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Your future spouse is going to see you as being confusing but real and extremely bratty. I’m picking up on you petulantly turning your face away from them and back to them with your arms crossed across your chest but being open to revealing what’s bothering you once they push you enough, and try to romance you a bit xD. One thing that your future spouse is going to think is that you tend to struggle with people and are often more alone because of how real you are, and how much realness you prefer. You aren’t a very go with the flow person is what your future spouse will think, they’ll see you to be someone who consciously likes to choose and hence, narrow down possibilities of what could happen especially negatively. However, I keep on getting that they’ll also see you to be indecisive. This is one of my favourite things about doing future spouse and self readings, things tend to be more complex, and contradictory but that is life itself, that is what people are like, yin and yang, none of us are completely black, and white, nothing in life is, everything is a shade of grey even though not fifty xD. You’re either already or will have grown to become a very loving and nurturing person who is very abundant, and shares that abundance outwardly. Almost like a grandmother who shares sweet treats or bakes a pie for those she loves but you’re also going to be absolutely unwilling to accept anything less. You’ll believe that you deserve to be treasured and treated like a queen, and you’re not going to go about it in a petty manner, you’ll have maturity and will deserve to be treated with maturity, consideration, care, love, and gentleness because you’re able to offer it too. In fact, because that’s just who you are. You’re going to have a very realistic mindset i.e. that you will care for and love the other person, and there’s going to be a lot of respect and that you deserve the very same. Softness, comfort, gentleness, care, love and respect are going to be basic things that you will require, and will provide to the other party. You’ll not have this weird fantasy of someone chasing after you even if other people like you or you’re not interested in them and you falling for them because of the way they treat you, instead, when you’re single, you’ll seem a bit hard to approach or deal with because you’ll know what you want and you’ll be the type to consciously choose someone as driven, and passionate as you and someone who can actually handle you because you do have a tendency to be a little haughty at times, and bratty as fuck ofcourse. They’ll think that you tend to abandon people and situations easily, cutting through confusion, even if it causes you to be alone because you believe that you deserve gentleness, love, consideration, and do not like to have to experience negative emotions and thoughts even if you’re prone to it. Your future spouse is going to see you and the relationship to possess a duality. In fact, ‘tripality’ would be a more accurate term to use. You’re going to be someone who’s been alone for quite a bit and is more reserved especially emotionally when something will occur socially or at work because that will happen, you’ll sometimes feel extremely left out by people, even ridiculed by them, even if you’re troubled, you’re going to try to keep your feelings to yourself and deal with them by yourself, trying to gain clarity.
That’s one of the things that they’ll not like about you, a relationship is supposed to be teamwork making dreamwork but you’re going to try to deal with things by yourself, they’ll just really want to be there for you, but they’ll also find it to be really admirable, the way you cut past illusions or without doing so, make the choice that is the most favourable for you. You’re not going to be one to stay in confusion for too long. You’re not going to fuck with doubts and people treating you weird, you’ll never talk to them again unless you absolutely have to, and even so, you’ll keep to yourself and maintain sanity. They’ll love how high of a regard you hold yourself to and how much you love, and respect yourself and they’ll also feel flattered that you do not get rid of them despite having low tolerance for other people. You’re both going to be extremely possessive of each other because you’ll both be consciously choosing each other and there’s going to be no one for you besides each other but there’s going to be a tendency towards paranoia from both parties. Despite valuing comfort and love, you’re going to be the type to stick with them through thick, and thin and will love them even on days when they’re unable to do much for you, and vice versa which will only cause you both to feel even more passionately and possessively towards one another. You’re the whole package in every sense of the word or so your future spouse will think. You’re going to have a tendency to act bratty like I said earlier, sometimes, it’s going to be something more mature i.e. you act mad but you express your emotions to them and make up with them once they try to get you to talk, and sometimes petty petty i.e. they literally cannot win with you because you’re absolutely unwilling to cooperate and yes, sometimes it will be a bit more playful i.e. you simply being a drama queen but at other times, it’s going to be a real issue because you’ll be acting the way that you’ll be acting out of insecurity and negative emotions, and thoughts that you’re literally being unable to let go of. The good thing is that at least you’ll be expressing these issues to them, though not healthily as it will still be something that keeps you connected because you’ll not have to deal with these emotions and matters alone, all by yourself, and they’ll be there to ease it for you and reassure you time and time again. Your future spouse is going to find it a bit funny, the way that you decisively cut people out of your life without even having a conversation with them when they treat you weirdly because you know you deserve better and you do not voice it out to them that strongly or even if you do, you let the matter go after a conversation, or two but with them, even if you’re fighting about the same thing for a thousandth time and it’s ridiculous, you’re still unwilling to let go of them, and vice versa. Your relationship is going to be very ride or die in nature according to your future spouse, you’re going to be unwilling to leave each other no matter what even though, there’s going to be a tendency towards paranoia, fighting and intensity - both the negative, and the positive sort due to possessiveness. Your relationship is going to be one in which there’s a presence of unconditional love and a bit of blindsidedness to each other’s faults. In fact, I wouldn’t say that it’s blindsidedness. You’re going to have possessiveness, fears, paranoia, etc. be very present in your relationship out of passion and intense, and overwhelming love. You’re both going to be unable to imagine a life without each other so it’s like, you’ll be very possessive of each other and demanding, and so you’ll have fights and act bratty with each other, it doesn’t have to be toxic all the time though sometimes, it will be but it’s mostly going to be a bit more childish i.e. something that adds more passion into the relationship and it’s not going to be something that either of you are going to move away from i.e. this thing will be your dynamic, and not something ‘make or break’ you know?
To explain it plainly, when you’ll be possessive, you’ll be angry and will have a fight but they’ll reassure you, and you’ll continue fighting but they’ll hold you with love even if they’re still running their tongue and they’ll still be expressing their love for you, and telling you that they chose you and will always choose you, and you’re going to end up melting into them and vice versa, and despite it being intense, it will be natural to you and not something insanely toxic, though definitely not healthy, and can be toxic at times. They’ll think that you both have started wanting and needing each other so much, and there’s such an intense desire and love that fighting, and expression of angry and negative thoughts, and emotions is just normal, it’s going to be a part of your intimacy, a part of your relationship but the thing is, it’s not going to take from the ‘love’ and beautiful parts of your relationship. Your love and comfortable, nurturing, and gentle moments will overpower this negativity even if it’s just a 51 vs. 49 kinda deal. You’re both going to see ugly sides of each other and love each other anyway. ‘Unconditionally’ by Katy Perry keeps on coming through for how they’ll see your relationship. Codependency is not a good thing but it’s not as bad as people make it seem either. The truth is that if we are in personal relationships, to some extent, we will inevitably depend on each other whether we want to or not. The closer we get to see someone, the more we are exposed to the uglier sides of them. Your relationship is going to be (according to them) one in which, they see your insecurities, your uglier sides, your fears, your negative thoughts and emotions, and you when you’re being extremely overwhelmed and in turn overwhelming them too a bit but they love you unconditionally, and are a grounding force for you because they validate your emotions and deal with them even if it is overwhelmingly negative. There’s going to be this thing in which, they’ll love you because you’re complex, because you’re passionate, because you experience rightful anger, because you’re real, because of all that makes you you, including the anger and the way you get rid of people. They’re going to love you a lot and you’ll know it, they’ll put up with your anger even without proper apologies having to be said, and vice versa. They’ll know just how much you love them because they’ll be the one person who you will be outspoken with or express your anger, fears and ugly sides to even if you feel guilty instead of just cutting them out of your life like you do with everyone else. No matter how tough you may act, you’ll be a baby to them. They’ll possess a lot of love and consideration, and forgiveness will come along with it. Some of you may have had some issue with women or your mother, or emotions and nurturing while growing up or throughout your life but they’re going to love you so much, they’ll make up for all that you lacked or missed out on. The way they’ll love you is going to be so deep, I apologise if I was unable to express it well. Listen to the song though, that’s the closest that it can be explained. There’s going to be extreme acceptance for both parties and so much love, and consideration causing even the most negative emotions, thoughts and energies to be benevolent within the relationship. Despite how much negativity and toxicity was coming through individually, and in the context of the relationship itself, I keep on getting that the relationship is going to be one of love and all of the negativity, once touched with love is going to only further strengthen it.
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Your future spouse is going to see your relationship as something that is thriving because you both have invested a lot into it. However, what they’re going to like about you as well as themself and the relationship itself is your inability as well as unwillingness to fall complacent. Both parties in this situation are going to be the type to pause and examine what is, and isn’t working out in your relationship and try to do better as individuals, and as partners. They’re going to see you as someone who’s worked hard to become who you are and as being a highly principled person who is present, and true to themself and undergoes moments that are a bit extreme in nature but that even if such things shake you up internally, you do not let them get to you too much externally and yes, your mood might seem visibly off externally but you still don’t let such situations, and emotions dictate your actions too much and that even internally, you swallow whatever negativity comes your way in order to further strengthen yourself. One thing that I find to be extremely beautiful is the faith that they’ll possess in your marriage, they’re going to see your relationship as something that is deeply grounded and reliable. They’re going to want to provide the best for you and they’ll know that you hold the same sentiment too. Let me just get this out of the way, there’s always been a lot of villainisation of women who are highly independent and know what they want. If you’re someone who is highly principled, responsible, ethical and a provider in whatever way you can be so your standards are high, and while they may seem unrealistic to others, they’re very realistic to you because you naturally are that way, you shouldn’t have to lower your standards for yourself or others especially someone you are supposedly going to form an intimate relationship with. I’m getting that you don’t want to have to train a partner or anything. You want a partner who’s naturally so inclined towards self improvement that they’d make a good person in general and a fit partner for you, and another thing is that even if you were to lower your standards, you’d not be able to be well matched with anything lesser than this because the way you are, it’s almost as if you’d end up emasculating the other person. If you think about it carefully, you’re everything that a dream man is supposed to be and possibly even more so only someone who’s deeply grounded in their masculinity, and character can be with someone like you because only then would there be a match. We are looking at this from your future spouse’s perspective so please keep in mind that they’re going to see whatever I’m writing. They’re going to think that you’re someone who is highly grounded and knows what they want, and stubborn and passionate, and yes, you will have a bit of a tendency towards directness in speech too but they’ll think that you have a solid character and are highly principled, and you’re going to be someone who’s constantly improving themself and they’ll love you for all that you are, and everything that you do and especially everything that you require within a partner for basic resonance without categorising you as being too much or having unrealistic standards. You are going to be loved for being passionate, outspoken, having high standards, holding yourself to them and maintaining them, and all your wisdom and maturity, and groundedness and seriousness without being made to feel too much. They’ll love you for your qualities rather than despite them. With someone like you, it’s important that you have a partner who’s always on an upward trajectory so that they can keep up with you or so your future spouse will think but overall, they’ll see your relationship to be very passionate and grounded.
They’ll have so much faith in you and your relationship that they’re going to know not to let your relationship fall apart when things come about because they’ll have to hear it from you, they’ll really value your side of the story and I strongly get that it’s going to mean a lot to you. You’re someone who tends to experience extremes in life in terms of opinions and the thing is, you’re so focused on maintaining your own character, and integrity that you don’t care to or even when you try to, you’re often not heard out and people often try to or outnumber you naturally because you also seem like someone who can hold their own so people often do not even try to support you or they’re not able to do so as much as you would like. In many ways, you’re highly misunderstood despite having a very grounded character and so your future spouse is going to be unwilling as well as naturally unable to do that to you. It’s going to be great to have someone who naturally has so much faith in your character. Another thing is that birds of the same feather flock together and you’re attracted to what you’re naturally in alignment with, and in this case, they’re going to want to become a better person, a better man (if you belong to the majority of my audience which is full of straight women but take it as it resonates) so they’re going to feel really blessed to have ended up with someone like you who makes them better everyday, more of a man or woman and inspires them to maintain a certain standard in their life, and character. They’re going to see the both of you as a stabilising force in each other’s lives and also as having insane loyalty towards each other, and understanding of each other. Both of you deal with people jumping to conclusions about you or not supporting you when crisis occurs and partially, it’s because you both seem perfectly capable of dealing with things by yourself but having someone who is there for them without them having to ask and someone who they give the same to is going to be such a blessing to them. Especially when it comes to connections and socialisation, when things fall apart, both of you have had to let go of friends because they lacked the backbone to support you in any way at all at some point or various points in your life and in fact, many times, due to how threatened people tend to feel by both of you, ‘friends’ have turned against you and supposedly randomly, and there was a lack of call out from the rest of your friends so things ended and yes, both of you tend to handle such situations really well when they come about but when with each other, there’s going to be someone there with you during such moments and they’ll greatly appreciate you for that, and will want to support you and be your strength too. They’re going to see you as being a very present and positive person because you’ve built yourself, your mindset and your life with so much effort, and hard work that you’re unwilling to let anything pull you out of it and they’re going to be the same way so whenever something occurs in either of your lives, the other person is going to be there for them while highlighting the positives of the situation, reassuring that it will be over soon because there is nothing that lasts permanently after all and that includes pain, and sorrow as well and there’s going to be composure as well as healthy experience, and expression of negative emotions within your marriage is what they’ll think. You’re both going to be tough people externally. I just heard “you lose when you lose your composure”, you’re going to be the type to not show you’re struggling or give into anger, or negative emotions socially and publicly, the thing is that due to your own containment and the way you guys have a big energy, it will be obvious when you’re low but you’ll not be expressing it by acting out of control.
When you get home though, you might have a breakdown or you may not sometimes and vice versa but the other person is going to be an active listener regardless, and extremely present. If they’re hurting, you’re not just going to up and go about your routine, and activities, you’ll stay there, wait for them to talk if they want to and will offer them water, and will hold onto them affectionately or just stay there, trying to offer support and the thing is, despite how firm and strong they’ll be to the entire world, you’ll bring out that soft side of them that will express what is hurting them and what they’re struggling to move past but even so, they’re still going to voice it out wisely i.e. “I know that I’ll get over it soon and plus just the way a muscle needs to be torn to be built stronger, the brain and spirit does too. I just need to feed myself positive thoughts and lessons during this time so that I can come out stronger, and more wise.” You’re both going to have a similarity of character in this respect. You’re going to have a very respectful and respectable character but will also be very affectionate, and childlike in your persona but also mature. Someone playful and fun loving but wise, and affectionate and childlike but mature, and grounded. When you’ll undergo such moments, you’ll come home and have a breakdown, and they’ll literally wipe your tears off your face and will be unwilling to let you deal with things on your own. Ofcourse, if they have work, they’ll have to get back to it soon but they’re going to see you as a priority that causes them to leave everything aside just for your well-being. They’re going to feel very protective and almost paternal towards you, and will honestly want to keep you safe from such experiences but obviously that’s not possible so they’ll be there for you but one thing that you can expect from them is extreme loyalty and to stand up for you to others, and that includes getting mad for you if there’s flakiness in your environment. They’re going to think that your relationship makes them more responsible and dutiful but also more childish because they end up having an attitude of “I’ll handle it later” regarding work, and routines if it means being there for you emotionally or spending more time having fun with you (including sexually unless you’re asexual). They’re often going to end up having to rush things or work late because of how busy they were with you earlier but they’ll not regret it one bit despite the stress and regret when they’re having to overwork. Well, they will regret it but since they enjoyed their time with you, they’ll also not? They’ll value how ambitious, principled, purehearted and loving you are, all the qualities that tend to make you ‘too much’ to others will be treasured by them. They’ll see you to be the whole package and so much more. I love this for you.
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Your future spouse is going to see your relationship as something that makes them feel deeply and passionately, and in ways that they cannot really contain. There are many cards that point towards honesty, guilt and justice being served. In many ways, they’re going to feel like you bring out the worst in them because while usually, they may be more controlled, with you, they might end up expressing anger more strongly without much control so there might be guilt about that but they’ll be willing to take accountability for their own actions and you’ll also be the same way. I’m picking up on something very specific, during the initial stages of your relationship, they’re going to be more of the soft and understanding sort within the relationship, and will be highly controlled but in many ways, they’ll lack emotional intelligence and will end up upsetting you, and you being as passionate as you are and also having them test your temper will end up going down on them, and it’s not exactly going to be healthy because you’ll not have the healthiest relationship with your own anger and will not understand the direction, purpose, and reason for it causing you to feel guilty for it. Over time, they’ll grow a lot of anger towards you while you’ll grow a lot of softness towards them and so some sort of dynamic that you’ll have grown used to will be broken. You’ll have a major soft spot for them because they’ll present themself to you as this very understanding, emotional and soft person but they’ll get mad at you over time because of the way you express your anger to them, and will end up changing the dynamic by not acting the way they used to anymore. The energy is very much giving “they just changed” or “they were very cruel at the end of the relationship, it’s like a switch had flipped” vibes. Honestly, for some of you, you might meet this person while you’re still fairly young or when your reasoning skills aren’t that good yet because I’m almost getting a feeling of you not understanding your own feelings, they’ll feel the same way too so you won’t understand your anger towards them and vice versa. I think what will have been happening is that just like everyone, they’ll be trying to put their best foot forward with you in the relationship, presenting their best side but at some point, they’ll end up revealing their ‘true side’ to you, one that’s angry and honestly, slightly cruel. Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if your connection has a temporary separation. You’re going to be a very fair person so you’ll be really hard on yourself as you’ll think that they’re just mad at you for the way you treated them, because of your own anger but you’ll also be mad at them, angry for being so cruel to you and acting like a different person. We are looking at this from their perspective so they’ll see your relationship as one that has many resentments and a lot of anger, and there’s going to be this trajectory in which initially, you’ll feel really guilty even when you’re mad at them and they’ll be mad at you, and will think that it was rightful, the way they acted even if they feel guilty at times but over time, you’ll realise that the way they acted was not it and despite your own faults, you didn’t deserve to be so hard on yourself while overlooking how egoistic they were acting. ‘The way I loved you’ by Taylor Swift is the vibe that I’m getting here for your connection. Over time, you’ll both mature significantly since when you first met each other and that familiarity that you had with each other will fade as you’ll have become strangers but the more that the memories of the past blur, the more that they’ll see how measly of a person they used to be. You’ll both move on from the past and they’ll think that it’s only fair that you have decided to move on but somehow, you’ll end up back together, and when you do, things will have changed but also not. The thing is, they’ll have acted as though they do not care about you when the connection ended.
Very much the type to have claimed that they never loved you, that they don’t and never will, and so you’ll have moved on because of how they started acting like a whole different person and yes, it may have taken you time, and you may have been in denial because you knew what you felt and you felt like they weren’t being honest with you. You may have even wanted to make up to them at some point assuming that they’re angry at you and hurt by you but there was nothing you could do about it so you will have moved past it but the emotions, and anger, neither of you will have provided any sort of closure or healthy communication to each other, the messiness, you’ll have grown out of it and left it behind is all especially you. You’ll have grown to become a highly fair and reasonable person who considers different points, and actions and proof in order to make decisions even regarding connections without much sentimentality at all. You will not let your emotions blind you and will want to see things, and people as they are even if you do not like what you see. You’ll deeply value honesty and fairness to yourself because you’ll have always tried to provide the same to others but this trait of yours will have caused you to be scorned because others will not have been as thoughtful of you. When you’ll get back together, you’re going to have become a more mature version of yourself but despite that, the issues that you guys had left behind and moved on from will still be there, and you’ll have no choice but to deal with them. You’re going to have built a life for yourself and will focus on maintaining it while remaining well adorned (whatever that means to you - makeup, skincare, clothes, accessories) so while you will be prioritising them, you’ll have a lot going for you so the truth is that, the way that you’ll have grown to be, even if they were to leave your life, you’d be fine, because you’d occupy that space with something like another goal, activity, hobby, etc. or at least that’s how they’ll perceive you. They’re going to perceive your relationship as one in which both parties have grown up significantly and matured as well as have let go of past issues. There will have been confessions, apologies and a lot of honesty about everything, and you’ll have moved over things with fairness and honesty. You guys still will have some issues with anger, ego and emotions but at the end of the day, you’ll prioritise each other, and fight for your relationship. I started hearing that song by Akon in my head. “Nobody wanna see us together but it don’t matter, no cause I’ve got you babe. Nobody wanna see us together but it don’t matter, no cause we gon’ fight. Promise we gon’ fight, believe we gon’ fight, fight for our right to love yeah. Nobody wanna see us together but it don’t matter, no.” You guys will fight with each other too but you’ll also fight for the relationship. They’re going to see the relationship as something that required immense maturity and work, and as having had moments of childishness and immaturity but everything will weigh heavily on them as they’ll try to do, and be everything for you. That’s what they’ll appreciate about you as well, that’s what they’ll love about you. You’re highly passionate and you take commitments seriously, and when you do, you’re willing to do for them. You do not view romance and love as just the fun parts or the yearning, or the feelings of attraction, excitement, and it is something that you have always taken seriously. For you, due to how seriously you take commitments, if you’ve ever entered a ‘casual’ connection or just tried with someone who you weren’t deeply in love with and sure about, you have or have a tendency to feel suffocated. You cannot stay in such connections. You crave passion and you crave duty, you want to feel so passionately for someone that it weighs on you, you want to love someone so much that you are overwhelmed and it is very subconscious on your part.
You may not even realise that this is how you operate, and this is what you’re looking for but that’s how they’ll see you. Also, remember that I mentioned a temporary separation earlier? You might meet them at a time when your passionate, serious and also fighting nature will be too much for them but during the same time, they’ll end up developing an appetite and craving for it. They’ll realise this over time that other people cannot quite love them like you because they do not possess passion, courage, dutifulness and seriousness like you do, and yes, it will come at the small cost of your extreme temper and them themself losing their mind but when I tell you that they’d not trade what you have for anything or anyone, I’m not even kidding. You’ll know each other inside out because anger is something that you’re not very comfortable with expressing or even experiencing, you tend to feel really guilty but even so, you’re going to end up expressing that side of yourself to them and they’ll end up showing you really ugly sides of themself too, they’ll show you emotionally immature, uncaring sides of them, they’ll hurt you because of their own issues, they’ll pretty much cause a wound in your inner child honestly because you’ll hold such a soft spot for them, you’ll love them just as you would a child, you’ll have viewed them as this very pure thing that deserves utmost gentleness and care, and that image will break but despite all of this, they’ll not want anyone but you. You’ll both work through all of these issues in order to be with each other. You’ll fight with each other but you’ll also fight for each other. They’ll not be proud of their earlier actions so they’ll want to do right by you. Honestly, if you’re straight, they’ll very much feel like they haven’t been or aren’t man enough for you. They’ll feel like they don’t deserve you but that’s what’s going to push them to try to become better. They’ll see you as someone who tried to do right by them even as they were hurting you because you really really cared about them and were a very pure hearted individual. They’ll know that you’re someone who tends to keep your emotions clutched more tightly but even so, you’ll have tried to express your emotions as well as remorse to them but they’ll have egotistically believed that it’s only fair to not give you a second chance so over time, you’ll grow sick of trying. However, even though you’ll choose to be fair to yourself and cut all ties, and attachment to them in order to move forward, when you’re together, they’ll see you as someone to protect and be there for because of your purity of heart, genuine concern, empathy, and especially desire to be fair in situations. They’re going to adore you. You’re going to be very serious and will have moments when you’ll fight with them but you’re going to be one hell of a partner to be with. First of all, you’re going to be yourself very unapologetically. Your directness will sometimes greatly offend people but with you, in many ways, what they see is what they’ll get and also who you are. Whether they can digest it or not is their problem. You’re also going to be very fair to yourself and honest, and will have high standards and strong boundaries so it’s very much going to be “one strike and you’re out” with you. You’re going to be the type to get over the past very fast and literally will not have much sentimentality about it even if you’re a very nostalgic person i.e. once someone does you wrong, you’ll be honest with yourself about the situation and the past won’t matter to you anymore even if you’re immensely grateful for certain things from that time. You are also going to be one of those people who will maintain boundaries with other people and will make sure that certain things are reserved for your relationship, and your partner and only them.
To add onto it, due to how you take everything seriously, you’re going to be very firm in standing up for them as well and will not allow anyone, and I mean anyone at all to disrespect your partner. You’re going to be someone who will preach what you think honestly even if the other person does not agree with you and you’re going to be a preacher who talks about what you think is right or wrong so you very much will correct people but they might not like it causing you to have to learn how to be occupied and have things going for you so rejection is just a part of life, and not something that bothers you but you’re going to be the whole package for them and while, because of how serious, firm, passionate, sensitive, pure hearted, honest, fair, real and direct you are, and how much you preach fairness and goodness, you may be insufferable, and too much for some, they’ll love you for all these qualities instead of despite it. They’ll find your realness, seriousness, virtues, values, morals, dutifulness, passion, honesty, EVERYTHING to be incredibly refreshing. They’ll look at and for you in any room that they’re in, and will enjoy conversations with you because one thing about you is that despite your seriousness, you’re not a dull person. First of all, you’re going to be a really curious person who genuinely enjoys learning and you’ll really enjoy conversations, and one other thing about you is that you’ll be into correcting yourself and at some point, you’re going to learn how to listen to people attentively or at least them because you’re going to want to be heard so you’ll know just how much it could mean to the other person so conversations with you will flow very easily and they’ll get to learn a lot from you as well as, they’ll find that they only become more, and more curious about you as more time goes by despite how real and honest you are about who you are, and how you present yourself just as you are because much like other humans, you possess complexities within yourself and unlike them you accept, embrace, experience and express it. They’re going to overindulge in their relationship with you. You guys are going to be the type to get so drunk at night because ‘you only live once’ but they’ve got work the next morning or if you don’t drink, go on a trip on Sunday when one of you has something important to submit on Monday. Especially sex is going to be of indulgent nature. They’re not going to be able to get enough of you even though you’ll spend a lot of time together and they’ll touch you a lot, and have a lot of fun with you, they’ll still want more and more, and more of you. They’ll become almost clingy and needy, and yes, even that will annoy you at times but it’s going to be an adorable dynamic because the ‘you’ that’s so used to living your own life and busy maintaining it will still love them, and spend a lot of time with them and enjoy it despite having a lot on your own plate. You’re going to be the very passionate sort so you’ll live wholeheartedly causing you to be just as indulgent as them and I keep on hearing that ‘close’ will never be close enough for them, and that hours spent with you will still never be enough for them because they’ll just want more and more, and more and more but they’ll still have to understand that you are your own person, and need your own space and time causing them to have to keep their distance from you but they’ll still watch you from a distance. They’ll be yearning for you within the relationship when they’re giving you your space. This is so adorable. I’m picking up on you scolding them for following you around or touching you too much, or still wanting and trying to be with you even though you’ve been seeing only their face for the past two days, and them stretching their upper body from the living room to see what you’re doing in the kitchen or getting up and walking past the bedroom to catch a mere glimpse of you.
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