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[turdburd]

okay yeah i thiiiink im gonna.. move onto my other account now. like, permanently

if i havent followed you first then you can ask off anon for the url. if i dont answer im most likely not gonna give it to you because of an issue i have.

[turdburd]

okay yeah i thiiiink im gonna.. move onto my other account now. like, permanently

if i havent followed you first then you can ask off anon for the url. if i dont answer im most likely not gonna give it to you because of an issue i have.

[pokeprof]

Official artwork for the GO team leaders!

[ via Pokémon GO Official Twitter ]

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Good jOB @turdburd 10/10 TYPO

[turdburd]

LEAVE NME AL LONE

[turdburd]

okay yeah i thiiiink im gonna.. move onto my other account now. like, permanently

if i havent followed you first then you can ask off anon for the url. if i dont answer im most likely not gonna give it to you because of an issue i have.

[turdburd]

fiira-coralavus replied to your post:when I started following you I identified as...

thank you!! I was hoping I could continue following cause I love your blog and I think you’re great! thanks

oMg aww!! youve been nothing but sweet to me too, youre always reassuring me whenever i post negative stuff so i definitely wouldnt want you to go ;v; thank you buddy

[turdburd]

is it ok if i keep following? i identify as male (still questioning if im a nb boy or not) i jus wanna make sure!!

i trust you yeah, you havent done anything bad and youre nice to me and i like your company, so youre okay!!

[turdburd]

when I started following you I identified as mainly female and I'm still feminine but I identify as agender and I saw your post about boys asking to follow, and since I sometimes refer to myself as a boy is it still okay if I follow you?

yeah youre fine, before i used to say only “ask if youre a cis boy” but i think earlier this month is when i changed it. dw you were around before i changed it, plus youre nice and good ;v;

[turdburd]

okay this is really getting on my nerves

if youre a boy; nb, trans, whatever

ask to follow

cus ive gotten this three times in a row, three boys following me without bothering to ask and its really making me wary and paranoid

[scottpilgrims]

*literally makes the :3 face constantly* (my name is dunban, he/him pronouns only pls!)

[goblinparty]

s/o to mentally ill dropouts, y’all are loved and are still worthy of respect and compassion

[narcissisticabuse]

How to date a narcissist:

• Give us lots of compliments, especially on our appearance.

• When we brag, be happy for us and praise us for our achievements.

• If you love us, tell us often.

• Give us as much attention as possible – but you should probably not give us an amount of attention that you can’t consistently give us. We will miss getting that much attention and might think something’s up.

• If you can’t give us the usual amount of attention for whatever reason, tell us why so we know not to take it personally.

• Make an effort to bond with us. If you are willing and able to, spend more time joking around and bonding with us than your regular friends.

• Give us special treatment of some sort that you don’t give other people.

• Do not call other people hot, including fictional characters and celebrities.

>> If you forget to not do this, tell us how much hotter we are.

• Try not to praise other people’s appearances or achievements when you’re with us.

>> If you forget to not do this, praise several things about us.

• Do not tease us.

• Try not to pity us if we’re sad.

• If we show you something we like, don’t only half heartedly acknowledge it. Be interested in it.

[ohara-mari]

some of these aren’t strictly dating, either, and can go for platonic relationships (dont pity if we’re sad, dont half heartedly acknowledge things we care about, be happy for us when we brag)

i feel like narcissists are often misunderstood for their symptoms, but really, these are things we can’t change and it hurts when other mental illnesses who can be sympathized with more are treated with such respect when things like narcissism or stpd are treated with malice, or even if we are not, we are expected to hide who we are for others

[turdburd]

and yeah every narcissist is different but this advice is generally pretty good and not inaccurate at all

of course if we ask for specific accommodations just communicate! see what you can work out with each other and create a stronger bond by building the necessities between you two

remember, every person in a relationship matters, and communication is key, if youre good at that, youll do amazing

narcissists arent some intricate code that need deciphering; just treat them like people, cus we are people, we just have specific needs and other things thatd need attention.

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This is delayed but much needed

[abovobee]

[mangopapi-deactivated20210928]

Can y'all turn the tumblr Logo into the green and white Nigerian Flag, like you guys did for France, to show everyone all lives matter 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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[luxlightly]

God bless Steven Universe.

We have the character Greg, who works his ass off at a crappy job to provide for his kid. He lives in a van. He has nothing. But he always makes sure Steven has everything he needs. He never begrudges the fact that he had to give up on his dreams to stay in Beach City. He’s never resentful about his lot in life. He’s just a fantastic guy in general.

So an episode comes up where he, after years of being very poor, ends up with a lot of money. A TON of money.

 Everything in cartoon history tells me that he’s supposed to go nuts spending all the money or he’ll be scammed or tricked or some crazy event will happen that costs a ton of money, or it will turn out it was all fake, and just somehow, by the end of the episode, he ends up back to being dirt poor and learns some cheap message about humility and money not buying happiness. I spent the whole episode “Mr.Greg” waiting for the rug to be pulled out from under him.

But it wasn’t.

He spends money somewhat frivolously, but it’s all to have a good time with his son, which he does, and he still has the vast majority of the money left at the end. It probably only cost a few thousand out of his 10 million at most.

He doesn’t become obsessed with being wealthy. It doesn’t change him at all. He stays in his van instead of buying a big fancy house because it’s where he feels comfortable. He keeps working the car wash because it’s something to do. When he buys a tablet, he decides it isn’t for him and lets Steven give it to someone who would like it more. He buys a car he always wanted, but he buys it used. It’s not showy or extravagant, it’s just a car that he’d always wanted and can now have. 

The only difference now is that, when something happens like someone stiffing him at the car wash, or the gems destroying another diner booth, Greg doesn’t have to worry about it. He can just live his life comfortably and without stressing about money.

It also makes me happy that Greg earned the money through his music. It’s not the way he’d originally envisioned it, perhaps, but he is now an incredibly successful musician. 

There was no lesson about not “selling out”. There was no moral about how money won’t fix your problems. There was no joke about a poor man being totally clueless about money or overwhelmed with greed.

It’s just a great, humble, hard-working guy who becomes monetarily successful and remains a great, humble, hard-working guy who just now doesn’t have to worry about money and can afford to treat himself right after years of neglecting himself to make sure that his son was always provided for.

I don’t know, maybe they will still pull it all out from under him yet. Maybe it will still all go away and he’ll be back to being dirt poor. But for now, I’m loving the direction they’ve been taking with this story line. I’m so sick of seeing shows be so afraid to change anything about the status quo of the show that they have to undo all progress anyone makes by the end of every episode. It’s refreshing to see a show where things change.

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:/