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long and personal under the cut

I'm reblogging this because it's relevant and I don't want the rest of this post to seem like it's coming out of nowhere.

Starting today I'm going on indefinite hiatus from all of my social media. It's taking all of my energy just to get my homework done this quarter (and I'm quite a bit behind on that front as well), and I feel like eliminating distractions is the first step toward me feeling better.

Thank you for all of the wonderful supportive messages! I truly appreciate it. I'm going to give it my best from here on out. I hope you all have a wonderful rest of 2014! Please take care of yourself.

harmoniees

What is really wicked is judging people without even trying to get to know them!

#my princess #pandora hearts

thatstacey

newyorksjojo

I haven’t seen this movie and I’m already 100% sure that it’s the most accurate video game adaptation in history

#MY FAVORITE #this movie is a true work of art #ace attorney

mouldering

with your life sewn open breathe in, put the bone back in buried under the skin murder in reverse

#baby #pandora hearts #spoilers for sara #q

wordsnquotes

Dear Me, one day I’ll make you proud.

Charlotte Eriksson (via wordsnquotes)

#words #q

omgtsn

Visit Original Link

when mom isn’t gaming

omgtsn

WHAT A FUCK

why this many note

kingofthepleasantpatch

i hope this meme never dies

thegoodfoothousehold

Sounds like boss battle music.

#oh my god #trombone and oven meme

wanaongaku

The boy cries ya a sweater of tears

#and you kill him

fanboyofallthings

Colonel Jade Curtiss

#tales of the abyss #q

questionlife

#cats #q

fortinbrasftw

How do girls and boys develop these different views? Most likely, it has to do with the kinds of feedback we get from parents and teachers as young children. Girls, who develop self-control earlier and are better able to follow instructions, are often praised for their “goodness.” When we do well in school, we are told that we are “so smart,” “so clever, ” or ” such a good student.” This kind of praise implies that traits like smartness, cleverness, and goodness are qualities you either have or you don’t. Boys, on the other hand, are a handful. Just trying to get boys to sit still and pay attention is a real challenge for any parent or teacher. As a result, boys are given a lot more feedback that emphasizes effort (e.g., “If you would just pay attention you could learn this,” “If you would just try a little harder you could get it right.”) The net result: When learning something new is truly difficult, girls take it as sign that they aren’t “good” and “smart”, and boys take it as a sign to pay attention and try harder. We continue to carry these beliefs, often unconsciously, around with us throughout our lives. And because bright girls are particularly likely to see their abilities as innate and unchangeable, they grow up to be women who are far too hard on themselves—women who will prematurely conclude that they don’t have what it takes to succeed in a particular arena, and give up way too soon.

Psychology Today, The Trouble With Bright Girls (via fortinbrasftw)

#too real #feminism