Oct 26, 2025
People hear domestic discipline and think of patriarchy, religion, control— as if any form of structure must be born from doctrine.
But what we live isn’t about power taken; it’s about power entrusted. Our discipline isn’t moral law or dogma—it’s care in motion. It’s the way we stay connected, attuned, responsible for one another.
In the tradwife ideal, submission is demanded—by God, by culture, by gender. In ours, it’s offered. Freely, deliberately, with the full weight of awareness.
She belongs to me not because she must, but because she wants to. Because her obedience—is choice, trust made visible.
New essay on Substack: "Domestic Discipline ≠ Doctrine" On consent, freedom, and the quiet architecture of care.