Rock band members with long hair and legendary personalities come and go. This is but just a little look inside of the one and only Rob Graham. Many know him for performing in the short-lived two piece band Wet Nuns with the late Alexis Gotts, as well as in the thunderous three-piece band Drenge alongside the two Loveless brothers and if you are really up on the scene in the mysterious band Logs.
Only time will tell the impact Rob can and will have on and off the stage but a story it will be. We were able to catch up with the multi-talented, down to earth, long-haired, mustache wearing, fierce sideburn having, living legends a while back and caught up on the early days and a bit of everything in between up until now.Â
Here the interview with a tremendous man, one who we believe has the high chance of having a memorable rock career.
BandShoes: What is your name and what’s your job in the band?
Rob: My Name is Rob Graham, I provide bass guitar, 6 string guitar, and outfits in a band called Drenge from Sheffield in the UK.Â
BandShoes: Drenge is not the first band you have played/toured with; how has the transition from fronting Wet Nuns to keeping the vibe with the boys in Drenge been?
Rob: I’ve played in bands since I was about 13/14, I first went on tour with Wet Nuns in 2012. There was a gap from October 2013 to January 2015 between finishing fronting Wet Nuns and playing for Drenge. In that time I was pretty much just bumming around Sheffield being totally uncreative, fairly depressed and working in a lovely little independent coffee place. So the transition wasn’t totally straight. I think, to begin with, I just kept myself to myself, played my parts and stayed out of the limelight with Drenge. As time has passed and I’ve rediscovered my “mojo” a little I’ve stepped forward and had a lot more fun on stage. I don’t know whether this keeps with the vibe, but I like to think I’ve added a bit of something to the live thing, I’m a total shameless poser after all.Â
BandShoes: Did you answer a Myspace ad for a place on the Drenge team or did the hunt you down for your skills?Â
Rob: We’ve been friends for a long time me and the Drenge boys. We went to a small rural school in the peak district together and have always shared music we like with each other. I think they just hated seeing me not making music and working 9-5 in the coffee shop they go to and asked me to climb in the van to get me out of the city and back into being creative again. Very nice move which I will probably be forever grateful for.Â
BandShoes: Why and when did you pick up the art of performing and how did you find the confidence?Â
Rob: From around 15 years of age I worked in a local tourist attraction giving guided tours of a cave. I think this probably had something to do with my ability to stand in front of a bunch of people and say things and “perform” to some extent. I’ve never really thought too much about why I want to do the band thing or why I enjoy it as much as I do. These days the confidence probably comes from a mixture of not really giving a shit what people think about, what I have to play and say (I’d happily watch and listen to someone else do what I do, I think) and having a healthy few brews before a show. Nowt like a bit of dutch courage is there?Â
BandShoes: What type of music did you grow up listening to and who are some musicians you have been listening to lately that are inspiring you?Â
Rob: I listened to all sorts growing up. Started off with a load of really obvious stuff like The Beatles and The Stones, Nirvana, The Ramones, The Hives, White Stripes and that sort of thing. Quickly expanded with plenty of influence from magazines, school friend’s and their parent’s record collections; this is where I found Bob Dylan, T-Rex, Led Zepp, Sabbath, a fair bit of classical piano based stuff (Chopin is a favourite of mine). But there’s a plethora of other shit that I love/have loved at some point or other. Lately, I really got into the Loaded album by Velvet Underground, I’m super late to the party with them but they’re a band that has always passed me by up until quite recently. I really love this Swedish band called Pärson Sound at the moment, I came across them a good while ago but am revisiting lately. They’re a kind of jam band that eventually turned into International Harvester, really jammy loose stoned-out kind of vibe, fucking hippies.Â
BandShoes: What are your go-to shoes for a gig and does a lot of thought go into your fashion choices prior to a show?Â
Rob: I think I’ve pretty much exclusively worn Doc Martens boots for every show I’ve ever played with Drenge, not least because they make me feel slightly taller in a band of two much taller people than me. They’re also really comfy, hard wearing and not too bulky to hit pedals and so on. I don’t really “dress-up” for stage, I just wear kind of slightly ridiculous clothes all of the time.Â
BandShoes: What has been inspiring your personal fashion style?Â
Rob: I had a great time blowing loads of cash on clothes last time we toured the US, I’m kind of into the whole 70’s cowboy thing. I try not to stray too far into disco vibe or full blown CSNY California thing. I just buy stuff I like and try the best I can to look a little bit like I wouldn’t be too out of place in the Allman Bros Band or Sabbath or something.Â
BandShoes: Which era do you think was doing it right and how does the future look in music in your eyes?Â
Rob: All era’s from the 50’s onward definitely have some area of musical culture that I’m interested by/passionate about. I’m probably most into the 70’s at the moment, Hard-Rock, proto-metal, glam, punk rock etc, there’s plenty there to go on. God knows what the future of music is. I know what I intend to do in the future, but beyond that, I’m not really qualified to say. I guess the album I’m trying to write myself will fundamentally redefine the future of all culture but then again it might just be total crap. I’m a fan of hindsight. Probably just because I don’t want to go out on a limb for fear of being wrong and looking like an idiot.Â
BandShoes: If you weren’t a touring musician what would your dream job be?Â
Rob: Astronaut.Â
If you happen to see Drenge coming to your local area or a planet near you be sure to go peep a gig in person and please don’t forget to buy my friend a pint of Guinness maybe even buy a band tee from his merch person.
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