Hi, thanks for responding! I hope it's okay to give my rebuttal. So, first of all, the hot potato scene. Nate was not the only person tossing the phone around, Andy's friends were, as well. Also, this is a very... idk, friend thing to do? They thought it would be funny, Andy didn't. Yes they should've apologized, and yeah, it was a dick move (esp considering that they know how horrible Miranda can be), but it wasn't like they shot Andy in the chest. I agree with your statement on Miranda wholeheartedly, though.
Second of all, I didn't comment on the shipping? I don't hate the ship at all, and my gripe was with the mischaracterization, not with Miranda x Andy. I ship a lot of toxic femslash, too, so I understand the appeal.
Lastly, I guess Nate didn't apologize for what he did... but from my perspective, he didn't HAVE anything to apologize for except for maybe the phone tossing. Andy lashed out at him, cheated on him (she didn't initiate the kiss, sure, but she didn't pull away), and missed his birthday for a job event. He definitely wasn't a perfect boyfriend, but I'd be upset, too.
Also don't apologize! I love debate, and it's nice to hear from the side I was griping about :) thanks for stopping by!