When did a troll stop becoming a fictional being and become real?
I consider myself extremely lucky that I haven’t been subjected to THAT much bullying in my life. I mean back in secondary school anyone and everyone was free game for some kind of bullying or harassment. But I don’t believe it had any lasting impact on me.
Throughout my teenage years social media was just becoming popular and important to young peoples lives. MSN messenger was massive during my teens and chat rooms were frequented. Though I tended to just chat with already established friends, occasionally searching for someone new to talk too. I started to use Facebook when travelling in 2007 so a year after I finished school. I am so thankful that Facebook was still an emerging platform; there could have been some very incriminating photos of me uploaded. But this raises the issue that since social media has become such an integral part of our lives we feel we should share EVERYTHNG from our lives. The good and the bad.
Young people are utilizing this medium to satisfy their insecurities, posting pictures of themselves in the hope of being validated by their peers with likes. I have a friend actually, who uploads photos of herself, in what I can only describe as a cry for attention. Yet the responses that these acts ignite can make the person feel far worse than before they posted that photo or status. I am neither condoning nor condemning these actions these are just what I have seen first hand.
I think the idea around bullying and cyber bullying needs to be clarified. From the research that I’ve done there seems to be a misconception of what bullying actually is. In the academic world the most commonly accepted definition of bullying has three components:
-Aggression
-Repetition
-Imbalance of power
So this means that one off offences, or a disagreement between former friends doesn’t really fall into the category. The media also has a hand in this misconception of the word bullying, by using it as an umbrella term for everything from harassment, stalking too abuse. Interestingly Danah Boyd notes that it’s adults who use the term more loosely and that teenagers understand what the term means and apply it correctly.
Cyber bullying is normally between people who are familiar to each other. Trolling on the other hand is something completely different. Trolls deliberately set out to anger and upset an individual, who generally is unknown to them. One troll describes the process as “If you don’t fall for the joke, you get to be in on it.” So pretty much if you see a comment that seems outrageous, absurd, and angers you greatly chances are someone has deliberately written it in the hope of catching their next unsuspecting victim.













