#yappa yappa

[1ncend1ary]

its august !

[itzblu77]

Everyone is assigned a fictional character in my head that either has to do with their profile picture or who their favourite character is, and the funny part is often they are the embodiment of said character. I've noticed this often.

[itzblu77]

One thing about me is when I like something I create several AUs in my head, and often I make characters to insert into the media for fun. Downside, I never have the motivation to draw or write so these ideas tend to stay with me alone.

[itzblu77]

Holy yap my fault.

[itzblu77]

I don't think people realize you can push someone far enough that they will not want anything to do with you anymore. You can't just assume because someone loves you (a friend, a partner, family, it doesn't matter) and cares about you that they will just continue to tolerate anything, be it disrespect, neglect, hurtful behaviour, or lack of effort. If you keep emotionally stressing someone out and that is all they are getting, they will eventually reach their limit and decide it isn't worth it, they will choose their peace over your connection no matter how strong it may have been.

If you continue to make someone feel unappreciated and unheard, if you mistreat them or misunderstand them constantly, if they make every effort to keep your relationship and you do nothing to reciprocate it and you never listen to them or make an effort to change your behaviour, you will lose them. They will give up on you. It is that simple. They will reach a place of emotional disconnect, and it will be near impossible to restore the relationship once it hits that tipping point.

Listen to your loved ones when they express distress or hurt, and if you truely care about them you will put the effort in to keep them, the same as they put the effort in to keep you.

[itzblu77]

I think one of my more toxic traits is that I will not reach out first most of the time, and this can be for a multitude of reasons that I will be keeping to myself.

[itzblu77]

Ohh ratchma nation we up we're fucking up ohh you gotta kill me holy shit.

[2tonedwolf]

I love how you basically made Vance a tsundere towards Bruce. It's everything to me 😂

LOOOL ITS SUBCONSCIOUS OKAY. Most people could think like oh he's too much of an asshole for anyone to like him so they're not gonna touch him with a ten foot pole. And then maybe some girls see him as the cold bad boy type who'd actually care about you behind closed doors (romance books). Then there's Bruce being like omg can u be normal