Violet Harmon

𝑨 𝒃𝒍𝒐𝒈 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑽𝒊𝒐𝒍𝒆𝒕 ⠀𝑯𝒂𝒓𝒎𝒐𝒏 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅｡｡💜 𝑪𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑽𝒊𝒐𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒆𝒙𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒔 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝟐𝟎𝟏𝟑 ᴍʏ ᴘᴇʀsᴏɴᴀʟ ʙʟᴏɢ ɪs: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ @ძᥱᥲძ-gіrᥣs-ძ᥆ᥒ𝗍-ᥴrᥡ

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My Pages

Full list of my exacts

Violet’s Bedroom

Violet’s clothing style

Where I get most of my exacts

My MODCLOTH Little Prairie dress alternative

SECOND MODCLOTH ALT

Why I’m a massive fan

Photos of my exacts (not up to date yet)

On set photos

Rare behind the scene photos of Taissa

Violet’s hair

Tate Langdon opinion

Other photos of my exacts

Madras by APC dress

Kimchi Blue & Terry Lace pullover

Forever 21 Cardigan & Banana Republic

Wearing some of my exacts

Video edits by me 🖤

Losing your memory

This House

Dr Ben Harmon spoof

Photo edits by me

Tate and Violet, birth edit

NOTE: Because this is my secondary Tumblr, I can only like and follow through my primary blog, which is @dead-girls-dont-cry , so if you see that blog liking/commenting it’s actually me.. so if you wonder why it doesn’t say Tainted-Harmon isn’t following you, it’s just because I can only follow via my main account

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Happy heavenly birthday little brother 🩵 👼🏻 Also, happy 12th birthday to my dog Bella who shares this special birthday 🐾

I’ll reply to questions tomorrow, just been busy the last few days !

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Site that sells Violet’s exact metallic tree pillow

Here is the original website that sells the exact metallic tree pillow that is used in Violet’s bedroom. I always thought it was black but it was actually a dark brown.

Unfortunately they no longer sell the chocolate colourway that Violet had but they still sell other colours. But they’re very expensive! A dupe is probably the best.

Tree Pillow – Ige Design

Ige Design Gilded Luxe Tree Pillow sizes: 18 x 18" fabric: velvet 18% silk/82% rayon, 100% linen or 55% linen/45% viscose insert: 5% down/95

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today i was tik tok of girl saying violet would have bpd (Borderline personality disorder) but also i search she had major depression mostly and the girl is just saying about how she acted with tate etc. what do you think about it? (sorry if i made mistakes im from Germany😁❤️)

Hey, I was actually diagnosed with BPD as I turned 18 (I’m 28 now). I strongly disagree that Violet had BPD, her behaviour was typical teenage behaviour, added with depression. Lots of teenagers suffer depression and self harm, and it’s more common than people realise for teenagers to struggle with suicidal thoughts.

I think a lot of people misunderstand this condition but one thing that is important to point out is that it cannot be diagnosed in anyone under 18, and often doctors don’t like even diagnosing it in people before their 20s because it’s a very complex condition. It’s something that is typical a lifelong condition, meaning it doesn’t get better. Most people with depression do get better or have large periods of being able to function. A lot of people throw these terms around, especially Bipolar when explaining normal mood swings. People under estimate how much hormones can affect someone’s mental health and cause mood swings. Violet was dealing with a lot of typical things that people go through, parents having issues, bullying, but she did have the added experience of a sibling death.

I’ve mentioned years ago on here, but basically I experienced a trauma during childhood and started self harming from the age of 9. Then when I was 12 my mum had a stillborn when she was almost full term and I got to hold him every day until his funeral (I was given the choice to see him and the funeral and was never forced) but this then impacted me further because it was a very hard thing to see. From this point I developed really bad depression, ended up with stitches from self harm and through my early teens until I was 18 I was in and out of hospital because of self harm and suicide attempts. When I was 16 I got put in a child mental health unit because I was was taking so many overdoses and cutting very deep on impulse. I honestly couldn’t tell you the amount of times I had to go to hospital for hurting myself before the age of 16. My school even had to call an ambulance because I overdosed in the school bathrooms when I was about 15.

When I got out of the unit is when I first saw American Horror Story on television and I felt this immediate connection with Violet.

Sorry I made this a bit personal but I think it’s important to explain why I don’t believe Violet had BPD. Violet was depressed, which is obviously a very common condition and many of us will experience it. BPD is almost always caused by an early childhood trauma, usually sexual abuse or something similar, and this has an impact on someone’s emotional development and personality.

I think people may be assuming Violet has BPD because she made one impulsive decision to overdose on sleeping tablets, but a single or even a couple of impulsive decisions can be made by anyone. I was diagnosed with BPD because I had almost a decade long history of behaviour that was impulsive and was having major issues in my relationships with people (these are both things I have worked on and been improving through my 20s but still struggle). I still receive mental health support and will do for the rest of my life because even in the last 12 months I’ve received medical treatment for incidents or self harming behaviour.

I hope this helps explain things a bit ❤️

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do you maybe have some hair colors which i could ask in hairstylist that looks like vi?

It looks like Violet has a balayage, which are just highlights but they are done in a way where they blend more naturally and it’s less maintenance. Regular highlights are more obvious when they grow out, where a balayage is sort of angled highlights.

I think Taissa’s natural hair colour is a very light brown, but on murder house she has warmer blonde highlights on top of her natural colour. When people get their hair lightened they usually talk about having it ashy or warmer. Ashy blonde is like a cooler, so like a grey or white blonde. Violets looks more yellow and warm, but not brassy. Brassy blonde means it’s very yellow and orange (which a lot of people think is a bad thing but I actually think it can look great on people who have brown or green eyes).

You could ask a hairdresser to do a blonde balayage. If you want it more like Violets then tell them you don’t want a cold or ashy blonde, you want a bit of warmth in it. Use words like golden blonde. The best thing to do is always take a photo and show them so they can get a better idea. I never ask for blonde without showing a photo 🙂 I showed my hairdresser a picture of Violet so you can do that, or just show a picture of Taisssa ;

You can also buy something called purple shampoo which can make your blonde look cooler, if you decide you don’t like it yellow. You don’t use purple shampoo as a regular shampoo, you just use it every so often and leave it on for 5-10 minutes. The purple pigments in the shampoo stay on your hair and take out the warm.

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omg you post again<33 i missed your posts sm i hope you doing great❤️, and i was wondering if maybe you have some bed inspo similar to violet?? -xoxo

Thanks! I had some health issues and personal stuff that happened last year but I feel like I’m starting to cope better 💓

Violets bed has a sort of dusty purple/pink pillow case, mattress protector and flat sheet, and then a greyish blue bedding cover. Other colours that I think are her vibe would be purple and green, or earthy tones like browns or rusty orange. My favourite colour is purple and green and I usually have a green bedding and sage green mattress protector.

Her bed frame is just a cast iron metal frame, thinks it’s like a brass type? Most bed shops do these type and many are quite similar to Violets. A regular metal one is cheaper though because cast iron bed frames can be very pricey.

She has quite a few decorative cushions on her bed and one that a lot of people try and replicate is the black velvet/gold metallic cushion. I actually found the official website last year that made this exact cushion and they still make it in several colours but unfortunately they don’t do the black colour way anymore. I can’t remember the site but I can probably try and find it and I’ll post it here if I do.

Shein has a lot of good cushion covers that are good Violet dupes. I found one yesterday that is black velvet with a metallic gold feather. The feather reminded me of the feather design T shirt she wears on one of the episodes.

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how can i have manners like violet??

I think the best thing to do is always be yourself because that was Violet’s greatest quality. I think that’s why she was possibly bullied because she was her own person and didn’t conform to fashion trends.

I guess it’s a little contradictory that so many of us like to imitate her, but I personally still keep my own tastes too. Violet came across as a bit introverted at times but I think that was because of her depression. When she interacted with people she seemed quite outspoken and sarcastic (too much sarcasm isn’t a great thing and can come off rude).

Just be yourself and never try to change who you are because that’s what makes us unique 🖤 Be a kind person and do things for others.

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Desk decorations 🦋🪦

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my room <3 it’s so comfy but kinda overfilled

I actually wanted to repaint the walls in the color that violet has hers but that’s a work in progress:/

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I couldn’t resist putting this photo in my new frame! 💀 I just used my canon printer with glossy photo paper.

Also had a little re arrange of my bedroom.

Edit, it anyone wants any of the photos I used on my board I can send them to you (if I can find them). I still have some saved on my phone

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Violet’s candied Violet cupcakes

Saw this cute little article on the chocolate candied Violet cupcakes from the “Home Invasion” episode. Thought I’d share it here! Just don’t add ipeceac syrup! You can buy candied Violet’s online!

American Horror Story: Murder House - Violet Chocolate Cupcakes - Feast of Starlight

American Horror Story: Murder House - Violet Chocolate Cupcakes recipe

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Some Violet inspired boards I found online! Going to make some of my own later 💜

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Violet Decor

I’ve not been on in a while but I know I follow so many people who have Violet inspired bedrooms. If you have ever posted any photos of your Violet inspired bedroom or decor, please put the link here so I can start adding the links to your post to my decor post (I will make the decor post soon when I have enough links to start).

I will always update and add more links to the decor post (:

Your bedroom doesn’t have to be Violet exacts, just inspiration from Violets style. Can’t wait to see them 🖤

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my room just got sm hotter

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Hi, how is everyone?

Hope you’re all doing well. I’ve had a stressful year which is why I’ve been so absent but

I’m going to try and start posting here again. I’ve missed you all 🖤

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QUESTION:

If you could decorate your room in another movie/tv show character other than Violet Harmon, who would you choose?

My favourite movie room is Bella Swan. I’ve always loved the Twilight movies and LOVE Bella’s bedroom so much. I think there are some subtle similarities to Violets, although different style obviously. I love the colours (this was the other colour I was considering painting my room and I sort of wish I went with the green instead)

I may have to incorporate some of Bella’s style in my bedroom and have a mix of Violet and Bella 💜 💚

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Hi, I’m still here. I’m just inactive on a lot of social media because of personal stuff. Here’s my cute little chalk board 💀