#yo viv

[st-yours]

*blows a kiss through the web*

for minqwi if they are somehow on 

[nikhak]

Are You Codependent? Take the Quiz. ~ Emily McCaffrey

I scored a 16, which I think I probably got because since my dad passed away four years ago, I seem to put a lot of the problems and stresses that my mom and sister face onto me. Many of the questions i thought directly of their relationship to me rather than other people's relationship to me. I feel like a mom a lot to the two of them. Funny how life changes so quickly...

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(15–21) Room to Grow—You have moments of clarity, peppered with stress. You may find that when alone you can sense being a whole, fulfilled human being, but when around certain people, you can’t hear your inner voice as well and feel a bit shaken. You may be sensitive, unsure of yourself or wanting attention. You may feel pulled in many directions when someone you care about is hurting. Be aware of all of these reactions. I invite you to ask yourself: when (someone else) does (something), how do I feel? Or, when I believe (a stressful thought about myself, someone else or a situation), how do I feel and what do I do?