When you love something or someone deeply from your heart, it's only natural to not being able to accept sudden changes. I would know. So i totally understand where you might be coming from. And by the way of your words i think you have been a fan for a long time now. I was a part of another fandom of a band before BTS. Idk much about what's going on with the BTS boys or their company. I'm sorry if i seem like i don't care about it, it's just my understanding about these things aren't that good to make comments. I have seen how these guys have enough freedom to do their own things without asking anything from anyone about anything! So i just don't seem to think they are ever forced to do the things they wouldn't want to do. So even if it's the slightest i think the guys don't exactly mind what they are doing at the moment. Given how the results aren't exactly disappointing. Also being someone who loves trying out new things and ambitious, i would guess maybe that's something they are doing as well. But that's just my opinion, i don't know what's really up. I just know as long as it's not anything that goes against my morals i have nothing against it. It's the same for anyone else even.
Anyways, that's not my what i'm here to talk about, sending you yet another ask! It's just i hope you would find your own peace and joy in your heart regardless what these guys or anyone else ever decides to do. In the end it's their choice to make. I don't think i'm making much sense anymore so sorry if this appears to be a mindless babbling, just ignore it please.
I looked at this matter as a person trying to not pose my opinions or beliefs on another person. It's a personal things ig, to be a better person. That was the whole point why i bothered to send that first ask.
The boys are mature people who can decide for themselves, and i would support them like i mentioned before as i would for any of my dear ones. With no imposed ideals of my own, even if i disagree, i wouldn't, cause that's not my place to do so.
I just wish we all would realize this simple fact. Cause this way no would have to be forced to be someone or do something they don't want or didn't decide for themselves. There are so many people out there feeling poisoned by the voices of others, and that is what bothers me. I never like anyone telling me what to do, i would never want anyone facing that either. I would rather cheer for all and everyone to be able to do the things they want to do, people they want to become and celebrate freedom like that!🎉🎉
And if we can't seem to be able to support it, well i just pray we still find peace in our hearts and be able to wish goodness.
Please ignore this stupid ask which is unnecessarily long and turned out to be nothing but a personal ranting!! Really sorry! I just carried away. You support or not, i hope for you to be happy regardless of anything. I didn't expect you to answer the last ask either since not most people can agree with something that can be contradicting to their view. So that was very big of you.
And joy and best things to anyone who might be reading. If they do that is. You don t have to reply if you don't want. Stay blessed my dear. Peace and joy!! ✌🎉
Thank you for wishing for my happiness, I wish you the same. I'm jealous of you for being able to take it so easily and not be affected ^^!
I will just post this, if others want to read it. But it's too long for me to answer ^^!