princess of nothing

⭒❤︎⭑beauty (∈ theory) ≠ reality⭒❤︎⭑

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Ellen 🌼

april-born. (in the 90's)

I'm have the most amazing boyfriend

dual degrees in math + law. currently thriving in the public sector.

swedish-ish

this blog is new. i’m not. i’ve roamed tumblr since its cursed golden age. i no longer remember my old password, nor the person who chose it.

i like people — in theory. i prefer silence, in mind, in expression, in luxury

i interact politely unless you’re a random porn bot, daddy (ew), sugar daddy scammer (anthony james), in which case: bring (ethically sourced) diamonds or leave in shame.

this is a space for beauty, breakdowns, work-induced dissociation and the quiet violence of having to stay polite in meetings. enjoy the flowers. don’t touch the thorns.

Music

vaporwave, charming disaster, missouri surf club, bella and sebastian, lissie, eliza rickman, lana del ray, jaurim, japanese breakfast, kim yuna, kaizers ochestra, the national, the 1975, tennis, cléa vincent, caroline kingsbury, solene, lord huron, björk, daughter of swords, sleeping at last

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Leaving work early for a cultural event, as one does. Pink cardigan, tired eyes, train light, and the quiet luxury of choosing art, romance, and adulthood over pretending to be productive after 4 pm.

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My boyfriend’s ex waited until he was gone to introduce herself, which is almost sweet if you ignore the overcooked-spaghetti handshake. I said hello like a woman who knows she is not the problem, merely the future.

If I've ever been accused of being scandi-ice cold it's nothing compared to how cold I was towards his ex.

[oldwinesoultoo]

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He lasted one or two minutes and somehow it was the most romantic thing in the world. Not polished, not cinematic, just his body telling the truth before his pride could interfere. If he is pretending to love me, give that man an Oscar and a chapel.

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My boyfriend doesn't get the whole morute thing. Like.. He doesn't understand how I can like horror but dress in pastels all the time.

He's 50-ish. I like that I can fuck with his view of this world.

[04k96]

[voguesessed]

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Today I made him watch my favourite movie ever. He said it as very aesthetic and fun.

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Sunday core...

[babes]

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Swiss as a shared denominator is so stupidly elegant. He had family near Geneva, I had a bank account in Zürich. Two little haunted satellites pretending geography isn’t romance.

And also trying our best to pretend like that kind of stuff doesn't mean anything. After all.. We aren't that superficial.. Right

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Saturday...

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Hey 😇, I’ve only got one shot with this so Let skip the small talk, if you ever consider having a sugar daddy and enjoying the finer side of life. I’d love to hear from you!

Here’s my Snapchat: bowend_d

Here’s my telegram: bowen_derek

Trust me... I don't need one.

[inlovewiththenights]

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It’s time to stop hiding.

I never said this out loud before, but a while ago a local newspaper basically exposed me — not by name, but close enough that everyone who knew me felt the shockwave. They never asked for my side. They never even knocked on my door. They just wrote, and left me to survive the aftermath.

It cracked something in me.

The silence, the shame that wasn’t mine, the nights where everything felt a little too dark.

And this week, with shaking hands, I filed a complaint with the Media Ombudsman. Not for money — you can’t sue them here, that’s not how it works, for better and for worse — but because I needed to put a marker in the ground and say: this hurt me.

Maybe that’s what healing looks like.

Not pretty. Not brave. Just honest.

I’m still here.

#shityworkplace...aftermaths

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Update that no one asked for: the media ombudsman took my side.