ยป ๐ ๐ต๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐พ๐ธ โข ๐ ยป
(a reality check)
Live authentically. Donโt let anyone try to dull your shine. And if they do, theyโre not meant to be in your life anymore.
You shouldnโt have to worry about what anyone has to say or think about you because itโs all their own assumptions. Just like you can think you know someone but everything you assume about them is just thatโ an assumption; how you perceive them. Different people are gonna perceive you in different ways and thatโs exactly why you shouldnโt be afraid wear that one cute outfit youโve had sitting in your closet for the longest while or dye your hair half the darkest blue, half the brightest green and why you should embrace your all your quirks because they are what makes you, you.
At the end of the day, some people are only concerned with their own problems or whatever theyโve got going on in their lives and you canโt blame them.
However, weaponized incompetence is a thing and it can come from the most unexpected people. Unfortunately, I recently realized this is what someone close was doing to me. And unfortunately part two, I have crippling anxiety. Fortunately, I surprise myself every time I notice someone doing something to purposely insult. So trust it will be dealt with.
This is why I feel like self love & respect is so important because thereโs no way you should be allowing anyone to make you feel like you are less than them because youโre not.
This is a reminder to myself and you, always put your needs first, as well as your wants because theyโre what make you happy. You can be scared of what others think sure, but as long as you remember what I said then youโll feel better over time and everything will be fine.
Always be kind and put self-validation over anyone elseโs <3
















