India Part Deux
I feel somewhat overdue for a post! It’s so crazy, we only have 9 days (9 days!!!) until we fly back to the UK. As some of you know we are planning some more travels for early 2019 but as this chapter of the trip draws to a close I keep thinking about how much has changed since we left on this trip and what, if anything, we have learned. Maybe first I will let you know what we’ve been up to in the last couple of weeks though!
After we left Nepal we spent a few days in Delhi. I was a bit apprehensive about heading back to India because I had found it a lot to take, at times, when we were there before. So, it was very, very nice that we ended up staying with friends! One of Luke’s old school mates and his wife are living in Delhi now and they took such good care of us. It made me feel a bit less like we were travelling and more like we were just staying with friends, which was a lovely little break. Before we left Delhi we spent one night in a very fancy hotel to spoil ourselves and belatedly celebrate Luke’s birthday. We also had, I think it’s safe to say, the best meal of the whole trip at the hotel’s restaurant, Indian Accent. It was unbelievable so if you ever find yourself in the neighbourhood, do not skip it!
After our luxurious 24hrs it was quite a harsh contrast to head to the Delhi train station where we were back to the world of, “why are there 1 million men around and why are they staring at me in a way I don’t like…even though I’m wearing a fleece half-zip and no makeup?” “Also, why does everything smell SO bad??”. There are a lot of reasons why the train stations smell so bad but I won’t bore you with that now :)
Our next stop was Rishikesh! It’s in a beautiful setting on the Ganges (a holy river) and gave us a bit of a similar feeling to Nepal. It’s also the “yoga capital of the world” so ALL the restaurants were really hippie/healthy, which I loved. We spent a few days there eating and exploring. It’s also the place where India drove me right over the edge of sanity and I essentially elbowed a middle-aged woman after she jostled me too hard (terrible). It all started on one of the pedestrian suspension bridges. There are two and although they are meant for pedestrians, motorbikes also use them. This, along with all the people taking selfies, means the entire bridge is essential one big traffic jam with lots of jostling and sharp honking. We were crossing the bridge one day when, out of nowhere, something clamped onto my arm. I looked up and it was an older Indian lady who had my forearm in her claw-like grip. As I looked at her she didn’t let go so I wrenched my arm out of her grasp. Luke thought maybe I had walked in front of her photo or something (?) but it made me so mad. I have a lot of patience, but not for strangers grabbing or touching me. Anyways, by the time we got to the end of the bridge I was in a rage, people kept jostling me and eventually I jostled back…hard. As the adrenalin slowly left my veins I was like, did I just elbow a lady? Whoa… who am I?
About a week later we were in a café in Varanasi and I was reading an old copy of Lonely Planet India from 2003 that lived in the café. In the introduction, it talks about the beauty and charm of India but also how provoking it is and how even well-seasoned travellers can find themselves sorely tested. I was like, this!! This is what happened to me! I’m a well-seasoned traveller! So it turns out I’m not crazy, India just pushes your buttons, even the Lonely Planet says so.
After Rishikesh was when we went to Varanasi, another city on the Ganges. After about 20hrs on the train to get there I was like, why did we decide to go here again?? But I’m really glad we did! It was so different from any of the other places we’ve been. It’s a very old city with a maze-like warren of tangled streets. It’s also an auspicious place to be cremated because it’s said that if you die there you are released from the cycle of reincarnation and can merge with the divine. There are a couple places along the river called burning Ghats where people are cremated and then sent into the river. All around the ghat there are massive piles of wood towering up the banks, it scared me a bit to even see the area for some reason and I said, Luke, get me outta here.
After Varanasi we went to Agra! We saw the Taj Mahal (obviously) and it is… gorgeous!! It’s just really, really beautiful. It was also a lot calmer than I expected. There was only the usual amount of hassling and they even seem to have cleared most of the cows out of the immediate vicinity of the Taj and put in some sidewalks! We also saw Agra Fort while we were there and had an adorable guide who was in his 70s. During the tour, we very quietly questioned whether we should have talked to some other guides first before deciding since we couldn’t understand him all that well. But we actually did learn a lot and it was priceless to watch him authoritatively swat young selfie takers out of the way and then indicate that we should take their place for the best views :)
And now we’re in Udaipur, with only 9 days left!
Photos below plus bonus video of Varanasi streets x
Humayun’s Tomb, Delhi
Man of luxury in Delhi
Rishikesh
Rishikesh streets with some kind of tikka explosion (coloured powder for blessings)
Varanasi
Water buffalo on the banks of the Ganges
Taj Mahal!
Crowds at the Taj
More Taj











