Lesson(s) Learned (and sometimes over and over again)
25 things I have learned through relationships, friendships and life itself. I'm sure there are more and if you have any to share please feel free...
1. Do not sleep in MAC eye makeup after crying all night, it ends up everywhere and you look scary as hell when you wake up.
2. Never go all in before they even put their cards on the table, odds are in favor of you losing. The house always wins, its a matter of who the house is...
3. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. Don't make excuses, deny or pretend you didn't see it.
4. The saying drunk words are sober thoughts may not be true. Alot of things were said in drunkenness that sober actions disprove.
5. Silence speaks volumes. Listen and sometimes the answer you're looking for is in that silence.
6. Broken people get together and try to fix what's broken. Stop trying to fix what you didn't break and focus on filling the breaks with love.
7. We are all fighting our own battles, dealing with struggles and have stresses...but it doesn't mean you have to face it all alone.
8. Lack of communication leads to disconnect. It's a matter of someone stepping up and opening the door to talking.
9. Comfort food and fat girl days are wonderful...in moderation. Don't seek solace in things that are temporary.
10. There's a difference between complacent and content. Never settle for complacent because then you've given up on what you deserve.
11. It is ok to fight for what you want. Realize when you're fighting a losing battle.
12. I may say things to piss you off or try to hurt you. It's only to hide or deal with my own pain and convince myself into thinking YOU won't realize how much I am hurting.
13. The things we say in anger are the things that stay with us. Words have a way of lingering and providing ammo.
14. Friendship. Love. Loyalty. Friendships built with love bring about loyalty. Break any of those bonds and in time you lose all of them.
15. Latino men(generalizing) are trouble. Possessiveness and controlling are not attractive however sexy you may be.
16. Asian men are trouble. I am not docile and servile enough to take you seriously. My Asian male friends, I love you to pieces though.
17. White boys are trouble. White men are...I'll get back to you when I've found one to date.
18. Secrets don't make friends. Though some of us are better than others at keeping them, they usually have a way of being found out.
19. It's easy to get swept away in moments, especially when those moments do take your breath away or breathe life back into you. But don't get caught up in those moments, get caught up when you meet the one who sweeps you off your feet.
20. Nobody ever gets everything they want. Too many other people out there try and fuck it up when you come close to having everything you thought you wanted. Or you fuck it up for yourself.
21. Oftentimes insecurities your other has is a reflection of something YOU did or are doing to make them feel that way. Before you judge and get turned off by it, figure out what is causing it.
22. Appreciate the people who CARE about you and appreciate what you HAVE. One day you may end up having to appreciate the people who CARED about you and appreciate what you HAD.
23. Approach situations with peace and love in your heart before you speak or react.
24. It's hard waiting on something you know might not happen. But it's even harder to give up when it's everything you wanted. Still trying to determine when you call it quits on waiting.
25. Sometimes maybe as the seasons change, people and their wants change. We cannot fault them for wanting those changes even if at one point, the way things were was everything they wanted. Sometimes change is good, it forces you to grow and learn...
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