Written In The Stars

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[trungphan]

“All relationships go through hell, real ones just get through it..”

— Trung P. (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

“If she texts you, text her back. Just because she’s yours at the moment, doesn’t mean she still will be in the future. Treat her right.”

— Trung P. (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

Understand her,

She wants you to try and understand her & the motive behind her actions, At times you may think she’s just overreacting?  But really there’s a reason behind her actions even if you may not see it.. Because in all honesty she wouldn’t just be sad or mad for no reason. So take the time to listen to her, be there for her when she needs you to be because it shows that you care, you care because she’s important to you & her happiness is your happiness.

[trungphan]

"Replaceable.."

Do you know what hurts? That feeling of being despensable to someone, like you always wonder in your head if they are getting bored of you, you know? You’re afraid that you will invest so much time and effort into this person only to have them replace you with someone else and treat you as merely a “Stranger” again. That feeling of being replaced hurts you inside.

[trungphan]

Don’t play with her emotions, don’t make her believe what isn’t there, don’t make her fall if your intentions aren’t one’s of honesty, do you know why? Because when she falls for you she’s going to fall hard, she’s going to give you all of her, she’s going to put in the effort to let you know how special you are to her, she’s going to show you that you’re the only one in her heart. But what she does for you she wants in return guys, she wants to know that she is loved, she doesn’t want to be your option, she wants to see that her efforts are being seen and appreciated. Don’t make her wonder if falling for you was a mistake , don’t make her regret ever meeting you because when you do it’s going to hurt her more then you could ever know …

[trungphan]

““Sometimes, all a girl really asks is for you to fight for her. Show her that you want the relationship just as much as she does..””

— - Trung Phan (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

If you have someone that texts you, when you haven't replied for hours, watches you give other people attention while they're left on the side , or even just handles all the bullshit you throw at them and is still there, you need to knock some fucking sense into yourself, tell them thank you and I love you and never fucking let them go, because someone special like that is really hard to find in world..

[trungphan]

She was never ready for you to leave.. 

She wasn’t ready for the heartbreaks. To her it was just so unexpected. You left her with nothing but a broken heart. She remembers everything that you have done together. She thought you were happy with her. You both laughed and got along so well, For the first time in her life she felt like she had found her missing piece. But now you are gone, You leave her alone and lost..

She thought everything was okay. She thought you weren't going to leave. She thought you would stay. But no you didn’t. Because you are tired of her. Your heart wants to rest now. You can’t take the pain anymore. So you leave her behind.

She promise you that she wouldn’t cry. But she broke it. She cried when she thought of you. It’s frustrating. It’s heartbreaking. Because all she can do is cry. She feels so fragile right now, She’s not the strong girl you knew anymore.

She misses you so much and she doesn't know what to do anymore, She love you so damn much. But you left her without saying goodbye...

[trungphan]

Love Isn’t Easy

Love comes with pain and sacrifice; and it has no guarantee. But still she said “yes” to you. Do you know what that word means? It means that is how much she’s willing to jump the ledge off for you. She doesn’t mind getting herself broken because you’re beyond more precious than her tears. I’m not telling you this to make feel favored, yet this is a reminder so you don’t waste your chance of being loved unconditionally. Please be on her side and take care of her heart. Fight for her, chase after her, and don’t ever stop choosing her.

[trungphan]

Don’t play with her emotions, don’t make her believe what isn’t there, don’t make her fall if your intentions aren’t one’s of honesty, do you know why? Because when she falls for you she’s going to fall hard, she’s going to give you all of her, she’s going to put in the effort to let you know how special you are to her, she’s going to show you that you’re the only one in her heart. But what she does for you she wants in return guys, she wants to know that she is loved, she doesn’t want to be your option, she wants to see that her efforts are being seen and appreciated. Don’t make her wonder if falling for you was a mistake , don’t make her regret ever meeting you because when you do it’s going to hurt her more then you could ever know …

[trungphan]

“Sometimes, all a girl really asks is for you to fight for her. Show her that you want the relationship just as much as she does..”

- Trung Phan (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

Before she falls for you..

She wants to know that it’ll be worth it, she wants to be assured it won’t be a waste of her time & efforts, if she falls she wants to know you’ll catch her, she wants to know you won’t just leave like the other guys who she’s given her heart and trust to.. & although she may not be perfect, you’ll give her a chance, you’ll get to know the real her without judging, You’re going to love her for her, you won’t try to change who she is because to you she’s beautiful just the way she is, Prove to her not all guys are the same. Remember, she’s not looking for perfect, she’s just looking for someone that’s worth it all ♥

[trungphan]

You ask her why she pushes you away..?

Trust me when I say she doesn’t mean to.. It’s just her way of protecting herself, in the past she’s met guys who haved used her, she’s been with guys who have told her they were different only to be the exact opposite of what they claim to be, they ended up being the guys who were all talk and no action, they ended up being the guys who left her when she needed them the most. She gave her all to someone ONLY to be betrayed and lied to, she put down her walls and made herself vulnerable only to be left when he found someone better or when the relationship became to hard to handle. So when you ask her why she pushes people away, know that it’s because of the things she’s been through, it’s her past relationships that have made her who she is today and shaped her mentality on how she approaches relationships now..

[trungphan]

What happens between two people in a relationship, stays between them. It’s no one else’s business, Simple as that.

Trung P. (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

Maybe she’s scared because you mean more to her then any other person. You are everything she thinks about, everything she wants.

Trung P. (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

The biggest turn off for her is a guy who is all talk & no action. If you tell her you’re going to do something, Do it, It’s as simple as that. Be straight up with her, Not fake..

Trung P. (via trungphan)

[trungphan]

Instead of criticizing her for all that she’s not, embrace her for all that she is. Every flaw & every imperfection are what make her unique, they’re what make her who she is & that’s what you should truly love her for. ♥

Trung Phan (via trungphan)