Learn. Unlearn. Relearn.
Learn that the things you want in life will never be in the form that you expect. You have to be open to life because that’s where the heart of the action is. Let life happen to you. Learn to live, learn to take action, learn to take risks. And by learning, you will be undefeated, you will be a champion, a winner of life. Learn the ways how you could love a single human being, pouring your own to embrace another wholeheartedly. And learn that not all bravery in confessing your feelings will bring you what you desire. Learn that it’s not about you, and more of how ready the person is, their life situation, upbringing, and their preferences. Learn to live with forgiveness. For those who are truly awakened forgives and understands those who are still asleep.
Unlearn the blocks in your development because what you thought you knew was safe, trusted, and comfortable might not always be the best choice. Unlearn the ways you’ve lived in your years of existence that caused you remorse. Unlearn trying to fit in to something you’re not. Unlearn the ways you’d want to get good at most things, because you can’t. You might be good, but not great and unlearn that. Unlearn the counterproductive behaviors. Unlearn the old habits that are still hindering your development. Unlearn to like the person you desire if you have no intention of confessing your feelings. Unlearn your hidden attraction, because you might as well deserve someone who will go upfront and claim they are attracted to you. Unlearn your ways of deluding yourself into thinking that you might have a chance because if you’re not upfront at the start, then might as well never go down that path. Unlearn that path of betrayal, an intention masquerading under the guise of friendship.
Relearn on how you can design your own development. Relearn your life’s blueprint on how you can rise to a life of growth. Relearn your way of thinking, relearn your way of doing, and relearn your way of feeling and expressing. Relearn how to show genuine emotion. Relearn how to convey your affection, how you focus your attention because the old does not work anymore, you need a new mindset to equip. Relearn the basics and build upon them with new found perspective. Relearn the ways of life, always, so that new way of seeing things become accessible.
Learn. Unlearn. Relearn.
