your questions. I will love to hear from you if you have any questions, comments, or feedback. Thank you again for your support, and I look forward to continuing to share my journey with you.
