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My first post of me. Let me know what you think!

I want to use this post to clear something up. When I talk about toxic masculinity it always causes a big backlash, and I’ve noticed it’s mainly because men don’t know what it means. When I say I hate toxic masculinity, I do not mean that I hate that you’re a man or that I hate masculinity.

Toxic masculinity is THIS. Toxic masculinity is when men reinforce the idea that men should suppress and ignore softer displays of emotions that are associated with women. Toxic masculinity is reinforcing the fear of physical affection between men because it makes them appear too feminine or even ‘homosexual’.

It has to stop. Let men cry. Let men hold each other. Stop perceiving things that are ‘feminine’ as weak because outing your emotions is not weakness, it’s strength.

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This dad is the Hero we Need.

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I've never had a good relationship with my father, but that's because he's an asshole, but I was never taught to think showing emotion or having any kind of physical contact with another man is weak. As far as "how that'll look" just want to point out that in sport men shower together, basically put their faces on each other's asses to reach for a ball, slap each other's asses, all while other men cheer them on. Just saying

Can someone just be my boyfriend please?