KARMA FILES: XOXO 2020
ARIES
The Full Moon/Super Moon on April 7th, will most likely end a personal relationship that had potential to be longstanding. If some type of agreement for change can’t be reached between you and your significant other, it’s best to part company and move on.
When Mars enters your sign for a long cycle, June 29th - November 14th, you won’t be in your most diplomatic, harmonious or banned frame of mind, especially when Mars retrogrades, September 9th - November 14th. If you’re not able to think before you speak, there will be “fireworks” . It won’t be easy to be selfless. Therefore, keep your temper on an even keel and listen first before taking action or saying anything. At least, you should be able to preserve relationships that matter.
Venus, the planet of love, moves into Gemini (communication), April 4th - August 8th, during which time there’s a likelihood of “head-games” being played int he area of love, which won’t end well, especially when Venus retrogrades, May 13h - June 25th. Tact, tolerance and understanding won’t be easy, plus the fact thoughtless words spoken in the past could come back to haunt you.
Mercury retrogrades in Scorpio, October 14th - October 28th, indicating past intimate relationships could reappear, but not for the best. it would be wise to stay clear of this altogether, because the intent will not be in your best interests. In addition, the desire to “wander and explore” sexually will be strong. Caution is advised if this is acted upon. Outcomes will be very different from expected, most likely detrimental and probably create more karma in this area of life. Avoid getting involved in other people’s relationships completely.
Mercury will retrograde all the way back into Libra, October 29th - November 2nd, an indication past relationships will return temporarily. Unless a major change has occurred with the person/s in question, anything from the past should be dealt with very carefully, exercising discernment.
Love in 2020 for Aries will be “mine-field” of potential “blow-ups” if caution isn’t used. Therefore, putting one foot in front of the other with calm and balance, will be the best way to have a successful year of positive, harmonious love relationships.
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You carry a karma from the past, in which you found it difficult to express emotions in the area of love, through words or actions, which then manifested in a psychosomatic manner. As a result, now, especially in 2020 you must find a way to express your emotions in a healthy way that doesn’t have negative repercussions to you or the person you love. This also applies to feelings of guilt. Guilt must not be projected onto your significant other, or even harbored internally. Perhaps, by finding a way to write thoughts/feelings down first, you can then heal the karma of the past. Most of all be careful of attracting people into your life that magnify or exacerbate this karma..
TAURUS
The March 9th, Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo, greatly affects love and how you interact with your partner. If you’ve been feeling that somehow your needs are not being served and you haven’t discussed this with your significant other, the stars are not aligned for the relationship to continue in the same format.
Mercury enters Scorpio September 28th - October 28th, then again, November 11th - December 2nd. In-between these dates there is a retrograde in Scorpio, October 14th - 28th. This is the time to be most careful, because the aspect affects long-term love. There is no room for undermining, secrets or jealousy, because once the transit is in forward motion, everything hidden will begin to be exposed.
The Universal planetary nodes of the Moon will also be changing May 6th - January 19th 2022. Even though the aspect affects everyone on a broad scale, individuals will still feel it. Communication, truth, justice. learning, expansion of consciousness are character traits are going to be of importance, the transit falls in your house of intimate relationships, the past and karma. Once the cycle begins, or even close to it, the emphasis will focus on being honest, straightforward and verbal clarity. You have to be wiling to lay the foundation of love that makes both you and your partner happy. This means having the courage to speak up and decide what type of relationship you both want and a commitment you can both agree on.
The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius on December 14th, should, if you’ve been on a positive relationship path, open the door for new close intimate partnerships, that will be eep and more fulfilling than anything you’ve yet to experience.
Love relationships can work if both people involved are able to agree on what it’s going to be, then problems and unnecessary upset will be avoided. in 2020 and the future.
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The karma you’ll be facing in 2020, stems from lifetimes in ancient Rome during the Christian era, in which you carried both beauty and/or wealth. In these lifetimes you viewed and mocked the struggles of others in various scenarios, that brought great physical and emotional pain to the participants. In this lifetime, as a result of these experiences, those that enter your life in the area of love may have some “disability”, in mind, body or spirit, which you must not look down upon, otherwise they may do the same to you being your back or openly. Therefore, be careful of entering into a love-relationship without knowing the full details of the other person, then you can decide if it’s something you wish to participate in or not. This way you won’t feel that you’re being misled, used /manipulated negatively in any way shape or form. Accept others for who and what they are, because everyone has faults.
GEMINI
The Full Moon/Super Moon in Libra, April 7th, will be in your house of long-term love, an indication that how you love will change and perhaps even partners. This wile a time to let of of everything that you’r not happy with, having the confidence to let your partner know, then hopefully try to bring resolution.
With Jupiter in Capricorn until December 20th, karma in the area of intimate relationships will come to the forefront for your attention. This will place an even greater emphasis, with the New Moon Solar Eclipse in Capricorn, July 5th. This will be the tie to lay down the law and a new foundation to support growth and stability between you and your partner, even though this could be uncomfortable in many ways. Pluto remains in Capricorn until January 22nd 2024, and retrogrades April 25th - October 4th. Saturn is in Capricorn unto March 23rd, when it moves into Aquarius briefly, then return to Capricorn, July 2nd December 17th. Al this major Capricorn activity is a sign from the Universe, urging youth “clean house”, getting rid of lingering karma with people you’ve outgrown or who just don’t have your best interests at heart. This means you may have to repeat certain situations again in order to be clear about what they are, confront and then remove them from your life.
Venus in your sign, April 4th - August 8th, highlights self-worth with your ideas, perceptions and communication of them to others. However, when Venus retrogrades, May 13th - June 25th, you’ll have to rely on Self, if and when no-one is interested in what you have to say or even understands. Your perception of love could be misunderstood and cause friction. Writing things down will prove to be beneficial during this cycle, at least putting pen to paper fist will provide the clarity/understanding needed before you convey your thoughts. Throughout Venus retrograde in Gemini, be careful of circular thinking that get you nowhere except more confused.
When the Universal Nodes of the Moon switch to Sagittarius and Gemini, you’ll feel a strong urge to be forthright with others and the truth be known - at least your version of it. Courage, self-worth and confidence will be needed, which can only come from introspection on a deep level, to strengthen self-awareness. The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Sagittarius, December 14th, ushers in a new beginning of long-term love, that will have all the component parts for growth. It may even bring people from other cultures into your life, so you can have different experience and broaden your love horizons.
2020 love can be one of working harder to create relationships that are fairly based on mutual understanding of growth and honesty.
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In previous incarnations in the area of love you were always very generous to your significant other. However you carry the karma of giving material things, personal possessions to your partner but being very judgmental about their conduct, criticizing, finding fault. The result of doing this creates self-doubt, self-worth and lack of confidence, within your partner, which leads to later conflict. In 2020 you must try to overcome this karma and be more sensitive to their feelings, bearing in mind that ‘as you give out, so you receive” will manifest in other areas of life too., with people treating you the same way.
CANCER
Capricorn rules your house of long-term partnerships, therefore with so many astrology aspects in this house, namely, Pluto,Saturn and Jupiter, in addition to the New Moon Solar Eclipse, July 5th, this area of life will not be the same by the end of the year, major changes are in the stars. Saturn briefly moves into Aquarius, March 23rd - July 1st, during which time it’ll important to establish more independence when it comes to intimate relationships, the karma being, the tendency to be too dependent and/or smothering. Learning to be your own person in the context of a relationship will be of importance. Saturn moves back into Capricorn for the last time, July 2nd - December 17th, activating karma that keeps love stagnant, unable to grow or move forward. Whatever underlying problems still remain, now will be the time to confront them once and for all. Especially, issues concerning the foundation and strength of the relationship overall. Commitments will have to be changed or at least given serious re- consideration, taking responsibility for what you want/don’t want. Saturn moves permanently into Aquarius, December 18th - March 8th 2023 also joining Jupiter in Aquarius,. A time of perhaps being single or at least with more time for Self, will be more of an issue with Jupiter with Saturn in Aquarius, The question, how do you become a friend and lover will be of importance.
Pluto stays in Capricorn until January 22nd 2024. highlighting fear, insecurity and doubts that you keep to yourself but aren’t positive attributes for a successful love relationship. Whatever the fears are let them go and learn to deal with the rough and smooth cycles of love. This will be especially true when Pluto retrogrades April 25th - October 4th, during then you’ll be confronted with those fears as a result of “upheavals” that take place. At the same time, if single this retrograde is not a good cycle to start a new love relationship, because most likely something will be hidden from you that isn’t in your best interests.
Past lovers could also return when Mercury retrogrades in Aquarius, March 5th - March 10th.
While Mercury is in Scorpio September 20th - December 1st, the possibility of jealousy, intense emotions and jealousy are likely, in particular the retrograde cycle of Scorpio, October 14th - 28th. Staying alert and aware will circumvent negative scenarios occurring that would be hard to resolve.
2020 will be a challenging year for Cancer and love, but with a strong desire to overcome lingering karma and create the best possible love relationship, outcomes will be positive.
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In several previous incarnations, you chose to not use your instincts when it came to love, seeing the person of your affection in their true colors, because of this you experienced great pain and sorrow, when you discovered who they really were and their true i intent towards you. This year, you’ll be faced with this karma again and must therefore be careful of giving people qualities they don’t have, seeing what you want to see, hearing what you want to hear. Trust your instincts, as much as you maybe attracted to someone. This will empower you with the ability to avoid creating more karma of this type, in love and unnecessary hurt.
LEO
The activity in the house of permanent love is emphasized with Saturn moving into Aquarius March 23rd - July 1st, briefly. During this cycle, you’ll be in the position to decide whether you want a permanent love relationship, a relationship that involves seeing other people or no relationship at all. Saturn is in this house to teach you about love and happiness. What does that mean to you? Saturn moves back in to Capricorn, July 2nd - December 17th, into your house of work, health, service to Self and others. Another question, can you make time out of y9our busy schedule for love?
Neptune in Pisces, affects your house of karma, the past and intimate love, indicating that you have a “blind-spot” in this area of life. You must learn there are “consequences” for a person’s actions, if they’re not in harmony with Natural Law and cause hurt, pain and sorrow, without regard. Learning to follow the Golden Rule, treating others in the way you wish to be treated. When Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th, how you treat others will be a very major factor of which to be aware. Plus, things that are hidden may well be revealed, for better or worse. Neptune will be in Pisces until March 31st 2025.
The new Moon Solar Eclipse, December 14th, denotes a new cycle of change in the area of love/happiness, Opportunities could present themselves that have significant affect on current love-relationships and ones in the future. If you’re willing to take a risk and initiate significant changes in job/home, these changes could have positive affect on love.
2020 is a year of allowing the Universe to guide you forward, paying attention to how you treat others. Ultimately, in the long-run you’ll discover that Cause and Affect are real and we all reap what we sew, sooner or later. Therefore, being mindful of this fact will spare you a lot of difficulties/problems laying the foundation for positive outcomes in personal relationships.
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During 2020, tread carefully in the area of love and how you treat your partner/s. You have come into this life disbelieving there is Cause and Affect, in that a person’s actions have consequences. If you find yourself in situations this year, when love doesn’t seem to be going quite as you expected positively, stop for a second to give thought to past actions. The Universe has all the time in the world to put things in balance, when, where and how, are questions that can only be answered when karma manifests itself. Ego will always step in the way of consideration of another’s feelings, but to do this will only make it harder for healing of the karma to happen. Therefore, throughout the year, practice the Golden Rule, especially in love-relationships, so that healing of past karma can take place.
VIRGO
In the house of love, Pluto, Saturn and Jupiter all reside in the 5th house at the same time, in the sign of Capricorn. Pluto, highlights all the fear, insecurity, doubt and past issues that are in the way of love being successful and positive. Saturn is about stagnation, commitment, structures that no longer serve a positive purpose. Jupiter is the magnifying glass that shines a light on everything that is good/bad in love and in particular from childhood, because the house with all this activity is the house of childhood, happiness, love, risk and creativity. Jupiter being in this house adds a layer of protection to everything the house represents at this time. Jupiter is the protector of the Zodiac.
As all these points are converging in this house you have to possess a certain amount of self-awareness to be able to be introspective enough to notice when the Universe is confronting you with issues that need your attention. Issues that you’ve outgrown and no longer support a positive love relationship. The Universe requires that you become more of your own person and let go of the “child” that still aligns itself with that particular time-frame, has yet to move forward into the here and now. Have toe confidence to create “rules” that are in alignment with relationships that make you and your partner happy, not the rules of others.
Saturn retrogrades, July 2nd - December 17th for the last time before it moves into Aquarius permanently. Pluto retrograde April 25th - October 4th, Jupiter retrogrades may 14th - September 12th. Throughout these cycles all the above issues will be in the forefront for you to confront, so don’t be surprised if you feel overwhelmed with feelings that are memories of the past, good/not so good. The New Moon Solar Eclipse in Capricorn July 5th will bring a revelations and opportunity to really embark upon a new path of love /commitment with your partner, which, if mutually agreeable will bring positive results by the end of the year.
Neptune is in Pisces until March 31st 2025, in your house of long-term love. This is a blind-spot area to be aware of. You must be able to take-off the “rose-colored” glasses to see clearly the needs of your partner and avoid assuming things that are not real or true, which can cause conflict and unnecessary criticism. At the same time being wiling to do the “work” necessary for love to continually grow/evolve. Most of all, by applying an element of spiritually to love relationships, you’ll bring in a higher vibration of protection and union for the two of you.
When Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th, all the above issues will be more in focus for you to deal with. Meditation or similar modalities will help to uncover and discern what you need to learn and understand. Neptune is the ruler of Pisces, the sign that it’s in at this time. Pisces rules spirituality, so this is the key to obtaining the information needed to bring immense happiness into your love-life.
2020 is na year of letting go, growing up, realizing you have your own life to live with enough awareness to learn from the past, and your mistakes, using them as “stepping-stones” to achieve your hearts desire.
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You may or may not think it possible, but there is usually an answer for many of life’s problems and such is the case this year in the area of love. In previous lives, there was an intolerance towards others who were different in some capacity and as a result, whether it was obvious or not, caused pain and sorrow. Now, you ‘re faced with people being intolerant/insensitive toward you and your needs. It may seem that, regardless of how hard you try, or seem to be trying to be kind and tolerant, the same is rarely given to you, especially in love, where you need acceptance the most, or it is given but you feel it just isn’t enough. Positive affirmation is the key. If you repeat to Self before going to bed at night and during meditation that you’re a good, kind loving human being who will reach out to help others in need and deserves love in your life, with someone who has your best interests at heart, these affirmations will affect positive healing and change internally/externally.
LIBRA
Saturn moves into your house of love March 23rd - July 1st. for a brief stay, before it moves back into Capricorn for the last time, July 2nd - December 18th. While Saturn is in your house of love, happiness and risk, frustrations and anxiety over wanting love, security, rest, freedom and excitement, could cause erratic behavior that isn’t well thought through. Saturn will keep you stable secure and centered, holding you back from going off on tangents with certain individuals, as much as this may seem tempting. The task that Saturn brings is to build a solid, formidable structure for love and avenues of expression that bring happiness. Nothing less will do. If you try to “cut corners” Saturn will bring in Cause and Affect very quickly, so that the “lesson” is learned.
In addition, you may become aware of small faults/weaknesses that need to be strengthened, that are not favorable for a successful love relationship. Love that doesn’t have some type of commitment/structure will be problematic. It’s irrelevant what the commitment turns out to be, as long as you and your partner both agree. Lessons from past relationships that need to be confronted will also come to the forefront, in order for an understanding of what/who makes you happy, to be established. Self-image will also become an issue, but has to be addressed from within on a deep level. At the same time a parent may experience health issues, most likely the father, while Saturn is in Aquarius, so be prepared for visits home, love and childhood memories coming to the surface.
Personal growth and well-being, although not necessarily attributed to love will need to be looked. Diet, health, taking caef of Self, dental issues (Saturn), will all be at the top of the attention list, in order for you to transform from a caterpillar into a butterfly.
Jupiter will move into Aquarius, December 2020 - May14th 2021, during which time there’l be plenty of new lovers wanting your attention. As Jupiter is a magnifying glass, weaknesses in this area of life will be very obvious and need to be looked at.
Mercury retrogrades in Aquarius, very briefly, March 5th - 10th, a transit which could bring unexpected contact from a former lover. However, here today, gone tomorrow, their stay will be even briefer and would make better friends than lovers.
With Mars being in Aries and your house of long-term love, June 29th - January 7th 2021, it will seem as if nothing goes right in this area of life, especially when Mars retrogrades in Aries, September 9th - November 13th. It’s not wise to begin (Aries), any new relationships of meaning during this particular retrograde a lot of conflict will be the outcome.
Mercury retrograde in your sign, October 29th - November 2nd, therefore communication will be at its worst, unfortunately. Better to say little or nothing, rather than risk unnecessary disruption that could be irreparable.
With Uranus in your house of intimate love, until July 2025, the Universe will be bringing lessons of learning how to be an individual in the context of a sexual relationship. Deep intense relationships may start suddenly, then leave just as quickly, which maybe upsetting, but the Universe is sending a “message” to choose carefully who you want to be intimate with.
Overall, for Libra 2020 is gong to be a year of challenges with relationships and Self, realizing that love isn’t a romance novel, it takes hard work, commitment, respect and self-worth, for happiness to be attained.
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Realize this year, that many of the loves you’ve experienced, you’ve known before in some capacity. Interaction with these individuals wasn’t/isn’t always necessary for long periods off time, but merely for healing to occur of certain karmas. In 2020 when you come into contact with new people you feel affinity or attraction, give thought to the “lesson” that needs to be learned. If you ignore this fact, the karma will increase and prove to make partnerships with another harder than it needs to be. If you can also develop greater inner strength and fortitude to meet life’s challenges overall, dealing with love karma won’t seem to be such a daunting task. Great happiness can and will be the result of overcoming the past.
SCORPIO
Neptune in Pisces, February 12th 2012 - March 31st 2025, stays in your house of love, happiness, creativity childhood and risk throughout the entire cycle. The purpose of this transit is to help you open your eyes when it comes to love-relationships, so that you’re clearly aware of whom you’re getting involved with. This clarity will be the motivating factor to stop giving people qualities they don’t have, or seeing what you want to see or hear. Delusion in love has led to many disappointments, when you come to the realization that the person you’re with doesn’t fulfill expectations. The reality being, maybe they can’t. You have to be able to see this too.
If you live in a fantasy world of how love should be that isn’t even close to the har truth of what is actually going on, you set yourself up for tremendous heartbreak. Plus being a Scorpio, you would most likely blame the other person for the downfall of the relationship and harbor resentment, without looking at Self for the answers. It won’t be easy to learn this lesson, but you have quite some time to give it a try.
The time of the year to be on guard is when Neptune retrogrades, June 23rd - November 28th. This is when you’ll be at your most vulnerable and likely to slip up. Not a great time to start a love-relationship or take risks even with an exiting one because it won’t be based in reality. Instead, just go with the flow and don’t make any promises that could be broken later.
Uranus is in Taurus, March 7th 2019 - July 7th 2025, resting in your house of long-term love. During this transit new potential love interests will come and go just as quickly, but your love-life certainly won’t be boring. Beware of impulsive urges to explore, because these urges could create a lot of problems that would be hard to resolve. If you’re in an existing long-term relationship, it will be “tested” by the Universe to see if you appreciate its worth/value and whether the foundation is strong to remain in place during turbulent times. You’ll probably have to redefine the boundaries and freedoms of the relationship to avoid misunderstandings. The most difficult time will be during the retrograde, August 25th - January 14th 2020. Communication will be an important factor, in order for both you and your partner to be on the same page.
Finally, when the Nodes of the Moon switch to North Node in Gemini, South Node in Sagittarius, May 6th - January 19th 2022, the highlight will be on understanding and communicating your needs with your significant other and not hiding things that should be shared and made known., especially when it comes to intimate relationships. If you’re going to be involved with someone on an intimate level, it’s important that you make your intent very clear. Because this particular aspect falls in your house of karma and the past, therefore, in order to avoid creating more karma in this area of life, it’s wise to be honest (Sagittarius), allowing the other person to decide what they want to do.
Venus will also be in this house, April 4th - August 8th, motivating you to think you understand what a person wants intimately, without necessarily asking for there input and then wondering why everything falls apart quickly. Even more of an issue when Venus retrogrades in Gemini, May 13th - June 25th.
Mercury retrograde in Pisces, February 16th - March 5th, is a time when your “vision” maybe impaired and the fantasy side of love will be at its strongest. If you can keep your feet firmly on the ground, you should get through the cycle in one piece.
Mercury retrograde in Scorpio briefly, October 14th - October 28th, is a cycle when “tall tales” could be told. The past could come back to haunt you for better or worse, but it would be wise to make any deep interactions temporary, because of potential negativity that could be caused. Beware of undermining resentment and jealousy whether from you or others.
2020 is really about being the better person when it comes to love, not assuming things that aren’t true or real and treating others with the respect you expect from others.
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When you ask yourself this year in the area of love, why am I going through this? Give thought to the fact that current experiences are but links in a chain of events that started long, long ago. A small piece of a huge puzzle of life. Therefore, when you’re faced with frustrations/irritations in your love-life this year, try to look beyond them to discover the common thread of each scenario that has occurred. If and when you’re able to do this, the healing can begin to take place, opening the door for a new more positive perspective of personal relationships and how to make them work.
SAGITTARIUS
The Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in Cancer January 10th, probably brought about a change in deep feelings towards another, creating a situation where new rules had to be applied, or the intimate relationship relinquished. When Mercury retrograde occurs in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th, some aspect of the events in January will occur again, for a final clean-up. However, it’s important to keep emotions from getting out of control, or allowing Self to be emotionally wounded/manipulated.
Aries rules your house of love, happiness, childhood and risk and with Mars entering this house June 29th - November 14th, you’ll find yourself fin the position of dealing with aspects of love that are reminiscent of childhood experiences. In particular when Mars retrogrades in Aries, September 9th - November 13th. During this retrograde the focus will be on avoiding major conflict with family, parents or loved ones, as you feel your voice must be heard and certain feelings brought out into the open. This is true, but with gentle consideration for the feelings of others. Ultimately, you’ll have to differentiate between persona desire, true will or purpose, in order to get through this very turbulent transit.
The Nodes of the Moon switching to North Node in Gemini and South Node in Sagittarius, May 6th - January 19th 2022 affects your house of long-term love. The Nodes of the Moon represent major karma on a Universal and individual level, therefore, the emphasis would be on being honest in your communication with your long-term partner and being in action about making sure they know you care. Discussing each other’s wants and needs so you’re both working towards the same goal.
When Venus enters Gemini, April 4th - August 8th, love will be very much on your mind, but more from the intellectual perspective. This is not a time to overthink what is or isn’t happening in love, but write down what you think/feel in order to have clarity. Venus retrograde in Gemini, May 13th - June 25th, will really get your mind in turmoil causing you to be more scattered than rational. If you have contact with past loves during this time, don’t allow Self to get too caught up with those in question, because it’ll end up in a confusing mess. Be polite, straightforward, keeping a healthy distance.
2020 will bring to the surface many past memories that need to be confronted in the area of love and happiness, leaving room for a new attitude/behavior that is more conducive for love to grow between you and your significant other.
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When faced with making important decisions in love this year, do so from a perspective of integrity, asking Self, what is the right thing to do? If you can approach each decision, knowing, for every Cause there is an Affect, it’s unlikely you’ll cause pain and sorrow to those you love. In past lives you didn’t do this and caused tremendous hurt to others. At the same time, understand the “grass isn’t always greener over the hill”. It’s often better to work out existing problems firsts so they’re not carried forward with you to the next situation. Use this knowledge as a guide in the area of personal love and you won’t go off on tangents that lead to negative situations.
CAPRICORN
The house of love, happiness childhood and risk is highlighted by Uranus in Taurus being there until July 7th 2025. Throughout this transit you’ll feel the urge to separate Self from things you learned about love growing up and the experiences that followed. You have to learn to stand on your own two feet, demonstrate independent thinking and confront old karma connected to this area of life, still holding you back from really experiencing happiness with your partner. If you can understand that it’s possible to be friends with your significant other and that it’s an important factor in the success of the relationship, you’ll be on your way to experiencing the love of your life.
Mercury retrograde in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th, will bring back memories of past loves that were emotionally draining, loves from the past may reappear. The best course of action, learn what you can and use the lessons to empower you in current love-relationships. Being tempted to stray may also be an issue, especially if involved in a long-standing relationship. The question to ask of Self, would you be happy doing this and if you’re not happy should you let your partner know? Self-worth plays an important part in getting the right answers to your questions and doing the right thing.
2020 is a year to put energy and time into creating a happy fulfilling love relationship, in which both you and your partner work together harmoniously to make things work.
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Current problems in love and through 2020, with certain family members/friends, are due to the fact that in previous lives the roles of you and these individuals, was different. What you perceive as interference into your love-life, seeming jealousy/criticism is not imagined. These individuals were part of your love-life in the past, whether as friends or giving healing in some capacity, or interfering with your love-life because of jealousy. They want to maintain control of this area of life, but you cannot let this happen. In the past the outcome was never positive and led to tremendous deep-rooted animosity each time. Hence the undercurrent of negativity you often feel. The solution, is for you to speak up and draw boundaries when it comes to personal relationships. Only you and your partner should be the two people involved in decision making and the success of the relationship, no-one else.
AQUARIUS
The Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo, March 9th, indicates that how you serve others and Self in deep intimate relationships will change, if it hasn’t by the time this aspect comes into being. Instead of being critical and irritable for one reason or another, ask your partner what their needs are and how you can fulfill them, maybe. At least you can try. By doing this, you show your partner you care about them beyond a physical level and you’re interested in what they think/feel. This will open the door for a new beginning in how you interact on an intimate level.
The next big aspect to affect love is the Nodes of the Moon changing May 6th. The North Node will be in Gemini and the South Node in Sagittarius. The Nodes of the Moon highlight, major karma that has to be learned and integrated Sagittarius - truth, honesty, justice, growth, expansion, travel, higher consciousness to be integrated, to be in harmony with the higher side of Gemini - communication, learning, travel, understanding, versatility, flexibility, intellect and writing. If you can integrate some of these attributes in the area of love, applying a more balanced approach to love by being understanding, tolerant and adaptable., it’l be easier for love to grow and evolve to higher levels. This aspect falls in your house of love, childhood, creativity, risk and happiness.
The Venus in Gemini aspect also affecting the same house, will give you plenty of choice of potential lovers, some will be good prospects, some not so good. The danger here is of wasting time/energy with people who have little or nothing to offer, especially when Venus retrogrades, May 13th - June 25th. Throughout this cycle you’ll be more inclined to rationalize love than feel it. Mind-games are likely.
Throughout 2020, you’ll learn that love-relationships don’t have to be so hard if you’re willing to meet your partner half-way. In turn, they’ll be open to working with you to improve what you already have together.
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Infidelity is the karma to be faced in 2020, Instances you face are from events that occurred before in this life or another. Now that you understand the Cause of the Affect, that brings this into your life to confront, you must not allow yourself to put up with this kind of situation, or for it continue without verbalizing your expectations of love. Most of all understanding you do not deserve this treatment. in the event that you’re the one who decides to wander outside of love, you would be wise to let your partner know first. They have a right to know you’re not happy and wish to end the relationship before embarking on a new love adventure. Problems with infidelity can be avoided if, from the beginning a foundation of love is agreed upon between you and your partner. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as you both agree. By doing this you avoid creating more karma in this area of life, because in the end no happiness who manifest if infidelity is continued.
PISCES
The Full Moon/Lunar Eclipse in Cancer, January 10th, marked the end of what you once perceived would make you happy in love. This change of heart was necessary for you to not let your emotions overwhelm you or the relationship, to the degree it becomes stagnant or suffocating. The Full Moon/Super Moon in Virgo March 9th, signifies, how you serve Self and your partner will change. If you give too much, boundaries will be set, if you don’t give enough or tend to be critical, sensitivity to their needs will make a big difference. The next Full Moon/Super Moon in Libra, April 7th, changes your interaction on an intimate level. bringing a more balanced harmonious, loving vibe between you and your significant other, beyond the physical.
Mercury retrogrades in Cancer, June 18th - July 10th, highlighting a resurgence of emotions from the past and/or past life memories that may cause you to retreat into yourself for a a few weeks, while you sort them out. Make sure your partner knows you’re not ignoring them.
When Mercury retrogrades briefly into Libra, October 29th - November 2nd, issues of long-term love that haven’t been discussed come to the forefront. What do you want from the relationship is the question to ask of Self, something deeper or superficial.
2020 is year for a lot of soul-searching, attaining a deeper understanding of Self and personal needs when it comes to love. This is important so that you don’t waste the time of your partner because you’re not interested in what they want, or can’t provide what they’re looking for in a love-relationship. By digging deep within, you’ll find the answer to these questions.
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This year you may find yourself fluctuating between being helpful to the person you love or being cold and distant. This behavior stems from previous incarnations of giving and giving to the person you loved, but being used and taken for granted, only to be eventually abandoned for someone else, leaving you heartbroken. Now, in 2020 this karma will be strong. However, the key to healing it once and for all, is to learn to have boundaries, learning not to give more than you can afford to lose. This means you can still be helpful, supporting and caring, but not to the degree you’re being taken advantage of and misled. Use the powerful Pisces instinct to “read” a person/situation on deeper levels, a gift carried from previous lives. This will empower you to have “clear sight” and to know what is the right thing to do in each situation.