As someone who seems to really like to highlight the contrast between your current body and your thinner body, how do you like it when people comment on it in real life? Do you notice a difference in how people who knew you when you were thin treat you versus people who've only known you when you were fat?
Hey and thank you for this question!
I was my whole life skinny or lean... that was my brand. So it was always effortless for me to fit into society standards.
It changes as I gained 50 pounds in 6 months.
At the beginning everyone thought it was a bulk,but everyone realised quickly its more than usual.
There are 3 situations I totally loved!
First was at a summer party, I saw the parents of my best friend ( I spend nearly every weekend there) . The family members are all tall and big.
As they saw me the father looked at me and said, someone getting big! I was totally into it and the loved the teasing the whole day. ( Was about 20 pounds gains)
The 2. Story was my mother, who said to me I look more and more like my dad. ( He is 350 pounds,no muscles) . That was the moment I realised how big I looked.
And my favourite story, was a friend he is a fitness freak only muscles. I worked out with him from time to time. I moved away so the contact wasn't that often anymore. We met on a party again at my biggest. He walked to me,looked in my fat face and introduced himself to me!!
He didn't recognise me! He was shocked but didn't say much, bc he don't wanted to be rude.
So everyone was pretty nice to me. I love the shocker Moments and the uncomfortable look of people, talking to me and always looking on the belly in disbelief. That's giving me life.
So no difference like I get treated the skinny joke's are just replaced with fat jokes.
