How do I become a better person? You are so lovely and non judgemental and you have inspired me to become kinder and more thoughtful towards others.
Hey there you beautiful soul! I am sure you are a fabulous human being, but if you do want more tips on how to be an even better and blossoming being then here are some steps that I try to follow in order to become the person who I want to be:
1. Own your talents proudly.
Your talents matter, and the world needs them asap!
2. Stay true to yourself.
Pretending to be something you’re not, takes away your ability to learn more about yourself and grow as a person in the best way you can. Be yourself and the people that stay with you will be the people who truly love you for who you are.
3. Acknowledge your part in any conflict, and work to fix it.
Owning and presenting your role in any relationship can make you a model for all those you work with or are around if you are understanding and a positive force to be around.
4. Advocate for positive change.
If your school or university or workplace doesn’t recycle, start a recycling program. If you see something going on that doesn’t seem fair or right, get involved and stand up for what is right. You do have a say in this world.
5. Be green and reduce that carbon footprint!
Make sure to recycle everything you can, no excuses. The planet needs your help. Walk or take the bus instead of driving everywhere. Take quick showers, only turn the heating on when it is actually cold. Turn off the lights after leaving a room if no one else is going in there.
Donate money to an animal trust each month or volunteer at a local charity event Humans need extreme care and support but so do animals
7. Buy local and organic produce (when possible).
Buying local produce decreases a reliance on fossil fuels, and also benefits the environment through fewer carbon emissions.It supports farmers who are doing the right thing and undermines efforts to genetically modify our food sources without consequence. We want to eat food that is good for our body so lets encourage this when we can!
8. Know what’s in your food cupboards.
Read the labels on things you eat to check if it is in its sell by date and clean out your fridge regularly. Buy foods that you know you like but also challenge yourself. Remember we eat what we have so if you have a tendency to binge on chocolate or cookies then keep them in one box and put them somewhere out of the way so you don’t immediately go into the cupboard see them and eat them all. Remember to clean and get rid of those bugs! We don’t want to get ill now do we? NO.
9. Conserve resources whenever possible.
Turn off the lights when you’re not in the room. Turn off the tap while you brush your teeth. Unplug your chargers when not in use.Every little bit helps out and it is our responsibility to help the environment.
10. Be a responsible pet owner.
That means that you are not only picking up after your pets but also caring for your animals as you would for a family member. How you act towards your pets affects their lives as it would your child.
Think about it: when you want support, the chances are that you don’t turn to the friend who only talks about herself. Listening well to others is a key skill in healthy relationships.
Every relationship is a two-way street. Imagine what would happen if, instead of blaming the other person, we each sat back and thought about our own words and what we have done, and took responsibility to change it?
13. Be the boyfriend/girlfriend/friend you wish to have.
We each reflect on our best and worst qualities in our romantic relationships and friendships in general. Want more romance? Be more romantic. Want a great lover? Master the art of being one. Want generous communication? Learn to communicate well and model that ideal. Its works both ways, so make a change!
14. Parent with respect towards your child and listen.
Children are the greatest teachers. Loving them well and parenting with good boundaries, kindness and respect benefits the entire world for generations to come. Remember the kids are our future! (scary I know!)
15. Nurture and care for others …
If you do this, hopefully you’ll get the same in return. Making a care package for your sick friend or offering to listen to an acquaintance who recently went through something negative, guarantees that the same support will be there for you in turn.
16. Get to know your neighbours.
Anonymity leads to loneliness and isolation. Start organising community events in your neighbourhood, and participate when others do the same. Aim to be a key part of your community. The possibilities of what could happen are endless. You may make some great new friends!
17. Seek out like-minded organizations, and people and contribute!
Volunteer organizations always need more help. Whatever your gifts may be I am sure that they will be needed somewhere.
18. Be generous and polite.
Carry your grandparents groceries in when they need a hand. Open doors for others. Say please and thank you. These little gestures make a world of difference, especially to those with whom we interact on a daily basis.
19. Be spontaneously kind.
Ask questions to others, get a conversation flowing. Say hi to someone on your way to school, college, or work. Smile to everyone who you walk past, pick up the rubbish you see on the pavement, buy someone lunch or a drink.
20. Surround yourself with positive people.
We become the company we keep. Keep company with those who are optimistic, uplifting and kind, and your world will become more of the same.People we hang around affect us hugely whether we realise that or not. Hang around positive people.
21. Treat your body with respect.
It’s the ship that carries your soul and it is the structure that enables you to experience this universe. If you fill it with junk and refuse to move it, and treat it badly by harming it and being unkind to it, your experience will eventually be a miserable one. Treat it like you would a loved one!
22. Examine and try to fix your negative self-talk.
If the things you say to yourself in your head aren’t things you would say to your kids, your partner or your best friend, you’ve got work to do. There are many resources around you (message me and I can share some with you if you would like!)
23. Take responsibility for offloading your own problems and worries.
Talk to anyone by all means but make sure that you do not harm others in the process. Make sure you write it all down so when it does come to telling someone your worries you can do it in a calm and clear way so they can process the information and understand. If you do it in a rushed way it may cause tension and anger may rise and that could cause an argument which could lead to unnecessary blame and tears.
Got a body part you’re less than thrilled with? Every day for 30 days, look at that body part in the mirror and say out loud that you love it. Say ‘I bring the SASS’ and compliment yourself. It may seem silly and you may feel awkward doing it but keep on doing it anyway. See where that gets you in a month: trust me it really does help!
We’ve all done things we would prefer to forget, and made mistakes that we would prefer not to repeat. This is a part of life! Write a letter to yourself in which you forgive yourself for past mistakes, and then destroy it. Use your energy for the future instead of the past.
Read news sources, and start to know how you and your government interact within your country and in the world. Use various sources so your views are not one sided and discuss in open conversations to stimulate your general knowledge. Intelligence and general knowledge is sexy not stupid.
27. Erase ignorance and fear from your life.
Don’t stand by silently while others make nasty comments and bully. Get involved, tell someone of higher authority. Never sit back and watch. One intervention can change lives.
28. Trust everyone until you have a reason not to.
Immediate suspicion of others, decreases our chances of having a positive experience and making good connections. Don’t doubt everyone, give them a chance, you don’t know how great they may be!
29. Practice patience and compassion.
The driver who gets in your way might not be paying attention because he is getting a divorce or a family member has just died. The person who bumps you in the station might be late to pick their kid up from school. Assuming the best rather than the worst of strangers who cross our paths decreases stress levels and makes us better people in general. It will make you feel like a better human being as well.
30. Be respectful of everyone, whatever job they may have.
The person who delivers your pizza to the front door or pours your coffee may be just as smart and talented as you, but their lives may have led them in a different direction due to unfortunate circumstances. Everyone has a purpose, and everyone has something special to offer, even when it’s not obvious on the surface.
You need love, everyone around you needs it, and the world needs it. Literally everyone you interact with and anyone you will ever meet is looking for it somewhere. Practice love whenever you can. It is the biggest life changer there is. Don’t isolate yourself and become a robot, give someone a hug or a kiss or even something else if you’re feeling cheeky. Just don’t shy away, you deserve to feel wanted and needed because you are a terrific human being, I can promise you that!
There you go, my top tips, spread them around if you wish to :) Sending you lots of love and positive vibes you angel xxx
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