Honestly ya’ll need to stop posting this stuff about “no one can love you till you love yourself” and “you don’t truly love someone until they hurt you and you can still be with them.” I spent years thinking that I didn’t deserve love because I didn’t like who I was or what I looked like. I spent years forgiving men who lied to me, cheated on me and treated me like shit because I listened to that bullshit and said “you know I must really love him because he cheated on me and I stayed.” After realizing all of that was a load of shit, I found a man who treats me like a princess, who does everything in his power to make me happy and would never intentionally make me upset. Who loves me even when I don’t love myself. There is so much bullshit on this website about love. You deserve the best. You deserve to be treated like a princess and to be loved even on the days when you wish you were better than you are. Don’t settle for a loser because society says that “real love” is forgiving people who treat you like shit.