Premature Ejaculation Is Not a Disorder!!!
The majority of people are sexual gluttons who do not understand the magnificence of (conservative) sex.
I'm tired of this shit. The Wikipedia page on Premature Ejaculation is a fucking joke. It's defined as ejaculation which occurs in under one minute of physical stimulation, which for sexually inactive men (given they don't masturbate frequently) is completely normal. Just because I'd likely ejaculate after a 30 second handjob when I haven't masturbated or ejaculated in over 6 months does not mean I have a disorder. Timing in ejaculation has to do with levels of sexual excitement, and YOU AREN'T SUPPOSED TO CONTROL IT. Ejaculation is supposed to happen on it's own after non-stop stimulation. "Stopping and starting" to delay orgasms is not a normal or healthy practice. You go from being aroused with an erection to stimulating your penis until you ejaculate naturally.
Although orgasm control might be useful when the sex is for pure sport (in that you continuously experiment with and practice different activities just for the sake of variety), it is not a natural sexual function.
I'm infuriated by the information there is about this "disorder". Especially the "psychological causes" they attribute it to. Men who do not masturbate WILL EJACULATE WITHIN A MINUTE OF INTERCOURSE, given that the intercourse doesn't occur more frequently than once per week. Men shouldn't be having intercourse or ejaculating more frequently than once every 4 days anyway. It takes 3 days for sperm to mature (for you to accumulate a full load) and it's really not conducive to impregnating women if you're ejaculating immature loads of semen into their vaginas. People who have sex daily are abusing the activity, in my very conservative opinion.
Ejaculation and orgasm SHOULD NOT occur more frequently than twice per week. This will make sexual relations so much more significant for one thing. Sexual gluttony will result in desensitization and prolonged ejaculation times, making it seem like a minute is too soon. I'd say for an adult male, ejaculating BEFORE physical stimulation even occurs might be appropriate to term "early ejaculation" but even with that, it's all on a spectrum and it mostly depends on levels of arousal. A very good woman hypnotist could make a man ejaculate in under a minute just by talking to him.
Now, this is all coming from someone who hasn't had sex in 2 years, and before that occurrence it had been 8 years. I've only ever had one girlfriend who I was regularly sexually active with, and we were together for 5 months. Before that it was just the infrequent fling and "getting lucky" which was less than a handful of times. But I still think my insights on the subject deserve merit. Although I'm very intensely passionate about sexual desire, I'm also rather conservative about it and think its frequency should be reduced. ORGASM CONTROL IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU and ejaculating in normal time is where it's at. Let your body do what it does. Trying to manipulate intercourse so you and your partner can do it longer is abusing the experience.
You can just tell me I'm pulling all this out of my ass and don't have enough hands-on experience with women to know better, but I'm telling you, I just know I'm insightful!!! GRRRRR I just know I'm right AAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
I'm someone who doesn't believe masturbation should ever be practiced EVER. I was extremely disappointed by my first several sexual experiences, mainly because I FORCED THEM TO OCCUR because I just wanted them to happen sooner rather than later. I wanted to have sex before I finished high school, just so I could feel accomplished, and so I ended up doing it with someone I wasn't attracted to at all, all because I didn't want to feel like a loser for being a virgin after high school. From then on I just settled for whatever flat-assed whale handed me an easy opportunity, and I took advantage of it just for the physical practice, but really it was so disappointing because I didn't have strong sexual urges towards those people. I never pursued the girls I thought were sexy because I was a fucking pussy. I'll NEVER forgive myself for my fucking cowardice.
As an excessive masturbator, I wasn't even able to experience adequate sensation from the women I fucked and struggled to ejaculate at all, due to the time I was taking SSRIs, and also when I indulged in cannabis and alcohol and masturbated habitually without even feeling arousal - I just did it to force an orgasm. So now I'm committed to reconditioning my sexual responses by abstaining from masturbation. I started abstaining back in 2018 and would go periods of 1-5 months at a time abstinent, until finally I could experience pleasurable sensation and ejaculate naturally without any strain or extra exertion. After a few month-several month long periods of abstinence, I went back to infrequent masturbation, usually once a month or once a week at the most, and I would naturally ejaculate between 45-60 seconds of a non-stop moderately paced stroke. That is THE NORMAL TIME IT TAKES FOR MEN TO EJACULATE GIVEN THEY ARE CONSERVATIVE WITH THEIR HABITS!!! This information about PE being a "disorder" really needs to get fucking changed.
I'm extremely proud that I haven't masturbated (or ejaculated at all) in 6 and a half months. That's the longest time I've ever abstained in my life and I feel amazing. I'm not even desperate for a hookup because my goal is to make it at least a year abstinent.