There are some very interesting ways to spice up a FLR, especially when the relationship has become predictable. The beautiful thing about a FLR, is that it never has to become predictable for very long, because the very nature of power exchange, means things can change at any time. Since power exchange, is affecting both partners at very sensitive levels it can be a lot of fun to explore it deeper, to really figure out how to reach deeper into it.
Keeping a submissive, locked up, teased and denied often, will keep him submissive. However, a domme should not forget that subspace is exactly where he wants to be. Itās the best place for him to be in to serve, however, over time, he can get used to subspace, and her power keeping him horny begins to waver a little bit, because itās what he wants. Being horny becomes his normal state of being.
This can be problematic, because he forgets what itās like to cum, and his body no longer has the urgent need to ejaculate. Without that need to ejaculate, he may still be subservient, but his desire to push limits, will have waned, and his subservience may have become routine, or not as enthusiastic. This is normal, and often tease and denial will perk him back up, among other things.
There is a way to bring back that desperation however, to turn him back into that very desperate submissive he once was when you were discovering the joys of chastity together. In those days where his submission was half motivated to submit, and half motivated to get the reward of ejaculation. The days where the passion was at its highest peak, and the chivalry was at its highest level.
It requires applying a little bit of reverse psychology, and this can be extremely fun for the domme as well as the submissive. You see, once he has reached that plateau of hornyness, heās no longer going to want to ejaculate, heās going to prefer saying denied. Ejaculation to him now, is a chore.
Ejaculation means having to go through subdrop for the next 12 hours or more. He doesnāt want to leave subspace, and he doesnāt want to experience subdrop, it makes him feel down, as if he came down from a high, almost depressed even. He loses all desire to submit, and he feels empty, unfulfilled. Ejaculation is almost like a punishment for him at this point.
Which is exactly why ejaculation has become the perfect way to bring him right back into deeper submission. A submissive should be taught to remain submissive, even if they donāt feel submissive, after ejaculation. This is very difficult for a submissive to do, especially in the early days. One primary method for helping him overcome this, is to have him consume his own cum afterward.
Making him consume his own cum, means the first thing he must do, after ejaculation is perform a submissive act. A submissive act that he really doesnāt want to perform. This keeps him in the submissive mindset, even when heās really not feeling it. Proper aftercare should then be taken after he has done this. He still wants to feel safe, and cared for.
Once he has learned to be submissive even after ejaculation, the real fun can begin after heās used to being in the horny plateau, which can take months. After months or years of infrequent, or no full ejaculations, the reverse psychology of ejaculating him can work wonders.
Bringing ejaculation back to the forefront of the relationship can take a bit of adjusting to, but its easier if heās been trained to be submissive afterward. Over a period of a couple weeks, to a month, a domme can increase the frequency of how often he gets to ejaculate. Perhaps in the first week, itās two times. Increasing it up to maybe twice a day by the end of the month.
Heās not going to be in subspace for an entire month almost, but remember, thatās not up to him! Whatās happening, is his body is once again getting used to ejaculating frequently, and so naturally he begins to crave that, while at the same time, craving subspace even more. He is completely at the mercy of a domme at this point.
When the times comes to be locked back up in chastity, heās going to once again, have a very difficult time adjusting to the chaste life, and his subservience is going to drastically soar back to begging for attention, and begging to service her with his enthusiastic tongue, while also begging for ejaculation. Itās quite the conundrum for him, and its a delicious amount of power for her. She can have so much fun playing with this, and come up with creative ideas along the way.
A female led relationship never has to get boring, or dull, or routine. A little reverse psychology can go a long way! Ejaculation becomes a doubled edged sword, his best friend, yet his greatest enemy, his domme is in total control of his sexuality and heās forever left guessing as to what might happen next!
Thank you for reading! Ā If youād like to learn more about female led relationships, check out my Practical FLR book series.
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