A group of my irl friends all happen to be going to the local Renn Faire this weekend, and we set up a group chat for it in Discord. ... Which inevitably led to:
Certain people in the group chat: *Getting extremely excited for the weekend, spinning up plans, trying to get everyone to agree to a specific arrival time, agenda, etc, blatantly presuming they're going to get to drag everyone along as a single group the entire time*
Me (extremely introverted), having to be the wet blanket on their enthusiasm: "Yeaaaah, so, I love y'all but if I spend the entire day with any group of people (my partner exempted) I'm going to be extreeeemely oversocialized, run out of spoons in the first hour, and have a miserable time? So no? ... Uh, we can meet up for specific shows and for food, though? Again, I *do* love y'all, I am just very small and have no money social spoons"