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all things lifestyle, finance, health and wellness embedded in my girly world

[thelondonzhiloh]

[unicornedup]

tumblr 4 life || mutuals? I follow back

[livelaughlaney]

[mothprincess]

this is very 30-something of me but as soon as life starts to become stagnant, confusing, draining, and so on, i start making moodboards. anything to sustain my vision for the future it's more challenging, lately, to connect deeply with people who aren't thinking about the future/goals. hobbies and media don't sustain me the same way, if that makes sense. i find myself clinging to forward-thinking people who can inspire me and hope to inspire them, too i love the mutual energy

[neotenous-agency02]

[saad-the-creator]

[undefiinedd33]

[sweetlikeacherry]

I am rewriting the way I live my life

[theblackcourtesan]

people mistakenly think that the siren's most powerful physical weapon is her body, but it's actually her voice.

[vanilllagirlss]

[loveletters2myself]

get in girls, we’re going to increase our brain’s neuroplasticity and rewire it by meditating on love, praying from a place of love and practicing gratitude every single day

[asiansiren]

What are the biggest differences between an average girl look vs. a successful escort look? Is it body? Fashion? Or act?

No, no, no...

What do you think...?

Yes, it’s all an act...

Plenty of plain women securing the bag. Plenty of model-looking girls getting used and dumped.

And no one ever speaks regarding this... but relegating yourself to an ultra-glamorous “bombshell” type, or even an all-natural “model” may actually be a detriment. Because you attract a personality inclined towards short-term thinking and satisfaction (aka, not as much revenue for you.)

And aside from fitting in and demonstrating some social capital to your audience or target client in regards to style, dress, external accessories, it is also meaningless in the pursuit of end goal (wealth).

People get too caught up in the details, bite off more than they can chew.

Ultimately, things like your heel height and the style of your nails hold no real meaning: they’re just arbitrary details used to 1) induce conversation, 2) attract the eye and signify someone who invests in their appearance, and 3) are blank canvases to project some qualities on that you want to be associated with in your persona of seduction.

Selecting them doesn’t mean anything otherwise - like nobody genuinely cares whether you’re all in nudes, though perhaps it’s to appear sensual and modern; or red nails, yet another popular choice, given that red’s supposed association with “passion”, which is also discretionary ...

You need to perfect the “heaux” aura… your mindset, the way you carry yourself, and your body language should indicate that you are a woman who fulfills the fantasy, but only if you obtain investment. Only then! Otherwise? Never.

You don’t need to wear ten thousand diamonds, or to don a crocodile Hermès Kelly.

You don’t need to have 10L of Juvederm injected.

You don’t need to have been on the cover of Vogue.

But you should be comfortable internally and externally, projecting the image, that you are a sexual object available for consumption at the right price. And you need to find men who recognize that quality, and terminate relations with anybody and anything that doesn’t recognize this.

Even I, as an escort, can recognize other escorts when traversing out and about. Just from a glimpse. And I can recognize clients - men who would hire escorts - from walking out and about. And men normally recognize me as an escort ... the number of times at Davos, I was asked, “Are you here for business or pleasure?”

The “heaux aura” or behavior signifying you are an escort normally comprises of body language, some overt sexuality, and positioning yourself in social situations where there is a “gray” area. Is a ‘good’ woman going to be out alone, at the bar, with no girlfriends or a boyfriend, at 9pm in a somewhat suggestive outfit? No...

So, how do you do this? How do you project this image?

The first change is internal.

When you go out… you internalize and have the mindset, that you don’t perform sexually for free.

Your time is not free …

Your beauty is not free…

Your presence is not free …!

Read it, internalize it, embody it, breathe it. You don’t explain yourself: when somebody even questions this mentality or framework, you move on.

The second you go out to freestyle, your mindset should be, where is the money? Are you making rent tonight, or no?

Because then, you control your body language to project the image that you are sexually available. You are not a regular woman. What does a regular woman do?

A regular woman hides behind their phone, pretending to be busy. A regular woman avoids eye contact and is timid and insecure. A regular woman is afraid to be seen as sexual and to take up space. She gazes around hurriedly to seem preoccupied. She’s there to relax and be alone, to meet a friend, for a little business meeting.

You differentiate yourself. You’re alone and seem approachable. You’re not on your phone, and you are open and confident. You are aware you’re easily an object of desire, and own it. You are sexually open and in control. And yes, you are a sexual being, but only for the right price. You make eye contact.

And if you’re a beginner, it will take time to reprogram yourself. You need to constantly re-position yourself, and notice and alter the way you carry yourself to give that suggestive, questionable atmosphere. A steep learning curve. So practice whenever you can, and exert discipline.

It should happen. If you are in the right position, meaning, you are 1) in a locality with high amounts of wealth, 2) in a space with a high number of single, unattached men, and 3) have the right body language, it should occur.

You nip conversations with useless men in the bud. You keep your eyes on the prize. You internalize your value and remain unwavering on your end goal.

And you’ll always experience dead nights, or useless men seeking to exploit you. Grow a thick skin; unfortunately, male entitlement to attractive members of the female sex knows no bounds and knows no humility or humbleness..: Make it clear you are here for business - get to the action as fast as possible. Cut them off; keep it moving.

At one point, you’ll probably have practiced your body language and presence so often, it will happen without you even noticing. And you’ll be approached for solicitation even when you don’t intend to. They will come and find you. Then it becomes yet another problem to deal with. 😉

[fucklovepayme]

FLPM’s Quarantine Glow Up Nº 1

I am constantly asked for personal glow up and self-improvement tips so I decided to start a series on activities I am doing to improve myself during quarantine. This is the perfect time to transform yourself and become the person you want to be, you will develop yourself emotionally, spiritually, physically, and socially. Every day is an opportunity to learn something new, and there are so many free resources to learn online during lockdown. I present part one of my quarantine glow up that you can try for yourself.

1. Voice, Vocabulary, Tone, and Speech

Growing up I was always shy and quiet, so naturally I would speak in a soft and calm matter. People would always comment on quiet I was, so as I got older I started to speak loudly and brazenly as I became more outgoing and confident. I notice I speak even louder when I’m excited or upset, and people would often tell me to speak quietly. It’s like I couldn’t find a middle ground in the volume and tone of my speech.

So I decided to incorporate learning how to have a more attractive voice and to become more well-spoken into my daily quarantine life. Being well-spoken makes you appear to be more educated, classy, and mature. I actually received compliments on how educated and well-spoken I am by people who were admittedly surprised that I was. These people had an assumption of me that I would not be so bright because of my attractive appearance, they believed I would have the “pretty bimbo” personality. I consider this to be insulting because it is possible to be attractive and intellectual. 

Nonetheless, this is a perfect example how expanding your vocabulary and your speech can change people’s perspective of you. I want to be able to speak at a softer and calmer tone and volume so I can have a more confident and attractive voice. Here are some videos I’ve watched and will recommend on approving your tone and voice:

Opera Singer TRICKS to Have a MORE Attractive Voice

How to be More Articulate - 8 Powerful Secrets

The Art Of Femininity: how to speak softly and femininely ( the power of pleasant speech)

This may sound a bit crazy, but I practice on the tone and volume of my speech by talking to myself. If I notice I get a little loud or sound like I’m running out of breath, I will slow down or completely correct myself. 

I also recommend expanding your vocabulary and eliminating filler words like “umm” or “like”. I have an email subscription to Word Genius which gives me a new word to learn daily. I study these words and try to incorporate these words into my everyday speech. Reading more books will also help expand your vocabulary and practice speaking out loud. Use this as a chance to gain more knowledge on a topic that interest you, while also learning new words and speaking more confidently and clearly. 

Though my target audience for this series is women, everyone can benefit from learning how to have better speech, regardless of your language. 

[asiansiren]

The men so deeply dependent on this industry might bash you, insult you, degrade you, play mental games with you or even seduce you to become a permanent fixture of sex work but keep in mind that every moment you spend with them is a distraction from your greater and true purpose. Even though you are looked down upon, you are actually an integral part to their sense of self and community, a sounding board for their fantasies and sense of self. Don’t let them trick you. You deserve much more and much greater. You deserve to feel real.

[2productive]

How do you use your pretty privilege to your advantage?

Honestly? The biggest advantage is just how life plays out on a day to day basis. The benefits I get by just existing that others aren’t awarded no matter how nice or hardworking they are. It sounds bad, but...we live in a society.

[servantofthefates]

All About Divination

Scrying 101

The Right Scrying Instrument

Runecasting 101

Runecasting vs. Tarot

Oneiromancy 101

How to Divine Forgotten Dates and Times

Palmistry 101

What Tridents Mean in Palmistry

How to Really Learn Palmistry

Pyromancy 101

Tasseography 101

Phyllomancy 101

Oomancy 101

Bibliomancy 101

Charmcasting 101

Cartomancy 101

Recommended Decks (with links to photos and videos)

How many decks should you have?

Who is better at which system?

Lenormand 101

A 12-Lesson Lenormand Class

How to Read with Lenormand

Answering Yes or No with Lenormand

How to Predict Timing with Lenormand

How to Find Lost Things with Lenormand

Lenormand Cards as People

Lenormand Cards as Feelings and Thoughts

Lenormand and Sex

How Mirroring is Done

Physical Death Combinations

Doomed Relationship Combinations

Questions You Should Not Pose to Lenormand

Do Not Tarotize Lenormand

The Truth About Lily

Fish is Bigger Than Money

The 12-Step Lenormand Grand Tableau

Lenormand vs. Tarot

How Lenormand Interacts with Tarot

The Twin Cards in Lenormand and Tarot

Tarot 101

How to Truly Master Tarot

Key Meanings for All 78 Tarot Cards

How Tarot Readings Really Work

Tarot Meanings

What It Means to Keep Seeing the Same Suit

What It Means to Keep Seeing the Same Number

What It Means to Keep Seeing the Same Card

What It Means to Get Contradictory Cards

What Tarot’s Colors Say About Your Future

The Major Arcana vs. The Minor Arcana

The Major Arcana as People (Astrology)

The Major Arcana as People (Personality)

The Major Arcana as Professions

The Major Arcana’s Negative Meanings

Your Life and the Minor Arcana

How to Remember the Major Arcana

How to Read “Good” Cards as “Bad”

How to Tell Physical Appearance

How to Read Pentacles for Love

How to Detect People’s Desires

How to Decide Which Meaning to Use

How to Interpret Visual Synchronicities

How to Interpret Tarot Literally

How to Interpret Tarot in a Personal Way

The Best Ace in Tarot

The Differences Among Tarot’s Tens

The Soulmate Cards

The Forever Alone Cards

The Polar Opposite Cards

“False Alarm” Tarot Cards

The Major and Minor Twins

The “Bad” Cards as Advice

The Good Side of Tarot’s “Bad” Cards

The Cards as Yes or No

The Cards as Someone’s Feelings

The Cards as Advice vs. Outcome

The Court Cards as Thoughts or Intentions

Tarot’s Extreme Meanings

Tarot’s Twins in Lenormand

Literal Card Meanings

Career and Finances Meanings

Meanings for Timing

When Reversed is Better than Upright

The Kings in Real Life

The Queens in Real Life

How the Men in Tarot Will Treat You

The Court Cards and Gender

Physical Attractiveness of the Court Cards

The Real Deal with Tarot’s Pages

The Knights in Fiction

The Queen of Cups in Fiction

When the Court Cards Refer to You

The Best Couples in Tarot

The Emperor’s Love Compatibility

Christian Symbology in Tarot

Tarot and Sexual Behavior

True Love Combinations

Old-time Tarot Meanings

The Past and Future Cards in Tarot

The Past Lives Tarot Cards

Tarot Meanings for Different Decks

Why We Read Tarot Symbolically

How to Read Reversals

Tarot Combinations for Health Issues

Tarot Combinations for Mental Illness

Tarot Combinations for Cheating

Tarot Combinations for Physical Death

Amazing Three-Card Tarot Combinations

Tarot and Astrology

Tarot and Locations

Tarot and Countries

The Kinds of Wedding in Tarot

The Hierophant is Forever

The Lovers is Not About Choices

Why Strength and Justice Switched Places

The Hermit in Love

The Spokes of the Wheel of Fortune

Justice vs. Judgement

The Devil as a Person

The Tower’s Duality

The Moon is Not Your Friend

The Star is the Trickiest Card in Tarot

The World is Overrated

The Greco-Roman Gods in Tarot

The Archangels in Tarot

My Favorite Card and My Least Favorite

The Three Most Misunderstood Tarot Cards

The Three Best Cards in Tarot

The 12 Most Underwhelming Tarot Cards

Ranking the Suits in Tarot

The Card at the Bottom of the Deck

Tarot Spreads

Past Life Spread

Life Purpose Spread

General Life Prediction Spread

Life Advice Spread

Soulmate Spread

Relationship Spread

Sex Life Spread

Future Children Spread

Death Prediction Spread

Dream Interpretation Spread

High Priestess Spread (For Quick Predictions)

True Colors Spread (For Questions of Intentions)

Two Paths Spread (For Making a Difficult Decision)

Combined Spreads (Tarot, Oracle, Lenormand)

Ancestors Spread (For Speaking with the Dead)

When Spread (Timing with the Celtic Cross)

Major Arcana Grand Tableau (Yearly Reading Spread)

The What If Spread

The Three Wishes Tarot Spread

The Storyboard Tarot Spread

Using Tarot to Find Your True Gods

Using Tarot to Find Your Rising Sign

Using Tarot to Investigate an Entity

Using Tarot to Find Out Who Cursed You and Why

How to Perform the Celtic Cross Spread

How to Find Your Lucky Numbers

Tarot Tips

How to Achieve Truthful Tarot Readings

How to Be the Best Tarot Reader You Can Be

How to Be a Confident Tarot Reader

How to Read Tarot for Yourself

How to Meditate Using Tarot Cards

Traditional Ways of Dealing Tarot Cards

When to Stop Shuffling

How to Shuffle Huge Tarot Cards

How to Correctly Phrase Your Question

Why Tarot’s Timelines Can Go Haywire

Why You Must Read for Someone Else

Never Pull Clarifiers

Never Use Significators

Never Hold Back Truths

Never Read for Someone You Dislike

Reasons to Have Multiple Tarot Decks

Do Not Worry About Mercury Retrograde

How to Enchant Your Tarot Decks

How to Use Tarot to Protect Someone

How to Use Tarot to Control Another Soul

How to Use Tarot for Vengeance

How to Change the Future that Tarot Predicted

How to Predict Sports Matches with Tarot

How a Tarot Reader Influences Readings

How to Use Tarot to Confirm Your Gifts

Using Tarot to Speak to Someone’s Higher Self

What to Do with Rogue Tarot Cards

What to Do When Tarot Scares You

The Importance of Reading Reversals

Who to Invoke During a Reading

How to Stay Safe During a Reading

Do Not Confuse Honesty with Hate

On Using Playing Cards Instead

On Manipulating the Cards

The Most Common Tarot Reader Mistakes

The Myth of Not Reading Tarot for Yourself

Tarot Rules and Superstitions

How to Close a Tarot Reading

How Your Health Affects Tarot

5 Signs You Are Addicted to Tarot

Top Sign You are No Longer a Beginner at Tarot

What to Do When You Dream of Tarot

How to Know If a General Reading Is Reliable

Tarot Etiquette

Formally introduce yourself

Be open to its requests

Use it often

Acknowledge the card that it assigns to you

Respect its identity

Do not cleanse it

Never ask it the same question twice

When You Can Ask the Same Question Again

Do not ask it basic questions

Do not use it for spying

Never dismiss its predictions

Never use another deck to confirm its answers

Read with it when you are emotional

Do not talk about it negatively

Do not blame it for your own mistakes

Do not pull away from it

Do not think of it as evil

Do not anger it

Shuffle your cards correctly

Respect tradition

Practice etiquette, conduct and decorum

Tarot is easily offended

On Charging Your Tarot Decks

On Modifying Your Tarot Decks

On Secondhand Tarot Decks

On the Significance of Your First Tarot Deck

On Neglected Tarot Decks

Pirated Decks Also Deserve Respect

How to Store Tarot Decks

How to Greet and Thank Your Tarot Deck

How to Make Amends with Tarot

Spend time with it

Never discard it

Use a cloth with it

Trust it

Sibilla 101

How to Read with Sibilla

How to Predict Timing with Sibilla

Kipper 101

How to Read with Kipper

Oracle Cards 101

How Oracle Cards Complement Tarot

Tarot + Oracle + Lenormand Spreads

All About Spells | All About Astrology

[luckyluxlady-deactivated2021043]

How to be hot ma'am

Your body needs to be perfect, you need to be in that gym at LEAST three times a week, you need to eat hella fruits and vegetables, drink your god damn water, take some vitamins that will help your hair and nails grow long as fuck so you can cut these hating ass bitches, beat your face to the gods on a daily basis, I don’t care if you’re just going to the post office walk out of the house as if you’re about to meet your future husband. Stop hanging out with boring ugly hoes who drag you down to their level!! Go to lunch by yourself, talk to other wealthy beautiful women like yourself, join groups for women entrepreneurs so that you can network with other bad bitches. Do facemasks regularly and make sure your mustache is always waxed!!!!!!