Repost this. Do not reblog, & tag 10 people you want to get to know better. I was tagged by casablancas-electricity thanks ;)
Name: Madelaine
Nicknames: maddy, mads, miggy, madd e
Birthday: oct 21st '96
Gender: Female
Height: 5’2
Favourite colour: black purple royal blue
Time/date: January 3rd, 11:20 PM
Average hours of sleep: lol like 9 if im lucky Last thing I googled: strokes posters 8)
One place that makes me happy: record and clothing stores !!
So I am a poc who has directly experienced racism. What does my opinion mean to you now? I can totally see you not fitting a job description and that's easy to change for you. Yes we should blame the system but how do you think a poc feels like when they are being oppressed by someone who has appropriated their culture. Dreaded hair or any other way? You will never experience discrimination because of some natural biological aspect of you. There's no comparison to what you have experienced.
Yeah I can change myself to fit a job description, but should I have to? I know it isn't racial oppression and on the same level but it IS oppression. We live in a society that required you to fit a mold and if you don't fit that mold your have your freedom oppressed to some level. Dreadlocks ARE NOT CULTURAL APPROPRIATION, there are animals who's hair dreads naturally. It is a natural occurrence with hair. Are you a black person of color that has directly experienced racism because if white people dreading their hair? If white people didn't have dreads it wouldn't be any different because black people would still face oppression. Telling white people to stop dreading their hair and arguing about it isn't going to change anything about the system or what people think. Everyone will stay oppressed, we will continue arguing and be separated. If we worked together and rallied against those systems instead of arguing against oppression we can all be happy instead of creating more hurt. I realize that I will not experience the same oppression but you cannot deny that we are all experiencing oppression on some level or another. It all goes hand in hand my pain and your pain even though it is of a different nature and degree.
Blacks dread their hair because it's easy to maintain their tight curly hair. Have you ever been told that you could have a job if you changed your hair? There are advertisements that tell black ppl to change their hair (straighten it) to get a job. It's their struggle. They are being told their natural biology is wrong. Whites always find excuses for this. Saying everyone's hair knots is the oldest one in the book.
Yes I actually have been told that I can have a job if I changed my hair and appearance. I think it is the people who makes the rules fault, not ours. I am not the boss who says they cannot look how they naturally look nor is it my fault that they have that oppressive opinion in the first place. There is something wrong with the system, not the people who decided to do something with their hair. The people who have knotted hair aren’t the ones with close minded opinions telling everyone else how to live their life. If white people didn’t have dreads do you really think it would be any different? I don’t think so. I am told I can’t have a job because I have dreads too, you have to look a certain way to get a job and fit in this society no matter what race you are. Blacks are just stigmatized more when it comes to this because of the racism in this country. Direct your anger at the system, do not think the answer is to direct your rage at people who just want to live their lives freely as much as you do.
Again if you aren't a POC speaking to me from direct exprience DO NOT come in my askbox and give your opinion. It's always white people trying to tell me about black lives...
I'm bored and this looked fun lol. Shoutout to "zestroked" (:
TEN FACTS
► Name ➔ Win (more like a nickname, but literally everyone calls me this).
► Hair color ➔ Black.
► Age ➔ 20.
► Eye Color ➔ Brown.
► Birthday ➔ December 29.
► Gender ➔ Female.
► Lefty or Righty ➔ Righty.
► Single or taken? ➔ *insert Beyonce's single ladies song*
TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE
► Are you in love ➔ Nope.
► Do you believe in love at first sight ➔ Hell no.
► Who ended your last relationship ➔ I really don't know.
► Have you ever broken someone’s heart ➔ Apparently...
► Are you afraid of commitments ➔ Yup.
► Have you hugged somebody in the last week ➔ Hah, yes. Chinese uni exchange students at my volunteer event yesterday. They were so adorable.
► Have you ever had a secret admirer ➔ Yeah, in elementary school...he later confessed and bought me chocolates...it was sweet but kinda awkward...and his mom was a teacher at the school...which made it even more awkward
► Have you ever broken your own heart? ➔ How can you break your own heart? No?
► Do you usually spend Valentine’s Day alone? ➔ Yup. Dates scare me ... *flashbacks to my date at the park* Oh gosh...........I'm sorry. I was probably his worst date ever.
► Short or long-term relationships? ➔ Long term? I really don't know.
TEN CHOICES
► Love or lust ➔ Love.
► Lemonade or iced tea ➔ Iced tea.
► Cats or Dogs ➔ DOGS. Dogs. dogs.
► A few best friends or many regular friends ➔ A few.
► Television or internet ➔ How is this a question lol? Internet.
► Pepsi or coke ➔ Pepsi.
► Wild night out or romantic night in ➔ I'm not a wild person...but a romantic night in would make me feel awkward... a calm walk by the lake? Omg...that sounds lame lol.
► Day or night ➔ Day. I'm not a night person. I like to sleep early and wake up to the sunrise. I sound so old. :')
► Text or Call ➔ It depends. Close friends are fun to call.
► Make-up or au natural? ➔ Does bb cream count as makeup? Then again, I only put it on when I have to go somewhere somewhat important. So..natural?
TEN HAVE YOU EVER
► Been caught sneaking out? ➔ Nope.
► Fallen down/up the stairs? ➔ Almost everyday. But I've been good recently. You don't understand how hard I have to focus on the stairs ... if I don't, I will trip on the steps ... it's pretty embarrassing.
► Wanted something/someone so badly it hurt? ➔ Yeah. Elementary school...the year of tamagotchis. I'm not even kidding. My life depended on those things.
► Prank called a store? ➔ Hah, no. I'm too much of a wimp to do that. And I laugh easily...so I'd probably give myself away.
► Skipped school? ➔ Grade 12 math class...es... but the whole school day? Nope.
► Wanted to disappear? ➔ Nope.
► Spent all your money? ➔ Nope. Too paranoid that I'll be broke and end up living on the streets. #universityfears
► Met a celebrity? ➔ I just saw zestroked's answers...YOU ARE LUCKY! Me? Not so lucky.
► Been really ill? ➔ Stomach flu was bad. Emergency room wasn't a pleasant place to visit. Nurse - "So, have you been getting diarrhea?" Me - *looks around the room full of people staring at me* "Yes" Nurse - "Oh okay, how bad is it?" Me - *Are you fucking kidding me?...* "Bad".
► Gotten high? ➔ The brownies looked so good. I thought they only did that in movies.
TEN PREFERENCES
► Smile or eyes ➔ Smile.
► Light or dark hair ➔ Don't care.
► Shorter or taller ➔ I'm 5'2...so definitely taller.
► Intelligence or attraction ➔ Both? But I can't be with someone dumber than me. I can't be the last resort lol.
► Hook-up or relationship ➔ Relationship?
► Funny and poor or rich and serious ➔ im sorry but i need security. cant he be funny and rich? at least middle class? ill be half the income anyways haha <- Couldn't have been said any better!!
► Mac or PC? ➔ PC.
► Chapstick or lipstick? ➔ Chapstick.
► City or country? ➔ I like both.
► Driving or walking? ➔ Walking! Unless you want me to drive...but then again, not many of my friends ask me to drive them around...hmmmm...
LASTS
► Last phone call? ➔ My dad.
► Last song you listened to? ➔ The Postelles - Mr. Used To Be
► Last thing you ate? ➔ Chocolate Popsicle.
► Last thing you drank? ➔ Water.
► Last place you were? ➔ I stayed home today.
► Last kiss? ➔ Awww, once again, zestroked's response was so cute. Me? My dog. Wow not so cute, but still cute. :P
► Last picture taken? ➔ Selfie with the Chinese exchange students. Kinda awkward. Kinda cute.
► Last purchase? ➔ Toronto bus tokens. They be expensive though...