Waiting on Godâs Time
  Today, many young people whether theyâre Christian or not believe its a bad thing to wait. Iâve seen it first hand. I grew up in a small town. The local high school was crawling with teen mothers and pregnancy on top of pregnancy. If you didnât have a child people though something was wrong with you. When I was 14/15, 2 of my friends dropped out of school because they became pregnant. I knew I didnât want that. To this day I watch teens become pregnant and then have no way to raise that child on their own. They end up being raised by the grandparents.Â
Hebrews 13:4 Â Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
  After watching all of my friends go though boy after boy and then a pregnancy scare and sometimes even a pregnancy. I made the decision that I was going to wait until marriage. My friends knew this and didnât push to change my perspective. At the age of 16 I started wearing a purity ring, on my left ring finger. As school went on I had people ask if I was married, and of course I wasnât and theyâd give me a weird look and ask why I wore a ring. Iâd proceed to explain what the ring meant. Iâd get a few more crazy looks and some not so good words from people. I didnât let it bug me. Everyone has their own convictions and know what they should and shouldnât do.
1 Corinthians 10:13 Â No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.
  I learned at an early age that when someone gets married, the white dress is a sign of virginity. Today most people wear a white dress just because its the norm. You donât see women wearing a different colored dress very often. I am here to tell you not everyone is doing it. I am a 23 year old that has made the commitment to wait till marriage for any kind of intimacy, regardless of what the world says I should be doing.
Psalms 119:9-10 Â How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word. With my whole heart I have sought You: Oh, let me not wander from Your commandments!
11/4/16












