#zrayak

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normally zrayak’s “weekend” is Wednesday and Thursday but he got today off instead so we walked around Boston for a couple of hours

bonus: us after I was flushed and exhausted from walking around in lovely 70F weather + me wearing the same outfit two days ago at work and not dying of heatstroke

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okay, yes, it is definitely good and healthy to have different interests than your romantic partner and pursue them independently or with friends other than your partner

that being said

having a relationship where I can be like like “what the FUCK was that writing choice??” and get “right?? AND ANOTHER THING” is like fucking crack. just unfiltered validation directly through the mind link. extremely sexy media analysis ping pong.

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went to doxie day and got four compliments on my cat dress and pet SO! MANY! DOGS!

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@zrayak brought home a shitload of blueberries from his work and he made pancakes with them yesterday but there were still a shitload so now we have two blueberry coffee cakes and I am contemplating making a third

that or muffins

maybe muffins with streusel topping

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went to the Franklin Park Zoo with my in-laws for Father's Day and @zrayak was a Disney princess (I, like several other people, did not get the budgies to eat from my hand even though I was RIGHT THERE)

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@zrayak is visiting his QPP for a week and my immediate response has been to 1) do three loads of laundry and 2) buy and immediately put up a bunch of unnecessary fun decor

i am a husky with separation anxiety but instead of tearing the house apart and destroying the knickknacks and furniture i just clean it up and buy more

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last minute photoset because it's my one year wedding anniversary and I need to show off how cute my husband is

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it occurs to me that it's been a while since I posted selfies so here's a couple from over the summer