It’s starting to feel...
As if it’s impossible to have a relationship where you don’t have any issues from social media. Even people in general, like everyone wants to find love, but people also aren’t willing to realize certain people aren’t any good for them while they’re trying to form a relationship. And see that’s the thing times have changed, before you had to knock on someone’s door to simply figure out if they were available. Nowadays everyone’s available with the click of a button. I understand people have always been unfaithful, but social media has given humans the power to be more toxic than ever before.
And another thing if you are getting to know someone and have a “friend” which you’ve sexually had an encounter with, you need to come to realization that you are no longer friends. The second you two decided to cross that friendship boundary you forever changed whatever it was that existed prior. And just out of respect to anyone you may be growing with it’s probably more respectful if you kept those people as far as possible. You may have talked to them before your partner, but need to realize it’s not about sacrifices yet more of respect for your relationship. I understand people should have trust, but let’s be real. No one wants to deal with someone who still has the past involved. It’s okay to think about the past and talk about it so your partner understands you, but literally having someone of the past still relevant will simply destroy everything you’ve worked so hard towards. And I’m simply sharing this right now because I have so many mixed feelings I’ve been dealing with. Like dead ass I just want someone I can love limitless and they don’t give me any outside bullshit whatsoever. I get it things won’t always be perfect, but a relationship shouldn’t even be complicated to begin with. Shit should be simple and flowing smoothly because both people want it more than anything...
