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your one-stop shop for TMERF repellent trans feminist, not transfeminist! 20s // he/him // ZIONISTS DNI not my main so i can’t follow u back, sorry

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[zmpl]

before we start posting that july is gay wrath month let’s consider that july is disability pride month first and foremost. the “be gay do crimes” memes can wait

[zmpl]

before this post breaches containment and people start going “why not both hehehe” i want you to seriously consider the very long history of disabled people’s existence being pushed aside and/or seen as secondary. i promise you it’s not going to hurt to hold onto the memes and give disabled people space for visibility and celebration.

i say this as a disabled trans person whose trans identity is made front-and-center to the (mainly cis) people who know i’m trans but my identity as a disabled person is brushed off by the very same people.

[unimpressiveboyfriend]

the us govt is poised to strip disabled people of every right we have gained in the past 27 years as we speak. not theoretically. right now. the DOJ put out a memo that says that states do not have an obligation to give us the services we need to survive unless we are institutionalized. they are trying to resegregate disabled people. they want us either dead or detained in for-profit institutions. ask yourself: have any of the pride celebrations you’ve attended this past month addressed this? made any meaningful effort to stand in solidarity with the disabled community while our rights to exist in public are being specifically targeted and systematically dismantled? have they offered any action items? words of encouragement? anything at all?

the nazis gassed disabled people first (look up aktion t-4 or watch the documentary disposable humanity.) the left’s deliberate ignorance to our plight in favor of doing molly at the physically inaccessible corporate-sponsored pride parade is not unnoticed and will not save you from meeting the same fate we are headed for. fighting for us before we are gone is your best chance for survival.

***i am a disabled trans man***

[cornona]

latest in Super True and Real Facts I Don’t Need A Source Trust Me Bro from the queer white supremacist crowd who defines male privilege as strangers being nice to you on the street: apparently when we say “no trans person has male privilege” it’s *checks notes* bioessentialist? somehow?

if you had ever spoken to a single trans poc about this you would learn how oppression and intersectionality actually fucking work and realize how stupid you sound.

[unimpressiveboyfriend]

“transness isn’t going on hormones and it’s evil to say that.”

“obviously transness is passing, that’s what makes trans men have male privilege you stupid transandrodork!!1!1!!11”

[cornona]

latest in Super True and Real Facts I Don’t Need A Source Trust Me Bro from the queer white supremacist crowd who defines male privilege as strangers being nice to you on the street: apparently when we say “no trans person has male privilege” it’s *checks notes* bioessentialist? somehow?

if you had ever spoken to a single trans poc about this you would learn how oppression and intersectionality actually fucking work and realize how stupid you sound.

[cornona]

1. which pre-t trans men have male privilege oop? how could we possibly know who experiences what kind of oppression irl without an all-knowing random white transfem online making a chart?

2. denying the reality of the experiences of pre/non-transitioning trans people is more bioessentialist and transmedicalist than silencing them like this post does will ever be

3. “one trans woman got trans athletes banned in the entire state, therefore she didn’t have male privilege” that’s like saying my aunt died of breast cancer therefore she didn’t have male privilege. yes bad things happen to people without male privilege but one does not prove the other. also male privilege doesn’t make you impervious to hardship

4. “i am a radfem therefore you are a transmedicalist bioessentialist misogynist” yeah and i suppose 1+1=orange as well

[crippled-peeper]

this white shrieking child who has been spreading fabricated homophobic LIES about how I’m “spreading STIs intentionally” is now shrieking and hitting himself and sobbing “WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOOO STOOOPID!!!” because the adults in the room accurately drew a linguistic connection between HIS BEHAVIOR and THIS TERRIFYING SHIT:

@alchemicphoenix go crawl back into the sewer you crawled out of you disturbed, violent, manipulative little homophobic extremist cunt.

stop begging anyone who will listen to kill gay people and we won’t call it that you fucked up wailing little freak. get a fucking hobby or maybe go outside for once in your worthless pathetic existence

[unimpressiveboyfriend]

@/slowpokedragon, @/chris-wonder, @/go-to-chris-wonder, @/thegoldengatessystem, @/transgenderjihadist, and @/supermariosunshine2002 for your TMERF blocklist

[cornona]

MAAS REPORT CHALLENGE!!! mass report @/thegoddessofincest!!!! LETS GET THAT WASTE OF OXYGEN NUKED OFF THIS SITE!!!!!

[cornona]

MAAS REPORT CHALLENGE!!! mass report @/thegoddessofincest!!!! LETS GET THAT WASTE OF OXYGEN NUKED OFF THIS SITE!!!!!

[thinkingabout-girls]

this pride it is mandatory that everyone is nicer to lesbians. especially trans lesbians

[mad-dog308]

Transfem lesbians.

[thinkingabout-girls]

transfem lesbians are included in trans lesbians. this post is made in support of ALL trans lesbians

[mad-dog308]

The only trans lesbians are transfem lesbians. TME non-women aren't lesbians. If they are then gay men and straight people might as well be lesbians too.

[crippled-peeper]

transmasc lesbians have existed since long before you were born and will continue to exist long after you die.

you can be as mad about it as you want, you can call it something else, you can build your entire personality around how icky it makes you feel, but this is simply others lived reality and you don’t get to just decide it isn’t.

[crippled-peeper]

"trans people are allowed to dislike you even if you’re a trans woman" nah you ain't 🤷 you clearly 'dislike' trans women *in general* and atp its just transmisogyny 🤷 sorry

the they/he has arrived to tell trans men twice his age that they are all rapists for talking about being raped

you’re helping someone! it’s not trans women and it’s not survivors. but you’re definitely helping someone! (it’s you) (you’re bored and want attention) (you’re a sheltered privileged 20 year old) (you can’t comprehend the complexity of the relationships between older trans people or survivors or the gravity of intracommunity sexual abuse) (the world is exactly as black and white as you want it to be)

[crippled-peeper]

https://www.tumblr.com/handweavers/820172942533083137

*Maybe* the words of a trans man elder will help you understand trans women even a little 🤏 bit

ELDER??? ELDER??? LMFAO BRO IS 28. I’m the same age as him???

News flash: trans people are allowed to dislike you even if you’re a trans woman

[crippled-peeper]

“trans man elder” and it’s someone who came out 5 years after me

[rainbowspaceprince]

Absolutely exhausting to see people's response to "hating men ultimately leads to all types of transphobia. It doesn't belong in feminist spaces and ultimately harms everyone involved. Hating men is in fact not decentering men." And seeing half the comments be "well trans men are all evil misogynists who need to die" or "maybe I wouldn't hate trans men if they stopped acting like they're oppressed" YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM

[forrest-sterling]

I'm trying to move past tumblr discourse but it's so frustrating how people ignore material reality in favor of theoretical gender hierarchies that try to position certain people as more or less oppressed than others based solely on gender. If your only analytical framework is through the lens of gender expression then you are ignoring race, disability, religion, culture, class, colonial occupation, place of residence, and so many other things that affect power dynamics and thus oppressive forces. Not only that, but this gender hierarchy model is so simplistic and exclusive that it never includes nonbinary and intersex people (because that would mean adding nuance and complicated concepts of gender and sex, which is inconvenient for their rigid models that position themselves as the most oppressed and therefore they should never be criticized).

Nobody is saying trans men are not CAPABLE of being transmisogynistic, but the problem is that TMA/TME does not address that. It does not call out transmisogynists, who can be any gender, and in the process it puts trans allies on the same level as bigots. I've seen many blatantly transmisogynistic insults and threats made by trans women targeted at other trans women, and I've seen many trans men go out of their way on posts that should be focused on trans masc issues to make it clear they don't hate trans women just because they're taking time to speak on their own problems. Not being the primary target of a certain form of bigotry is not the same as perpetuating it, and being affected by that bigotry does not prevent you from inflicting it on others. But you wouldn't know that if all you listened to were people who use TMA to mean trans fems and women and TME to imply someone is a transmisogynist.

Instead of putting time and energy into addressing the root causes of bigotry, we have people fighting over who is more affected by it, as though it does not all stem from the same systemic causes: patriarchy, white supremacy, and colonial violence. To borrow from Malcolm X's analogy regarding progress, I'd say that I don't care if the violent attacker only stabbed someone 4 inches deep when I got stabbed 6 inches deep, we need to take their knives away and make sure nobody can be hurt by them anymore. We were both victims of the attacker and if we work together we can get that knife out of their hand, so stop arguing over who got stabbed deeper when we're both bleeding out.

[briarpatch-kids]

I want to remind people that catching an STI is a values neutral event that literally just means you have a social life and got unlucky when you got lucky. There is no judgement to make beyond "damn that sucks bro."

You should absolutely have safe sex, continue to get regular testing, and use PPE, but condoms aren't 100% effective and intimacy comes with risk. I can't believe we're having this conversation in 2026 how did our culture fall as far as slut shaming someone for nearly dying of an STI and being open about his story so others know it's possible.

[tboy-cock]

some of yall take the "i can excuse racism but i draw the line at pedophilia" stance on trans radfems and yeah you should draw the line at pedophilia but you should also draw the line at the racism. idk why thats not a big deal to some of yall

[fvckw4d]

Its not that trfism is an accident but it's really funny how often they will describe "tme" privilege and it is clearly pericis privilege. "When I go into the trans community there is afab-only groups and housing and programs everywhere" you are describing things for pericis women. When you say "afab-only housing", you are describing a Woman's Shelter For Pericis Woman. They are notorious for kicking out "afab" trans and intersex people as well. Most of the these groups and programs are. Because they are for pericis women.

[crippled-peeper]

do you know what a relief it is to know you’re hated by the exact right type of person?

[crippled-peeper]

[cornona]

oh my god how are you not embarrassed. grow the fuck up you hypocrite

reminder that genderbending has literally always been a thing no matter the character. reminder that transfem characters are just characters. like every other character, they are not real, and headcannoning them as transmasc does not hurt them because they are NOT REAL LIVING PEOPLE

i am a trans woman