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[neechoudai]

For the Valentine's Day questions: 1, 17, 33, 41, 62, 64, 65

(i wrote down the answers the other day but i heckin forgot to post them sorry it’s so late nonnie!)

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?

Hmm, I don't really. I'm too busy lately to think about crushes tbh... I'm more up for the Platonic love!

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?

Hell yeah, the internet doesn't make relationships less valid!

33: Do you want to get married one day?

It depends if I find the right person, but considering idek what my romo status is besides demi... it's kind of a ways off.

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?

Hm, there's so many different ones! Anything that involves spending quality time with them doing something we both love! It's hard to decide what that would be because I'm not in the moment. But to me a date is anything from going to a festival or amusement park to sitting at home talking and eating lunchables in onesies.

Bonus points if the date is somehow in Japan

62: How do you define "cheating"?

When you are playing Smash and someone throws your controller across the room so they can win

Hm. Cheating is probably being romo or sexual behind your datemate's back without their knowledge and/or permission. Some people have open poly relationships so that's where the permission comes from. Though I admit I don't know enough about poly relationships so I apologize if I got something wrong!

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?

I think the idea of it being the Ultimate Day of Romance is a little bit? I think people should be able to show love on their own time and not feel pressured to have it on one special day. I can't imagine being in a bad mental state on Valentine's Day and how guilty I would feel for not being able to do something special for my datemate!

But at the same time, I think it's underrated because it's also a day where everyone is encouraged to share love with each other in any way, and that can cheer people up. I think if Valentine's Day had more of a focus on all types of love and not just straight up romo, it'd be even cooler. Imagine everyone going around handing out Valentines like we did in elementary school!

Also I love being on tumblr and seeing the fandom and meme cards. Heck yeah more of that please I want to share the meme love.

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

Hell yeah. If you let me and are comfortable I will drape over you and everything. Depends on the person sometimes but for the most part, with close friends, I'm super cuddly and love just leaning on people. Sometimes I'm not up to it but most of the time I would be glad to!

Thank you for not sending in the ones I didn't realize were on the list lol

[dreamonslayer]

hey look there's a tired teal haired baku and she's just going to drape herself over aislinn whoops

“Oh, hey!!!!!”

Even if she’s draping over her, Missy’s getting the best hug Ais can give.

[neechoudai]

male, on the tall side. a little bit of a minimalist, except when it comes to art (not to sound self absorbed, but i've immortalized myself in stone! it's a lovely statue). let's go to a local park and give our love to the spirits, then go get some udon.

As long as it’s kitsune udon! :3c

and as long as it does not end in pain for me because i can think of MANY ways it could end in pain for me

[neechoudai]

Vibe: super excitable and extra endearing

Thank you! I know i’m overly excitable sometimes but i’m glad you think I’m endearing!

[neechoudai]

If the people you know are not giving you the time and attention you need to feel secure, then maybe they're just good acquaintances and you need to go search for better friends. Don't let yourself get restricted by your current relationships. There's new people out there. The creativity that served you in the first place is still there. Use it. Be the leader this time.

I’m not sure what this is in response to, but thank you. The thing is, it’s not a matter of them, it’s a matter of my own insecurities that I already know aren’t really rational :c for example, fearing taking the initiative because What If They Don’t Like Me

I hope to be courageous enough to initiate more with people soon. But for now I do understand that people don’t always have the time but that doesn’t mean they care any less! I know better but there are times my head just tries to tell me lies and won’t let up until it feels like the truth.

I do know I struggle with taking the initiative though. i hope that i can improve!

[dreamonslayer]

I decree that we celebrate with lots of fox!!

“I approve of this proposal. And thanks!”

[dreamonslayer]

"I just got off patrol and I was in the neighborhood, I'll bug ya if you want." -loupgaroudelalune

“I’m always up for being bugged. Come bug me all you want. Feel free!”

[dreamonslayer]

"What in the world was that!? You could have died, if I weren't there to catch you! And what are you doing out so late at night, anyhow!?" -loupgaroudelalune

“Huh? It--it’s nothing! I mean, I do this all the time--not the falling thing, but... I’m usually fine, I’ve been out here for a long time and I’ve only had one big problem! Or... well, now two, I guess... I usually don’t slip like that, trust me.”

“Thanks, by the way...”