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GRIM • 26NB • Lee

[ticklemexpink]

• Temporary pinned post until I make a better one •

Hi! I’m Grim, 26, and primarily a lee (not much of a switch, unfortunately). I’m nonbinary and asexual, though I’m still considerably kinky.

Due to recent drama, I have to post this (will be put underneath a readmore):

I have major anxiety issues from the trauma/abuse/neglect I’ve dealt with for years. I’m trying to seek therapy for it, now that I’m finally independent. But I have boundaries, and I don’t like them crossed.

This is including selfies. I’m not just going to show my face to a stranger online, regardless of how much the stranger “really wants to see what I look like”. If I barely know you, I don’t trust you enough for that. My face is my identity. It’s up to me to determine to who gets to see it.

If I tell you “no” the first time, I do expect that to be respected, actually. I will be nice when turning you down about it. But if you ask about it repeatedly, or otherwise try to get me to show you a selfie (ex: “I really want to see what you look like now” a few hours after being told “no” the first time, as was the case that prompted this post), then I’m going to pull out of talking with you.

Because at that point, one of my boundaries are not being respected. As someone in a lee position, I need to trust my ler to respect my boundaries. I don’t think that’s a “small thing”, nor do I think I’m a “disgusting friend” for cutting off “the start of a friendship” when I feel uncomfortable by someone. Especially when I already explained to that same person not too long ago that the thing they wanted me to do made me uncomfortable.

Nor do I think it’s justified to come after me on an alt account and threaten to report me to other people or insult me over and over. I don’t know, I think that just shows me I made the right decision on that.

[ticklecraze]

Sometimes I just wanna be friends with someone who has a tummy obsession so I can be a little tummy slut and randomly tease them with pictures

[navelticklemonster-deactivated2]

[aussietummytickler]

(This may out myself but ope...)

Belly dancing: a tummy ler's weakness

Seriously, this is underrated as hecc. Y'all talk about underrated spots, but I'm here to tell ya about an underrated tease.

Know a Ler who loves tummies/hips/hipbones/bellybuttons/the entire midriff area? Feel like making them an absolute puddle of blush? Feel like making them absolutely hunger to pounce and tickle your torso silly? Welp, this is one hell of a technique.

With just a few simple wiggles or sways, this product of the revoleetion will stun lers in their tracks! (Including specifically tummy lers like myself but shhhhhhhhhhh that's private info 🙈)

You could be comfy in a jumper that stretches easily above your waist when stretching your arms up, surprising the Ler with sudden exposure!

Or, alternatively, if you enjoy wearing crop tops/low-rise jeans/baggy sweatpants/bikinis, make it even worse for them with already exposed midriff only luring them in further to a near uncontrollable Ler mood!

Feign ignorance and innocence by just simply announcing that you're "having a stretch!"

Can be done by lees of any size! As long as you're comfy and happy, that's all that counts!

Can even be done whilst tied up! (Depending on position. Terms and conditions apply)

Also functions as a pretty fun dance!

Try the underrated tease today!

Tease a ler today, get wrecked the same day!

GUARANTEED!!!

[theticklemonster99]

Why are you exposing me like this?

[theticklemonster99]

Tummy tuesday's have me like this as a belly obsessed ler...

[androgynousevilqueen]

Look, all I want is to stick my tongue into a ticklish bellybutton and feel all the little trembles and flutters of their tummy as I kill them with the anticipation of when I'll start wiggling my tongue.

[theticklemonster99]

Man I'm dying to experience this

[sophucking-subby-deactivated202]

that part of the tummy between the bottom of the bellybutton & the top of the waistline

[idreamofticklehugs]

Is illegal? Is evil? Should be ignored??

[theticklemonster99]

Is one of my favorite spots to nibble on 😍 why is the pooch so hot

[ticklemexpink]

I’m going to delete this sideblog soon. I’ve barely got into the tickling community, but I already don’t want to be here anymore. I don’t want to deal with anymore creeps, and I apparently making a post about it is “discriminating” now.

I’m removing my pin from Tklmap and keeping to myself. I didn’t think I’d get harassed by a creep, and didn’t think I’d get turned into the bad guy for the post when I made it.

[diablodesires]

Your non-sexual, playful, lighthearted tickling is not better or less kinky than someone who wants to be tortured or play with hard CNC scenes or gets really turned on by tickling. It's not more pure, it's not "sfw", it's DEFINITELY not safe for minors (which includes writing to tickle fic about minors imho), it's not the "correct" way to interact with tickling.

I'm really tired of seeing both lees and lers with more hardcore desires ostracized from tickle spaces because people deem them unsafe or too sexual/deviant for literal kink spaces. It's giving cop, it's giving purity culture, it's giving a lot of bad shit!!!

Honestly a lot of the people with more "hardcore" desires are better at communication, negotiating, and boundaries than people who keep it more "tame" because we HAVE to be in order to engage with what we like.

Anyways. I am once again asking you to not demonize people who like a different kind of kink from you, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Figure out how to recognize the difference in your body between "this makes me uncomfortable because it's not for me" and "this makes me uncomfortable because this person seems to be violating boundaries and consent." Just because YOU wouldn't consent doesn't mean no one else can. Just keep scrolling.

I refuse to exist in a sanitized kink community and you should too!

[diablodesires]

Adding these tags cuz!!!!

I really think a lot of people who wanna call their kink anything other than a kink are (intentionally or not) avoiding the kind of accountability and expectations of communication that come with kink play.

"well it's not a kink so it's okay I provoke my friends into tickling me without telling them how much I like it" - that's a consent violation, baybee.

"I can be pushy and not accept a no because it's *just* tickling" - how do you not see how that's not okay?

Meanwhile, Jimmy and John spent weeks negotiating their hardcore kidnapping and CNC tickle torture scene and everyone's thrilled to be involved.

Kink doesn't get safer when you water it down and attempt to sanitize it. It gets MORE DANGEROUS when you remove yourself from the community because you think kinksters are scary bad deviants.

[jenstickleblog]

Position - Sitting, arms overhead

Spot - Ribs and sides

[kinksntickles]

Is it my favorite? I’ll never tell 🤭

[foot-tickling-fetish]

Oh, this spot must love being tickled.

[theticklerking]

[sensitivebellybutton-deactivate]

A Guide to Navel Pleasure Part 3: Partner Play

Hiya!

It's all well and good making yourself bite your pillow playing with your own belly button, but what about the fateful day you find yourself about to indulge in a totally different person's navel?

FEAR NOT!

I have returned from the shadows to give you some ideas for how to make that special someone reach heaven through their belly button. Remember, this is all about COMMUNICATION and understanding. What's written here is largely subjective to my own belly button, so if something doesn't work don't worry! It's just as fun experimenting with belly buttons.

Firstly, you two need to get in the mood...

PART 1: LETS GET READY-READY

- If you plan on switching roles, make sure both of you are wearing appropriate belly button clothing. Otherwise, ensure your sub is dressed in something that fully exposes their tummy and belly button.

- Have a good, long discussion about your belly buttons and what works best in a solo environment. Do they have an innie or an outie? Do they enjoy a little bit of pain? Can they navelgasm? Are they comfortable with any other supplementary play (like nipples?).

- Have a photoshoot! Like I said in the last post, taking pictures of your belly button sets the mood in a uniquely sexy way. Get all their good angles, take close-ups, point out on the photos where you're going to ravish them...

Hot and bothered? Good. Grab a pen, it's doodling time <3.

PART 2: SPELLING BEE

I got inspired for this technique @buttonpics, and it's feels insanely good. You can do this one solo too, but doing it with a partner adds a whole other dimension, as you'll see.

- Lie your sub down, their belly button exposed and their knot ready.

- Now, softly plant the pen on their chest, letting them feel the cool point, and start to gently glide it down their tummy. When you reach their navel, skirt AROUND it slowly and go all the way to their waistline. Then, go back up, once again avoiding their belly button. You dont want them getting what they want right away, do you?

- Repeat the above step two or three times, or until you feel they're ready. The next time you reach their belly button, start to gently move the penpoint onto their navel rim and softly trace it, making sure to keep it firmly on the outside.

- As they more and more desperate, verbally begin counting down from 10. With each number, inch the pen a little deeper into their navel, still circling. By 1, let your pen dip onto their knot.

- Here's the fun bit: I want you to pick a couple of words in your head. It could be "belly button" or "navel" or "subby button" or whatever. Let your sub know that you have a word in your head, and they are to try and guess what you're spelling out.

- When drawing each letter, make sure you REALLY over-do it. For example, if writing the letter B, draw that first line up agonisingly slowly, then that first and second curve should be hitting as many folds on their knot as possible. Every letter should be exaggerated, making the navel-owner an absolute mess 😈.

- Give your sub little hints as you're writing, because it's quite hard to think straight when your sensitive belly button is being stimulated in such a way. Don't be too hard on them if they don't get it, this is all about making them feel as good as possible.

You can also do this same exercise with shapes, which has the bonus of you being able to colour it in when you're done (thinking about how that feels makes me 🤯)

PART 3: NAVELINGUS

The holy grail of belly button play, the thing that all owners of erogenous navels hope to experience one day, it's belly button licking. Done right, this can be probably the most incredible feeling. Therefore, it's important we get it right!

You may want to give it a good clean before diving in with your tongue, refer to Part 1 of this series for how to get them shuddering with a Q-tip. Also, make sure that your sub is either wearing a short enough top that it won't get in the way of your head, or no top at all. It's just an annoyance otherwise.

- Their whole stomach is your canvas. With your mouth you can lick, kiss, nibble, bite and suck. That's a lot of different sensations, so we're going to use all of them.

- Firstly, you're going to give their tummy as much gentle love as you can. Nibble adoringly up their sides, lick across their lower stomach, deeply kiss their middle while holding their hand, whatever feels right in the moment. Consider their navel a reward for sitting so still and being so good while you pleasured their belly, and only give it to them when they're ready.

- Once again, the rim is your first port of call. Start with a wide, flat tongue on their lower stomach and lick upwards, transitioning to a pointed, sharp tongue as you begin orbiting their navel. The immediate area around their belly button should be glistening with saliva. Another good move is to gently bite on their navel rim, your top teeth digging just a bit below the rim while your bottom teeth lightly graze their stomach.

- Your tongue isn't as precise as many of the tools you will have been used to using, so don't worry as much about targeting small folds and dimples. It also means you can't really tease their walls the same way you would with a pen or toothpick, so when you feel it's right to dip your tongue inside, feel free to do so.

- The motion that is right will be different for everyone, but for me personally up-down motions work a bit better than a swirling motion simply because it stimulates that central knot so much better. However, others may find that swirling motions are better because they're more sensitive around the edges of the knot, for example. This is your time to experiment with what your partner enjoys. If you hear panting, whimpering or any of the other tell-tales signs of pleasure, keep going.

- Suckling is a great one too. Softly absorbing their knot into your mouth lets you run your tongue around the underside of the knot, an area rarely explored and may get quite an explosive reaction. Slowly suckling for a while is also a great way to rest your tongue for a bit without letting up on the naveljob.

- It's possible that your partner will climax while you lick them. If they start telling you they're going to cum or you suspect they may be close, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!! No speeding up, no changing direction or technique, just keep it as it is. Keep licking through their orgasm too for maximum brownie points.

And that just about does it! I haven't got the most time in the world to write these so it's not as full of content as I may have liked, but I hope you enjoyed reading anyway! I'm considering combining all my current guides into a big google doc (plus loadss more) as one big belly button manual hehe, so stay tuned for that!

[sensitiveticklespots]

[yamuluyorsanicmiycen-deactivate]

[lotsoflaughs7911]

I want this everyday

[ticklishsquish-deactivated20240]

wrestled down for the sole purpose of having your tummy nibbled on

[ametickles]

BRUHHH that’s awful give it to me

[tickle-her-senseless]

Everything about this is legendary 👑

[thebuttondemon]

Using the lee as a tickle toy to see who can make them break first, high fiving the other ler once the destruction is complete. Talking about them as if they’re not even there. Discussing what part of the navel eating you enjoyed the most. A ler can dream!