Where is the love?

We need more humanity!

[mentalquotes]

[liarwinlove]

[whereisthelove-humanity]

"Wenn du mich liebst, bleib´ jetzt bei mir und warte."

Casper - TNT - feat. TUA

[dankmemeuniversity]

[understands]

[boy-so-pale]

[akindplace]

Liz Fosslien

[idkmaybeitsbpd]

That empty, overwhelming, sinking, realizing feeling when you thought you were doing so good and recovering from your fear of abandonment but your thoughts relapse when your favorite person acts distant for just one day, you’re whole day is crumbling, trying to rationalize why they are distant because asking if they are okay is so crazy in your head. To ask for reassurance because you’ll know the answer. They’d say “no” but it feels like they are distant still. The one word responses, the time frame in which they text back. How does someone get over this feeling? Will it ever go away? It feels like it won’t and it comes back 100 times harder when you’re recovering. Why is texting such an issue?! It doesn’t feel like this when I am with them. As soon as I am no longer with them. It comes back, those thoughts, those haunting, self deceiving thoughts.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

[kissedbythevoid]

[nemevex]

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them harder, detached and insensitive.

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them friendlier, more open and loud.

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them paranoid and aggressive.

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them kinder, softer and more sensitive.

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them lose guilt, shame, or empathy.

giving love to trauma survivors whose trauma made them gain more guilt, shame, or empathy.

you are all valid.

[saying]

[whereisthelove-humanity]

Juliet trust me I know that you’ve been alone I’ll be here when you’re ready for someone - Beth McCarthy - lovestory

[whereisthelove-humanity]

Stop with the self hating Cause’ I can see it’s keeping you down - Beth McCarthy - lovestory

[whereisthelove-humanity]

Juliet trust me you’ll be better off alone Stop waiting for somebody else’s love Don’t need a prince

when you’re already a queen Write your own story

where baby you are the lead

Beth McCarthy - lovestory

[love-notes-to-survivors]

It's really hard when you think you're healed from something and it affects you all over again. Like an old trigger still has an effect on you, or an old self-destructive habit comes back, or you still have panic attacks or nightmares over something you thought you were over. I know it really sucks, but it doesn't mean that you haven't made progress. It's okay if healing isn't a straight line.

[20o1-deactivated20240129-deacti]

hi! sorry to interrupt you scrolling, but i just wanted to remind you that you are very loved, needed and appreciated. there is so much waiting for you in the future, so hang in there!