📍pinned post!📍 as a reminder, please be 18+ before interacting with this blog!
🙋🏻♂️ you can call me Avery! i am not new here. the first version of this blog dated back to 2012 before the great ban of 2018, and i deleted at 1,000 followers and 50,000+ posts because i would rather have deleted than be terminated. and the second version lasted a few days before i realized that blogs marked as explicit before the ban were marked permanently - so i wouldn't be able to change my avatar or header image. so thank you, tumblr, very cool.
👨🏻💻 this is obviously a gay adult blog, but this is also a side blog! as much as i might appreciate your content, i cannot follow you back from this blog.
🙅🏻♂️ the ban of 2018 was awful, but it "had to happen for a reason." as much as i could have used tumblr as a resource to (relatively safely) explore my identities before entering adulthood, please be 18+ before interacting with this blog. there are ways - safe and legal - to learn about yourself that don't include infiltrating adult social circles and putting other people and (most importantly) yourself (but also other people, *as this post points out*) at risk.
🕊️ twitter might not be around for a long time, but my twitter counterpart account is (t)here for a good time! (again, 18+, click here)
💐 i strive for inclusiveness. my twitter counterpart account is a shining example of that. everyone should be celebrated! tumblr, other platforms, and society in general just might be slower to recognize that. with 20-something bloggers with extensive DNI lists and "i block liberally" in their bios on the rise, if you have over-25, plus-size, non-white and/or non-cis adult blogs to recommend, send me a message!
💁🏻♂️ do i have any recommendations? yes - anyone i reblog from. at this rate, i think we all see the same posts eventually.
🙇🏻♂️ i want mine to be a body-positive, sex-positive and pro-sex work presence. i believe that if it serves you in ways you want it to serve you, and if you aren’t hurting anyone in the process, then that’s your call that i support you to make! we're all just trying to make it through life, trying to feel good, and trying to feel good about ourselves; and we should able to share in that with other people.
🥂 cheers! please be safe out there, make good choices, and i will try to keep posting regularly.
