I feel for this man 100%. As a woman, we all have different situations to why we have/had abortions — a rape, we can’t afford the child but there are options of putting it up for adoption(which most women don’t enjoy doing), or even medical reasons. Men who communicate with you telling you that they’re willing to take care of you and the child or just take care of the child altogether; Men like him are extremely rare. There are women who do go to the clinic without even telling their men, but what women forget to recognize is you’re also damaging your body when you continuously do abortions. I don’t support abortions depending on the circumstance, but if you’re going to the clinic just to abort the child so your man doesn’t know that you’re pregnant because you were either being unfaithful or you’re not ready; I truly feel like the man has the right to know and have some kind of say like him! It isn’t fair if you’re dealing with a man and he’s the kind of guy who actually wants kids. Abortions are a sensitive topic but I feel like it needs to be addressed! I understand if you and your man didn’t plan it accordingly. Don’t act like you weren’t having sex with no protection and being more careful. Be mindful. Be more aware. Be open about your needs & wants.
