Insecurity
Insecurities can be quite subtle. In terms of engaging in relationships and connections with people, sometimes it is hard to initially detect someone who is a little less confident, a little less sure, and a little less comfortable with all of who they are. It is up to us women to keep an eye open for this. This is not to say that we are immune from insecurities ourselves, but it IS to say that we cannot help build ourselves up with other broken people. Not only does it hinder our growth as beautiful beings but it can turn into abuse. Many people who are insecure don't just keep those insecurities to themselves. Nothing about the way that they feel is kept "under wraps." They tell you. They scream at you. They yell at you. And they make you know that they are unhappy. But this unhappiness comes at the expense of your own. People who are not happy with themselves do NOT make you feel better about yourself. What do insecure people do? How can we point it out? • The insecure talks about subjects that they have low confidence in. Even if the subject has nothing to do with the original conversation. Or even if there is no reason to talk about that thing at that time. •The insecure makes excuses for why they feel the way that they do instead of directly acknowledging the problem. •The insecure is not interested in addressing their concerns, or listening to constructive critique to get better and feel better. •The insecure tends to lie about things and is not completely truthful with all of what they do or how they feel. You don't have to hate people who are like this, but you MUST be weary. Beware and stay cautious Queens ❤️
