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niccsg

Straight

alhwrites

I know this isn’t something you want to hear, but I think it’s something you need to hear: sometimes someone’s inability to love you the right way is not their fault. If you are the first person to show someone pure, genuine love, they may not know how to reciprocate because they’ve never experienced it before. In turn, they may not know how to give it back. This doesn’t mean that it’s your job to teach them, that you have to tolerate it, or that you deserve it, but I’ve found it incredibly helpful in my own healing to understand that sometimes people aren’t hurting you or treating you poorly intentionally. Sometimes people will self sabotage good things because they don’t think they’re worthy of it. Sometimes they just don’t know what to do, so they ruin it, whether that be by running away, being disrespectful, or causing pain. Sometimes, people still have their own growing to do. I don’t say this to justify any of their bad actions, but to offer a different perspective that may aid you in forgiving and ultimately reaching your peace.

— alhwrites

niccsg

“Sometimes people will self sabotage good things because they don’t think they’re worthy of it. Sometimes they just don’t know what to do, so they ruin it, whether that be by running away, being disrespectful, or causing pain”

z-ndjenja

You gotta let your girl know you’re crazy about her

lexx-toosmoov

Same

rihennalately

Rihanna dining at Nobu Restaurant in NYC (Jan. 2)

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RIHANNA X DIOR BOOK TOTE

mayessta

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pearltiare

dreaming of the day I finally get to have my own apartment completely to myself, with vintage gold mirrors, art, vases full of fresh flowers, endless houseplants, crystals, velvet and dark wood furniture, great natural light, hardwood floors, room to display my books, beauty products, and jewelry, and a kitchen full of organic groceries and teas