fix your heart or die

artist from @sunniescothurni ✦ very literally a dump of everything i reblog no tags many discourse posts sorry

[wayward-dump]

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get 2 know me

read my intro!

If I ever reblog a post several times with a great time difference in between know it is completely intentional I am reblogging again

also! this sideblog is like ultra discoursey im sorry guys. i reblog a lot of shit I care about and vent about. following me is a choice u make to see that stuff

small faq:

why no tankies?

i don't like you. you are all stupid and if not stupid then cruel.

why shouldn't americans or canadians talk to you about politics?

the place you're from and the place I'm from have wildly different politics and climates we cannot discuss things in the same context which I refuse to deal with because a lot of you operate like you are the world

what languages do you speak?

talk to me and find out!!

@sunniescothurni

[colliholly]

excited for the potential of these two reuniting

[rtgx0701]

Eternal sugar cookie the jewelry box of love (by omiioe)

Source:

https://www.instagram.com/p/DLixmgFSAGR/?img_index=1

[rtgx0701]

My knight in shining armour (by @Sa1OOIthink)

Source:

https://x.com/Sa1OOIthink/status/2072727021579555292?s=20

[rosequart]

Rose and I talked about tons of important stuff. Music, comic books, getting sand between your toes, y'know, feelings. We both made a lot of mistakes when we were young—I thought disco was coming back, she started a war. I think she felt like she needed to confess everything to me, but I told her, “The past is the past. All that matters to me is who you are now.”

[steven-universe-heritage-posts]

Steven Universe Heritage post

[this-is-trans-joy]

internalised misogyny (arguably) is the act of perpetuating or upholding the misogynistic and patriarchal systems against women and those perceived as women by someone who has also experienced those systems of oppression and is projecting the harm they have experienced onto others instead of unpacking said harm.

internalised misogyny is not:

being a trans man

being non-binary

just not being a woman

being masculine

enjoying yaoi

engaging in yaoi

dating men

liking men

being in any way associated with men

[this-is-trans-joy]

If you believe in any of the above bullet points, you are either a TERF or you are dangerously close to falling for TERF rhetoric, and no amount of psuedo-progressive language about “centering men” is gonna cover up the fact that you agree with JK Rowling on at least a few points in her crusade against trans people. And that is NOT a good look.

[whoopsie-collective]

was sad that nb focused sexualities aren't acknowledged often so i decided to fix that with the power of kris deltarune pride flag pfps

flags in order:

trixic (nblw)

torix (nblm)

gai (gay in an uniquely nb way)

enbyhet/strayt (straight in an uniquely nb way)

enbian (nblnb)

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Not every enban attracted to women feel validated being called lesbian or sapphic.

Not every enban attracted to men feel validated being called uranian/turian or achillean.

Not every enban who presents femininely and is attracted to men considers themself straight or julietian.

Not every enban who presents masculinely and is attracted to women considers themself straight or romeric.

Just because an enban CAN be lesbian, uranian/turian, or straight doesn't mean they want to be considered such.

Yes, lesbian, sapphic, uranian/turian, achillean, straight, and duaric identities are open for enben to use.

But that doesn't make it any less exorsexist to box EVERY SINGLE ENBAN into those categories.

Especially if you're boxing them in based on factors like sex traits or pronouns (ie; having an estrogenized voice, using she/they pronouns - I'm looking at you TADC fans, and how y'all treat Zooble and Ribbit.)

Please stop neglecting diamoric orientations [link.]

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Labelling every non-binary relationship as sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi is exorsexism.

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

When referring to a group of non-binary people, use the words non-binary people, enbies, or enben.

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Labelling every non-binary relationship as sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi is exorsexism.

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

When referring to a group of non-binary people, use the words non-binary people, enbies, or enben.

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Labelling every non-binary relationship as sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi is exorsexism.

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

When referring to a group of non-binary people, use the words non-binary people, enbies, or enben.

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Labelling every non-binary relationship as sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi is exorsexism.

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

When referring to a group of non-binary people, use the words non-binary people, enbies, or enben.

[pointless-moss]

friendly reminder that yuri and yaoi are in fact gendered (girl love and boy love respectively if you didn't know) and therefore not the correct term/terms to describe relationships that involve nonbinary characters! please consider using the following words to describe ships including nonbinary characters:

trixic - nonbinary/woman

touric - nonbinary/man

tiric/torixic - nonbinary/man/woman

enben - nonbinary/nonbinary

we have words for these types of relationships! please use them! stop erasing the nonbinary characters gender based off of how they present/who their in a relationship with!

also do note that nonbinary people can label their relationship/identify however they want in real life so don't push these labels onto them! this is mainly for fictional characters who may not have canon sexualities (both characters in a nonbinary/women relationship may not identify as a lesbian therefore describing them as lesbians would be incorrect! same goes for nonbinary/man with gay, and nonbinary/nonbinary with bi/pan) and also it's important people are aware of relationship labels outside of the gender binary!

[scarfflag]

another set of trixic and toric flags!

this time i've just made slight improvements of the originals. i always felt that the stripes in the middle caused a lot of eye strain and just didn't really work, so i adjusted everything to create a more smooth transition :)

[primlunic]

Kris & Susie from Deltarune are a primlunic couple! Kris is trixic (NLW) and Susie is maedic (WLN)!

and...

Kris & Noelle from Deltarune are a primlunic couple! Kris is trixic (NLW) and Noelle is maedic (WLN)!

Primlunic: The umbrella term for NLW and WLN. (article)

[nocturnalgemstones]

If you are:

A Nblw / xlw who is uncomfortable with using lesbian and /or sapphic.

A Nblm / xlm who is uncomfortable with using gay.

A Nblnb / xlx who doesn't feel like their attraction is gay.

Or fall under Diamoric at all.

You are lovely. 💚💜

[lindleland]

we as a society do not deserve queen deltarune. why the fuck is she not inescapable within this fandom. i like tenna just fine but she deserved what he got