Or So She Said

Wash the fade, embrace the grace

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"Hi Sakura! Will you blossom soon ii des kaa?" 🌸 #hanami #wherethemflowersat? #fuji #seetohtravels (at Lake Kawaguchiko, Mt. Fuji)

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"Adults are only kids grown up anyway!" 🍄🐹😜 #childhood #worldofmagic 💫 (at Tokyo Disneyland)

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“Her heart was a secret garden and the walls were very high.” 🌾🏡 #quote #spoofootd #sootd #ootd #quoteoftheday #inspiration #inspirationalquotes #wiwt Damn, it was #seoulfreezing! Especially the (supposedly short) walks back to our apt braving the cold after social and late-night supper (ok fine breakfast)till 7am was only made bearable because of the awesome company throughout the trip. What's more amazing was my virgin #Seoulsalsa experience.. Till the next post! 😘 (at 서울고속버스터미널(경부/영동선))

[thebluedot]

Back again for the glorious mentaiko pasta 🍝 Sometimes, you just need 1 wok to rule them all! @fiveanddimesg #SOYUMMS #qotd #spoofqotd #sqotd Where are you guys? @ediang @lovethekisses 😊 #sunday #brunch

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Qotd

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. ~ Oprah Winfrey ~

[thebluedot]

🌻 They say if a friendship lasts longer than 7 years, it lasts a lifetime. We have been besties for almost 18 years now, does that mean I will also get to know you my next life? 😄 Through a few detentions and countless chiding by every teacher that steps into the class, I still cannot believe that we stuck together talking through every single minute of school life since primary 2. What did we know so much about at 8yo?! 👻 #memories Here's wishing the Happiest Birthday to the prettiest princess I've known 💗 Saying Hi to you in dance class was probably the best decision I've made in that entire decade! 😜 By the way, you're officially a quarter of a century old now. Muahaha Love you still! #throwback #commencementday #friendshipgoals #seeyouthisweekend 😘

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It's not the number of breaths we take, but the number of moments that take our breath away. . #ootd #sootd #spoofootd #wiwt #nofilter #dayout #sggirls #sweetyoungthing

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☀️: #gettingmytanon "Opportunity dances with those already on the dancefloor." Back at home earlier, the sun was kind of playing hide & seek with me from behind the clouds, the weather forecast deemed it to be a rainy afternoon. In spite of these doubts, I went ahead with the (spontaneous) plan anyway. It's been too long since my last swim-tan! 🏊🏻😍 And much to my pleasant surprise as I was finishing my second lap, I felt the warmth, and I saw the Sun peeked out from behind this huge dark cloud. And on the tanning bed I hopped onto. ☺️💪🏽😎 #wonderfulday #nofilter

[thebluedot]

2⃣0⃣1⃣6⃣ Resolution: To try more of the finest whiskies in the world! 🍼😋 And to stop making terribly stupid mistakes. And to start treating myself with the ❤️ I deserve. #hello2016🎉

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#hello2016🎉

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Whipped up a nice warm pot of chocolate fondue for our party guests 🍫😋 #yums Rushed off for a fun NYE d&d performance with the fireballers, now i can't wait to get back to my partay peoplrrr!! Asst. Chef: @lukkoutz #NYE #goodbye2015 #toaSweeter2016 🍻

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Last Friday night #ootd at Bangkok Salsa Fiesta, dressing to theme "Uniform"! 👔👢 Can you guess what did I dress as? ☺️💪🏽HUEHUE #salsabangkokfiesta2015 #sbf2015 #bkk

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Finally! Rumoured the best coffee in the world! #sundaybrunch #mythormiracle? Thanks @billakong for coming with me after so many failed attempts & clashed schedules (but mainly becos of their opening hrs 😅) And im feeling so excited to go for Garry Portugal's workshops now!!! #happysunday (at Nylon Coffee Roasters)

[thebluedot]

I can't buy happiness, but I CAN BUY ICE-CREAM 😋 which is kind of the same thing to me *slurps Finally tried #vegan icecream that's made with organic brown rice (EW, I know) but surprisingly tasty 10% less fat but 100% GUILT-FREE #Score! #tgif 🍷 (at Brownice Italian Bistro)

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#letitgo