okay this post isnt going to be very coherent and i apologize for that
i was groomed by someone who used to be active on tumblr, no idea if they still are, but what i do know is that they used to be active in punk discord server spaces as well as plural ones.
this person is a 20 (turning 21) year old canadian dating a 16-17 year old kid online. and if their relationship is anything like their relationship with me, they are probably sexually exploiting this child under the guise of "well i'm a mennonite and age gaps are normalized."
they actively avoid mentioning their partners afe and both have erased their ages from their profiles completely because they are both aware this is wrong.
the 20 year old in questions discord user is anhedonicataraxia
"okay well wheres your proof"
right here!
we met back in late 2022/early 2023 when this person modded for a homestuck discord server, two of our headmates hit it off and at the time our host was experiencing phsycosis and deluded himself into thinking we were bodily 16 turning 17. at this time we were actually 14 turning 15.
despite understanding we were still a minor, this person (18 turning 19) was willing to have esex with us on multiple occasions. sometimes on call with them seeing us exposed and compromised.
once finding out we were 14 turning 15 they CONTINUED to have romantic and sexual relations with us up until they broke up with us in favor of their current partner. who is a year younger than us (if my memory is correct)
we were young and experiencing untreated bpd symptoms where this adult was our fp. we were groomed into believing it was normal up until this year where we cut them off due to coming to the realization we had been being groomed for 3 fucking years.
they cannot be trusted around children and i beg that if they are in a server you are in to try and get them out as soon as possible, this is NOT something that should be left alone. they've tried to justify their actions with the fact they're "mentally around 15-16" but mental age does not excuse the fact a literal 19 year old having sexual relations with a freshly 15 year old.
below are screenshots of them acknowledging our age and then continuing to have sexual conversations with us. i apologize for how poor these screenshots are, they were taken in a panic as i was preparing to block them and leave the server i had with them where most of this occurred.
warning for the fact these screenshots contain pieces of explicit conversations between a child and an adult.
im at a loss, i dont want more people to be affected by him and i know i wont be able to get through to their partner that theyre being groomed
unfortunate update, anhedonicaraxia, the adult in the situation, has deleted his discord. and his victim has moved discord accounts. the date in their discord account is no longer there, so i'm unsure on if they've detatched themselves from one another or if this was done because one of them saw the original post and are attempting to cover their tracks.
the new acc in the victims discord bio is not available, so i cannot gauge whether or not theyre still together. it doesn't seem like anything publicly about them being together is out there, so i'm at a dead end. i still encourage people to be on the lookout, especially in the spaces mentioned in the original post.
